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Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 7:08pm On Aug 06, 2008
Chei?

e be like say i don dey kolo o. Wen i dey think say i don get over d guy.

Busy_body,
dis na another sleepless night for you o.
where u dey now??
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by zheroes(m): 7:10pm On Aug 06, 2008
you are really having fun!!! thats more like it.

please date him! attraction knows no bounds you know.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Nobody: 7:16pm On Aug 06, 2008
@poster
I may not be easy.
But if you're determined to cut him off, it's like a snap of your fingers. easy
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 7:21pm On Aug 06, 2008
Mistiky,

I get u. I feel u. Infact, I know.
Abeg pray for me o. E be like say e no go easy.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Mistiky(m): 7:27pm On Aug 06, 2008
no need 2 pray 4 u.

Wen d time is ryt, u'll either cut him off or go with him.

Just try to make sure u tk d decision with as much of a clear head as u can muster.

No rule says u av to stick with ur current and no rule says you have to go with the new,

Every rule says u have to do wots best for u. Chikena
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Gamine(f): 7:31pm On Aug 06, 2008
LOL.

Tgiirl, abeg cut the guy now

it may be too late soon oooh

some things need ACS not prayer
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 7:45pm On Aug 06, 2008
Yes o.

I'll def cut him off. It just aint easy. I av no choice though. I'm working on it. Dat's why I need u guys to talk some common sense into this brain
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 2:21am On Aug 07, 2008
Gamine:

@Busy Body

Ebo ti igun gbe t'ofi pa lori, ohun ni akalamagbo she yo gege l'orun lipsrsealed


Did she just abuse my mother angry tongue


This one na real conundrum o. shocked Which kain abule them exhume am come from sef?


O feel pe o ti shine l'oju ara re abi? cool


Where do I start from sef?


Ebo - discard does not sound like Yoruba Yoruba language


ti - that


egun - bone or masquerade


gbe - carry


t'ofi - that it used to


pa - kill or rub


lori  - on head or on


ohun - it is


ni - this or that


akalamagbo - hmmn, this is definately okoro language


she - why


yo - remove or pullout


gege - dribble phew nearly dismissed this as hausa


l'orun - in heaven or on the neck



Tgirl4real:

Busy_body,
this na another sleepless night for you o.
where u dey now??

I tire for Gamine o, she wan kill ketekete

Abeg, you sabi any okoro or ete person wey fit translate EBO and AKALAMAGBO undecided
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by KarmaMod(f): 2:22am On Aug 07, 2008
she's edo
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by HCH3COO: 2:30am On Aug 07, 2008
Lol! I understand what gamine said.  o npa owe ni.


busy_body
when she said ebo

ebo pronounced hehbor - like those used in rituals.  just think ebo oritameta  grin  grin
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 2:30am On Aug 07, 2008
KarmaMod:

she's edo

Gamine is Edo shocked

So how comes she speaks Yoruba Yoruba so well? shocked

So is that EBO and AKALATHINGY Edo speak? undecided

So many questions, my head hurts cry
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by KarmaMod(f): 2:39am On Aug 07, 2008
Busy_body:
\
So how comes she speaks Yoruba Yoruba so well? shocked

Most of them speak and understand it more than their own language.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 2:44am On Aug 07, 2008
HCH3COO:

Lol! I understand what gamine said.  o npa owe ni.

I see, so she wants to send masquerade from her village to rub my head or kill or sacrifice me shocked and send me to heaven. Until then cool

Na Amadioha and Sango go fire that mouth.

HCH3COO:

busy_body
when she said ebo

ebo pronounced hehbor. just think ebo oritameta grin grin

hehbor - is this egun or tapa language? cheesy

oritameta - t-junction

Okay, I get it, ebo is sacrifice grin grin grin

phew, one down, one hundred to go

So please what is that AKALAMATHINGY she called me undecided
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by HCH3COO: 2:48am On Aug 07, 2008
eiye lo'nje akalamagbo.

akalamagbo - type of bird.

and yes, hehbor(ebo) is a sort of sacrificial offering.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 2:50am On Aug 07, 2008
KarmaMod:

Most of them speak and understand it more than their own language.

