I am a cute & intelligent guy, I dress moderately with enough swag to match but I don't know why ugly girls usually find me attractive. I've been into some relationships in the past but none had seemed to work out perfectly.

I had trust issues with my last girlfriend and decided to call the relationship quit and had since vowed never to rush into a new relationship and also rush out, because that seemed to be the end result.

However, some ugly girls had been looking for several ways to become my girlfriend from their reactions but to no avail as I'd rather remain celibate than engage a relationship with an ugly girl. No dis-respect to all the ugly babes on Nairaland but I think a good-looking brother deserve a good-looking sister, or so I say.

One of these ugly girls was a friend of a friend, I don't know exactly how she got my number but she called me sometime ago with a 'private number' and a fake name and somehow we got talking. Ironically, the fake name happens to be the namesake of someone I had a crush on, so I played along thinking she was the one. After that time, this ugly girl kept calling me without hiding her number and also sending me endless text messages so I saved her number.

I outrightly fell in love with her plus she had an angelic voice. It's ironic how ugly girls usually have pretty voices, innit? One day she finally revealed her true identity to me while we were gisting on phone, immediately she called her real name I instantly recognised her and felt my whole world crashing upon me, this was a girl I usually calls practically four times per day, sometimes I would send her love quotes before going to bed and when I can't think of a suitable one I would google it and then send it to her.

To make matters worst, this girl was not only ugly but she had knock knees. Anyways, I pitily ended the call that day but not after I lied that I was not the guy she knew, I could feel the pain, sadness and emotional trauma I made her go through but there was really nothing I could do. I felt bad afterwads but nothing spectacular could had been between the both of us.

Aside her, about four other girls whom I also consider ugly are trying to get into my life but yet to succeed. It's not like I am being cocky about my looks but I just don't fancy dating ugly girls and I believe alot of other guys reading this feels the same way I do. The thing is, all these girls demand for my phone number and I reluctantly give it to them but never call, they always do the calling and sometimes complain that I don't care as if I'am their boyfriend.

I could easily give them a stern warning never to call me again but that's unlike me, I don't like to hurt a girl's feelings, but then my heart keeps judging me becaues of pretence. Have you been in such situation before? How did you get rid of them? Please advice me!

The lemon law...

My martha ain't ugly sha..

@op. You attract what you exude. You might not know this, going by your thread, you exude ugliness of the spirit and a desperation for beautiful girls (thats why they don't come your way) and to a large extent it manifests in reality. If you keep pushing against them ugly girls in mind and in action, they will troop to you in droves.

Welcome them, make them your friend on a platonic level. In this way, you will learn a lot from them, seem less desperate for fine babes( which is by the way a huge turn on),and you never can tell they may have beautiful friends that dig you. Anyways, there no fine or ugly girls, society just likes putting name tag on everything for easy identification

Op u need deliverance

Hmmm

It is your destiny. Stop whining.

U mghty pity her and cal atleast ones a yr. Bt stop using an emotional words on them. Dnt invite thm. Dnt go nearer to thm. Let d greeting end only in cal. Her mind wl tel her sh wont get u.dnt use ur mouth to tel her to leave u

@ op , show us ur pix or u just lied

;DKai nairaland no go kill me oooo

pics or it didn't happen

Birds of identical plumage congregate the same flow of horizontal conglomerity,,,dia mus be sthg de see in u dat is also in dem...

jmoore: It is your destiny. Stop whining.

wow. Destiny to be stuck with the ugly ones?
I reject such destiny!

Pretyangel25: Op u need deliverance

Are you ugly?

jmoore: It is your destiny. Stop whining.

GOD FORBID!

You probably are not doing enough to attract the 'beautiful' ladies. Step up your game, brother.

Realdon1: U mghty pity her and cal atleast ones a yr. Bt stop using an emotional words on them. Dnt invite thm. Dnt go nearer to thm. Let d greeting end only in cal. Her mind wl tel her sh wont get u.dnt use ur mouth to tel her to leave u

Thanks for the tips. I had since stopped all forms of communication but they won't just relent. Maybe I have to change my attitude towards them.

Utchgirl: @ op , show us ur pix or u just lied

Hmmm, I don't want you to break up with your boyfriend because of me.

Omo visit d nearest Aladura empire 4 some intercession n interventions..................hehehehehehehe

sweetestguy: Birds of identical plumage congregate the same flow of horizontal conglomerity,,,dia mus be sthg de see in u dat is also in dem...

All these grammer for me? Anyways, I got your point. Perhaps, the only thing they see in me is that, I have a nice heart.

Lovexme: You probably are not doing enough to attract the 'beautiful' ladies. Step up your game, brother.

Noted.

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All these grammer for me? Anyways, I got your point. Perhaps, the only thing they see in me is that, I have a nice heart.

wow I neva tot u wud understand dat, ure very smart

youngds: [size=18pt]Tellme who your friends are & i will tell you who you're!!

Omo your mirror they deceive you lately, cos if you for fine as you said, them(ugly girls) for don lose hope for your matter and find a guy that match them(NO OFFENSE), & not someone that's way more good looking than them so shut-up and compromise before you lose 80 for 20
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In other words, what you're saying is that, ugly girls only opt for their fellow counterpart, but I'm glad to tell you that such philosophy has no place in this modern society. These days, ugly girls gets more handsome and better men and the rationale is evident. Personally, I won't mind marrying a not-too-good-looking lady but I can't have such lady as a girlfriend. Atleast, It's better than me being ashamed to walk with her in public, go to the movies with her or even introduce her to my friends. All for All, I'll say you're wrong.

sweetestguy: wow I neva tot u wud understand dat, ure very smart

Why did you say so?

same here' truth is when you are facially ok as a guy you'll get alot of attention from girls both cute n d ones on the other side' but cos the not so cute ones ve been wooin guys since God knows wen due to thr lack of facial beauty' they will flirt with cute guys alot n chase him real hard. just enjoy the moment and dont get commited ' simple. and i personally dont think anyones ugly' we all beautifully made ' you are either good looking or not ' i dnt call it ugly ' dats 2 hardcore

sкчscrαρεr™:
Why did you say so?

cos nt everyone wud, I was even expectin a curse

This is how it is:
Beautiful gurlz exhibit some sort of self esteem dat wont make dem go for jst only looks. From what U wrote above, wat I can deduce is that "U r not charismatic", U lack swags( I aint talking abt ur dressing)**no offence**. Their is a kind of way U carry urself dat scares Ugly girls. Ugly gurlz find U attractive cos they believe dey av a chance wif U cos U r easy (in dis case U r d prey nd they r d predator, U knw: predators look for d easy prey). Beautiful gurlz want a charismatic handsome guyz not some cute, pretty, sweet dude. Like sum1 said above, "step up ur game" nd exhibit some charisma bro (real charisma not some childish swags). Do this nd see how "Ugly gurlz" will bug off.

sкчscrαρεr™:
In other words, what you're saying is that, ugly girls only opt for their fellow counterpart, but I'm glad to tell you that such philosophy has no place in this modern society. These days, ugly girls gets more handsome and better men and the rationale is evident. Personally, I won't mind marrying a not-too-good-looking lady but I can't have such lady as a girlfriend. Atleast, It's better than me being ashamed to walk with her in public, go to the movies with her or even introduce her to my friends. All for All, I'll say you're wrong.

so what bothers you about an ugly is what other people will think about her, this is very juvinile

Enyia change ur swag..... Fine babe s go flow........

Step up..... weda u r handsome or ugly......

na ur personality matters...thats wot trip girl s......

Wake up man. ..