WhyWorry:

. . . Gamine, wey you? More of those proverbs, joo!

I thought you liked me and were on my side

Sisikill,

I don't know what to say o!!!

Tgirl4real:

Sisikill,

I don't know what to say o!!!

You don't know what to say to who? Sisikill, the landlord or the caretaker?

Did our friend call you today?

It is not as if you are getting married anytime soon, so you are not really doing anything wrong by using our man as a crutch once in a while. And you are not sleeping with neither of them so go with the flow.

But don't let the current carry you away sha o

Good advice. Infact he just called me sef. One way or the other we have finally agreed on just being friends. I hope it works out like that sha.

The main issue here is dat I can't throw away smthn more sure for just some months of fun cos it's not like he is proposing somethn.

I have had sex with none of them

thanks for this you give people hope. keeep yourself and testimony pls. it is a phase and you will overcome

Tgirl4real:

Good advice. Infact he just called me sef. One way or the other we have finally agreed on just being friends. I hope it works out like that sha.

The main issue here is that I can't throw away smthn more sure for just some months of fun because it's not like he is proposing somethn.

Whatever you decide to do, keep this second paragraph close to your heart and meditate on it. There are too many baaaaaad girls on this forum.

Busy_body:

Whatever you decide to do, keep this second paragraph close to your heart and meditate on it. [b]There are too many baaaaaad girls on this forum[/b].

you can say that again

And I won't allow them spoil me.

Thanks for the encouragement Waleab.

bless you dear sister. we all fall we must get up again. a saint they say is a siner that fell but got up. so long as you are in this world you will be tempted. that is not sin. it is the yielding that is sin and that is a pond you must never fish because of the name and annointing you carry

like i sad Gods grace is available yanfu yanfu to keep you and guide you

waleab:

you can say that again

Zip it Who gave you permission to talk about my sisters like that

your sisters are wonerfull and mostly too clever. i be village boy o . na u i dey follow sista

Gamine:

LOL.

Abeg wey Busy Body, na today she dey form busy??

## Eni ri owo ye l'oju ala t'o ndunu . . .

@Busy_Body
Rotflmao. . . I don't want to spoil her oh, I just want her happiness now, that's all.

See. . . I

[I] Touches the floor with finger, licks finger and point is to the heavens[/I]

Sweeeeeeeear, I only have her best interest at heart.


@Tgirl4real
Have you heard? Tread sofly, softly but still remember. . . You know.

Sisikill,

lol

Busybody,

Abeg come interprete the owe o. Phew! D thing dey give me headache o. I don dey sweat sef. I no even get d slightest idea. Can't even read it.

Tgirl4real:

Sisikill,

lol

Busybody,

Abeg come interprete the owe o. Phew! D thing dey give me headache o. I don dey sweat sef. I no even get d slightest idea. Can't even read it.

Where is the owe that you want me to interprete? Who is giving you headache make I come sort the person out



^{Whyworry and Gamine it's my time to shine You go see mad skills today} _{tsk tsk tsk}

Sisi, so its nice to be selfish eh?, ; and Iyalode supported your position on that, OMG !!

Negro_Ntns:

Sisi, so its nice to be selfish eh?, ; and Iyalode supported your position on that, OMG !!

Sisikill:

. . . being selfish isn't always bad. Think of it this way, if you put yourself first and you make yourself happy, the guy you pick will enjoy the fruit of your selfishness! So Baby be good to yourself! [/b]

See we ladies only have the best interest of the guys at heart

See we ladies only have the best interest of the guys your pocket at heart

Iyalode, you aint lying

Negro_Ntns:

Sisi,  so its nice to be selfish eh?, ;   and Iyalode supported your position on that, OMG !!

LMOA! Yes Iyalode supported my position but you know YOU alone have the final say. So what do you think? Before you make a call, let me explain why I think so.

It's simple really. . .

After marriage, a woman's life does not belong to her any more. She can't be selfish even if she tried to. . .

She's got her husbands needs to cater to.
She's got his family to work her needs around
Her family (sometimes)
Then she has her kids and every selfish desire goes out the window.

As Nigerian women, most of us know this. . . in as much as we do gra gra right now, going on an on about marriage equality and whatnot, we almost always cave to these expectations. With that in mind, would you deprive of us of this moment of selfishness? Remember at the end of it all, it's the guy who ends us benefiting from it all. Surely you see where I am coming from. . . Sensei?

Say, Using The Woe Is Me strategy [/i]to win an argument is not part of the teaching to reaching the Lotus Realm, is it? Yeah I didn't think so!