I am yoruba and I got A1 in yoruba language in my GCSE, and it's not because the teacher fancied me cool grin

Dang, that's why I asked earlier where she was exhumed from. She is not set. I bet she is an entity grin
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 2:59am On Aug 07, 2008
HCH3COO:

eiye oju ofurufu lo'nje akalamagbo.

akalamagbo - bird.

and yes, hehbor(ebo) is a sort of sacrificial offering.

stop scaring me na cry

Mo ti koja aye mi, mo ru igi oyin.

She is invoking the birds in the sky and the masquerades in her village to dribble me and sacrifice me as an offering to heaven cry

Abeg Gamine, you be ewele, this one pass me o, YOU CAN HAVE HIM, I no do again. Plus I will include ma'self in the package to be at your beck and call. cry

Geez, Eda omo odua

Thanks for the intepretation KarmaMod and HCH3C00. Thanks to Gamine too for stealing my man with ogboju.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 9:20am On Aug 07, 2008
There u go again busy_body. Yesterday it was orin, today it is owe. Wetin na?

Wen I dey think sey u no go sleep cos of my problem. U no even talk say u see d thing wey do me yesterday.

Gamine, no show ur face for here o. Before the two of u turn d thread to 'owe' thread. Lol
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Gamine(f): 10:43am On Aug 07, 2008
ROTFLMAOSLMBITMSL

OH MY DAYS!!! grin grin grin grin

Busy abi you don see wetin busy body dey cause pesin tongue tongue tongue tongue tongue
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 1:05pm On Aug 07, 2008
Lol
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by WhyWorry(m): 3:33pm On Aug 07, 2008
Ebo ti igun gbe t'ofi pa lori, ohun ni akalamagbo she yo gege l'orun


Haba busy_body, why u allow Gamine to carry you shine like this? Literally, this translates as:

"The sacrifice that the vulture carried that made it bald is what the phoenix carried that caused its adam's apple (on the neck)"

Meaning: 1) One man's food is another man's poison 2) Different strokes for different folks 3) What is good for the goose may not be good for the gander etc

Gamine, that was heavy! Which village you grow up?
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 3:38pm On Aug 07, 2008
Ask am abeg.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by WhyWorry(m): 4:02pm On Aug 07, 2008
Anyway, Tgirl, get a handle on your emotions, cut the unwanted (it can be difficult, but do it all the same), grow your relationship with your fiance and get married to him- soon.

Gamine, wey you? More of those proverbs, joo!
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 5:02pm On Aug 07, 2008
Thanks whyworry. I will get a grip on myself soon and I wont hav to worry. Lol
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Gamine(f): 5:43pm On Aug 07, 2008
LOL.

Abeg wey Busy Body, na today she dey form busy?? tongue

@WhyWorry

Omo men ko easy oo!!
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 07, 2008
@ poster

What a story!
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 10:32pm On Aug 07, 2008
Moyola:

u stil singin?!!  undecided

Hi aunty





          # # Oluwa lo f'oro si e lenu, . . .
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 10:46pm On Aug 07, 2008
Tgirl4real:

Y'all,

I know u guys will yab me tire.

Guess what

This bobo buzz me not long ago and asked where I was (i was on my way home frm work & he was on his way too), guess what silly me did after respondn?

I picked my mirror and checked myself out if I was still looking good.

Hope d guy never use juju on me oooo.

Why do you think we will yab you angry? I am offended that you could think as such sad cry

Let me guess wetin you see for inside mirror, oya confess shay no bi oju kokoro and oju ole you see?

# # oju ole re, ole
       oju ole re, ole
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 10:51pm On Aug 07, 2008
Tgirl4real:

There u go again busy_body. Yesterday it was orin, today it is owe. Wetin na?

Ija l'ode l'orin d'owe, innit? grin

Tgirl4real:

Wen I dey think sey u no go sleep because of my problem.

Okay, I lied small, I only slept with one eye open

Tgirl4real:

You no even talk say u see d thing wey do me yesterday.

