logica: LMAO @ the backlash.

paris10:

Promiscuity shouldnt form basis of your argument. You should consider other possibilities and senseless reasons why men divorce women.

The macho man and the " I am the owner of this house" syndrome is the only reason why Nigerian men behave this callously. If Nigerian men start parting with half of their property maybe they will think twice before filing for a divorce.

paris10:

Backlash indeed!. That shows you how men are opposed to change.

DailyNews: In as much as I like and agree with your comment, I would like to advice ladies to pray for a good man...pray to marry into a good family....and pray for an enduring marriage and don't go thinking about divorce. Divorce is not a good option...don't make plans for it...plan for good and you will have the best. Be financially independent, save and invest as a married lady but not just because of: if your husband divorces you or dies cos whatever you plan for will surely happen with time...most ladies that lose their hubbies or get divorced do crop the idea of fear of death or divorce....a study has showed this. So avoid thinking about it...same way, if you dont want to be a victim of accident, dont think about accident when you are inside a moving car...focus on getting to your destination in peace than cropping an inner fear in your mind.

mgbeketoto: Nigerian women!
Learn from the WHITE MAN AND WOMAN!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2JXSeaS2ZhI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aoIc3xGE0bQ

lady gogo: i sometimes wonder what all those female legislators do with their time in the National Assembly.

If these measures were in place i trust that a lot of endurance type marriages will have ended a long time ago.

paris10: As in the norms in Nigeria, women who get divorced or are been thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their husbands tend to lose out alot.

Even in domestic violence cases, women who couldnt take the violence any longer divorce the husband without sharing in the property.

Though Nigeria is not UK, US or other western countries where women share in the estate or property of the husband after divorce, Nigerian men should atleast take responsibility in making sure the woman they divorce would be well-off after letting her go.

Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone else. Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

paris10: As in the norms in Nigeria, women who get divorced or are been thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their husbands tend to lose out alot.
Even in domestic violence cases, women who couldnt take the violence any longer divorce the husband without sharing in the property.
Though Nigeria is not UK, US or other western countries where women share in the estate or property of the husband after divorce, Nigerian men should atleast take responsibility in making sure the woman they divorce would be well-off after letting her go.
Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone else. Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.
Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

Arial.bold:
Women are suffering in Nigeria. This is not a new story.
Instead of us to face our problems, we pretend as if divorce doesn't exist in naija. we say "oh it's a western problem" yet women are getting thrown out of their matrimonial homes every day. we refuse to acknowledge the issue talkless of show concern for the welfare of these women.

My own is, women need to reject the idea of "submissiveness"
if you become submissive, you refuse to work hard to gain your independence, if your king husband throws you out of his house, what then will become of you? you do not have a career, no business just a housewife turn destitute.
I reject the notion of women being depedent on men. that is the worst thing you can do to womanhood.

paris10: As in the norms in Nigeria, women who get divorced or are been thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their husbands tend to lose out alot.

Even in domestic violence cases, women who couldnt take the violence any longer divorce the husband without sharing in the property.

Though Nigeria is not UK, US or other western countries where women share in the estate or property of the husband after divorce, Nigerian men should atleast take responsibility in making sure the woman they divorce would be well-off after letting her go.

Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone else. Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

Chimoski87:

I hope what u wrote above is not exactly what I am thinking of? If it is, thunder fire u

dinachi: Do not be deceived by the tricks of the Feminist OP.

dinachi: This is a clarion call to men out there! Do not be deceived by the tricks of the Feminist OP. That is how men let down their guard in the western countries and today they are regarded less than dogs

A lot of women in the US who are otherwise dumb and docile get to go with millions of dollars just because they were smart enough to ensnare one idiotic rich man to marry them. An after a few years they now divorce the man and start living large. My take is simple. The man should not give a dime to the wife after divorce. If the wife is incapable of taking care of the kids then she should hand them over to the man. The American divorce laws so favor women that it makes more economic sense to divorce their husbands than stay together with him. DIVORCE MUST NOT BE MADE ATTRACTIVE!

Sagamite: I don't know what most of you are talking about. The post became moronic from here.

paris10:
Sagamite.. moronic or not, not a single one of you guys accept that you bunch treat your wives as slaves. You intentionally ignore the fact that some women go through abusive relationship, yet ignorantly ranting your displeasure over facts.

I still stand by my assertion... men cheat and in a huge volume. And if your wife cheat and you file for a divorce, then you're an hypocrite. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

dinachi: This is a clarion call to men out there! Do not be deceived by the tricks of the Feminist OP. That is how men let down their guard in the western countries and today they are regarded less than dogs! A lot of women in the US who are otherwise dumb and docile get to go with millions of dollars just because they were smart enough to ensnare one idiotic rich man to marry them. An after a few years they now divorce the man and start living large. My take is simple. The man should not give a dime to the wife after divorce. If the wife is incapable of taking care of the kids then she should hand them over to the man. The American divorce laws so favor women that it makes more economic sense to divorce their husbands than stay together with him. DIVORCE MUST NOT BE MADE ATTRACTIVE!

paris10:

Promiscuity shouldnt form basis of your argument. You should consider other possibilities and senseless reasons why men divorce women.

The macho man and the " I am the owner of this house" syndrome is the only reason why Nigerian men behave this callously. If Nigerian men start parting with half of their property maybe they will think twice before filing for a divorce.

coogar:
50% of all firstborns in nigeria are bastärds according to one DNA expert. how can that be if women are not cheating in a high volume?

paris10:
not a single one of you guys accept that you bunch treat your wives as slaves.

logica: That your father treated your mother as a slave does not mean we are party to such. Please speak about your family issues and don't extend to others.

paris10: As in the norms in Nigeria, women who get divorced or are been thrown out of their matrimonial homes by their husbands tend to lose out alot.

Even in domestic violence cases, women who couldnt take the violence any longer divorce the husband without sharing in the property.

Though Nigeria is not UK, US or other western countries where women share in the estate or property of the husband after divorce, Nigerian men should atleast take responsibility in making sure the woman they divorce would be well-off after letting her go.

Laws should also be put in place to reward any woman whose husband left her for someone else. Even in cases where the woman is found to be promiscuous and the husband want out, adequate measure should be put in place to make sure she share from the spoils.

Married women deserve better and should be treated better.

Arial.bold:

this statement is just crazy. Can you name this so-called DNA expert?
Nigeria is a poor developing country where legal marriage (by civic court) is actually a middle and upper class class luxury. Do you think majority of Nigerians go to court to get married?
same goes with divorce. we like to say divorce is a "western" idea without recognizing the fact that "naija style divorce" is just as popular. where women and/or kids are just thrown out of the home without recourse legal or otherwise. This is assuming the husband doesn't kick the wife out while keeping the kids away from her. In naija, men do whatever they want and women suffer immensely when the marriage doesn't work.

paris10:

I wont trade insult with you.

Area-Fada:
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True, just maybe then nobody will marry the women at all, baby mamas all the way. After all no marriage no divorce.

People have to be careful what they wish for. This marriage boom will stop. See UK today.

coogar:

speak for yourself - where are the slaves?



50% of all firstborns in nigeria are bastärds according to one DNA expert. how can that be if women are not cheating in a high volume?