Drats!I think I'm mixing up my [i]"How To Wins An Argument With a Man" lessons with my "Reaching Enlightenment" lessons!


Iyalode, I respect your opinion too oh  

Busybody, I think I'm gettn what you said to Gamine now.

You said: person dat saw money in d dream dat is rejoicing - literally.

lol, Sisi, when you open your mouth, I consider it the voice of the oracle already.  The Orishas have spoken!  Sensei is only around to guide the steps, not the message my dear.  

You are absolutely right on your views.  Sometimes one must tread modestly and avoid the extremes.  I dont need to go into details, we both speak same language.

Negro_Ntns:

. . . Iyalode, you aint lying

Which pocket Are you seeing something I am not seeing Tgirl4real come and explain ya'self pronto.

Sisikill:


LMOA! Yes Iyalode supported my position but you know YOU alone have the final say. So what do you think? Before you make a call, let me explain why I think so.

It's simple really. . .

After marriage, a woman's life does not belong to her any more. She can't be selfish even if she tried to. . .

She's got her husbands needs to cater to.
She's got his family to work her needs around
Her family (sometimes)
Then she has her kids and every selfish desire goes out the window.

As Nigerian women, most of us know this. . . in as much as we do gra gra right now, going on an on about marriage equality and whatnot, we almost always cave to these expectations. With that in mind, would you deprive of us of this moment of selfishness? Remember at the end of it all, it's the guy who ends us benefiting from it all. Surely you see where I am coming from. . . Sensei?

Say, Using The Woe Is Me strategy [/i]to win an argument is not part of the teaching to reaching the Lotus Realm, is it? Yeah I didn't think so!

Drats!I think I'm mixing up my [i]"How To Wins An Argument With a Man" lessons with my "Reaching Enlightenment" lessons!

This marriage business is making me feel nauseous again. Na men, I love ma'self too much and I am too selfish to share myself with anyone.

Sisikill:

Iyalode, I respect your opinion too oh 

Me na only big mouth I get o, I no get liver o. Na that bad Dr kantz26 dey corrupt me o.

Iyalode,

Scroll up u will see one of ur post directed at Gamine. Limited ryt now cos I'm on mobile. Infact my battery don flat. I wan go sleep. Catch y'all later.

Odaaro o.

Don't be scared of his opinion of you, as far as I know, he shouldn't matter, it shouldn't matter whether he gets angry or anything, this is your future we are talking about, and if you're sure about your finace then this guy is just a time waster if allowed to take root will destroy your plans.

Tgirl4real:

Good advice. Infact he just called me sef. One way or the other we have finally agreed on just being friends. I hope it works out like that sha.

Na which one b one way or the other Don't break the guy's heart na

Tgirl4real:

Busybody, I think I'm gettn what you said to Gamine now.
You said: person that saw money in d dream that is rejoicing - literally.

ROFPMSL wahala igo ti o fe pa oni ice-water .

Tgirl4real:

Iyalode,
Scroll up u will see one of your post directed at Gamine. Limited ryt now because I'm on mobile. Infact my battery don flat. I wan go sleep. Catch y'all later.
Odaaro o.

Oda aro my dear, night night, sweetdreams , think about him.

Dream about him? Which 'him' now?

Ha Iyalode, wen i dey think say you get my best interest at heart. Na so life be. Anywayz goodumorin o!

I thought you liked me and were on my side

@Busy_body, I kukuma dey your side but when I see say Gamine proverb no get level, with all your A1 for Yoruba wey you get, na hin make I talk so o.  No vex,  e don tay when I hear person talk original Yoruba adage like that.  E remind me of DO Fagunwa books.

@Tgirl, Which one you dey again?  Na who you wan think before?  See me see this girl o.  You get person wey you wan marry, wey don know your mama, know your papa, sabi you finish, na to carry wine for your head remain, you still dey wan think about person wey na to carry you go tantalizer only im want!  Na wa o. 

K'Oluwa ma gba wa lowo idewo ke.  Remember say Oju to ti r'okun, t'ori osa, ko tun gbodo l'oun o mo eni ri o.  Aabo oro la nso f'omoluwabi. . .

Wey that entity Gamine make e talk wetin that one mean well well for you o? lol

Hmm, i see how they don conspire against me ooh

i be only get one thing to say

A pe ko to jeun, ki je ibaje

Gamine,
Na for olori oko u thief that one o.

Whyworry,
no be like so o. I bin wan know wetin iyalode talk well well.
Oju ti o ti rin ni ko gbo do sope ohun o moni mo

Olori oko ko

Olori oko ni