I don tell una say no be only one load read to market, dive in, bite the bullet, do wetin you wan do quickly and commot your eye, long throat grin  Don't you agree Dr kantz26? I be fast learner o. See as u corrupt me within 24 hours. cheesy

Tgirl4real:

Gamine, no show your face for here o. Before the two of u turn d thread to 'owe' thread. Lol

hiding behind Tgirl4realYou berra tell her, otherwise she would feel the full force of my wrath.
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Tgirl4real(f): 10:58pm On Aug 07, 2008
Busy_body. And u talk say u know dey yab me. Wetin u come do now. Na me be oju kokoro oju ole.
Ose gaan ni.

Anyway, wen I looked I saw dis fine pretty babe. Envy of all eyes. Lol
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Sisikill: 11:04pm On Aug 07, 2008
Recently, I met a guy and we have been good friends from the beginning. I would say the attraction was there from the day we met. I don't have the intention of dating him because i'm in a healthy relationship that is heading towards marriage.

However, he made his intentions clear from d day we met. He likes me and he wants to date me. I don't double date. I can't cheat on my partner. But, I must confess that i like this guy. We speak on phone often. We chat alot too.

I'm planning to cut him out. Honestly, it hasn't been easy. Today is the first day on my humble journey of cutting him out. We haven't interacted at all today and meen i'm feeling so bored already.

Do you think i will get over it soon? I need your opinions!!!


Okay, first of all, you are NOT in a healthy relationship if you are talking with, enjoying the company of and missing another guy. . . let’s clear that up right now.

What are the things you do with this new guy and why can’t you do them with your husband to be?

Why is it easier to talk to this guy instead of your husband to be?

Are you marrying your boyfriend because you love him or because he’s like a comfortable pair of shoes you keep for sentimental reasons?

Why do you miss this other guy?

Ask yourself these questions and please for the love of God, don’t go into marriage if are not comfortable with your answers, you’d just end up hurting more people.

I can’t tell you what to do but if I were in your shoes, I’d definitely open myself up to exploring the new relationship because there has to be a reason you are feeling the way you do.

Good Luck and remember at the end of the day, YOU are who is IMPORTANT. Selfish? You darn skippy it is and contrary to what some people think, being selfish isn't always bad. Think of it this way, if you put yourself first and you make yourself happy, the guy you pick will enjoy the fruit of your selfishness! So Baby be good to yourself! grin
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 11:14pm On Aug 07, 2008
WhyWorry:

Haba busy_body, why u allow Gamine to carry you shine like this? . . .

Don't you know that you don't rush to eat eko ti ogbona angry angry angry

I am only temporarily adopting the stance of Agbo t'o re yin, agbara lo lo mu wa cool

WhyWorry:

Gamine, that was heavy! Which village you grow up?

I knew it had to be a village cool Abegi, helep me ask that entity where she was exhumed from o
Re: How Do I Handle This Situation by Busybody2(f): 11:18pm On Aug 07, 2008
Sisikill:


Okay, first of all, you are NOT in a healthy relationship if you are talking with, enjoying the company of and missing another guy. . . let’s clear that up right now.

What are the things you do with this new guy and why can’t you do them with your husband to be?

Why is it easier to talk to this guy instead of your husband to be?

Are you marrying your boyfriend because you love him or because he’s like a comfortable pair of shoes you keep for sentimental reasons?

Why do you miss this other guy?

Ask yourself these questions and please for the love of God, don’t go into marriage if are not comfortable with your answers, you’d just end up hurting more people.

I can’t tell you what to do but if I were in your shoes, I’d definitely open myself up to exploring the new relationship because there has to be a reason you are feeling the way you do.

Good Luck and remember at the end of the day, YOU are who is IMPORTANT. Selfish? You darn skippy it is and contrary to what some people think, being selfish isn't always bad. Think of it this way, if you put yourself first and you make yourself happy, the guy you pick will enjoy the fruit of your selfishness! So Baby be good to yourself! grin


Preach it sis. cheesy

# # Sisters are doing it for themselves.

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