Please leave the house put you self in your sisters shoes if you do it your sister will hate you and it is sin before God please fear God ok what will you again nothing he will never marry you there are may men out there let him be that man is evil stay away from him and God will bless you

my dear, i wud advice u to fear God and also beware of d devil's antics. if u so much as fear hurting ur sister's marriage,pls leave the house. prevention is always beta Dan cure! b wise. its wisdom to also tel ur sister but dat is if u hv her confidence

If no be say your own dey for your body o, just leave dat place kia maza before the goaty report you to your sister as the one trying to rape him... Na my own ten kobo be dat.

Pretyangel25: ur sis is the Ashawo

keep collecting money and gifts from him, so you want to chop and go ?

I don't have any.

Choi Nigerian women, I knew money was involved you alone know what you did to make him give you huge sums of money.

simply_me: Do the needful. Fu ck him.

senseless she-goat

Pretyangel25: plz sir is there anything bad about me visiting my own sis? Since we were on strike then and my sis ask me 2 come and help her out with her bizness since she's heavy so she will give me money 4 my project, what's bad abt dat? Why accusing me of dressing indecently nd other tinz?

You should be expecting this since you decided to bring your story to NL, when you obviously know the answer. Some persons might be sympathetic, while some can be brutal in response to your story. Not expecting both sides of response/feedbacks shows your immaturity.
This gives you an insight on how to better package your future stories next time

Osama10: If you are really serious leave that house on Wednesday and return when she is coming back.

She can do better by leaving the house for good. What is she doing living in her 'married' sister's house. There is a reason why the bible asks those in marraige to 'depart'. That girl will ruin that marraige.

MISS OPTIMIST: I dnt take such @all.
If i were in your shoes, i would take these steps,
1. Pack my things in preparation to leave on Wednesday if possible, if nt, do all i can to avoid him completely in dis few days, like prepare his food before he returns, always lock my door, wear protective clothes like jean trousers n long top, etc.
2. I'll try as much as record any illicit discussion wth him to add to d evidence.
3. After gathering enough evidence, I'll either tell my sister showing her d evidences, if she'll understand, or call a close relative n inform him or her in the presence of my sister's husband.
4. I'll leave the house for good.

Don't even consider giving in to his quest, it'll do you only harm and no good. Stay bold and defensive.

what are u recording FISH BRAIN

Pretyangel25: Ever since I step my foot in my sis house, the husband have been disturbing my life, first he sent me message and I taught it was a joke just last night he purposely touch my breast when I was in the kitchen cooking and I became so angry that I refuse 2 eat and my sis ask me why I'm that angry, I couldn't utter a word because he was staring at me.

He sent me another text this afternoon telling me that my sis is travelling on wednesday this week 2 come back on sunday and that he will have me all 2 himself, can u imagine? should I tell me sis and how will she feel? Because I don't want to create problem btw them. Advice please

If I may ask, how do u dress whenever he's @ home..?

POPE II: keep collecting money and gifts from him, so you want to chop and go ?

I don't have any.

Choi Nigerian women, I knew money was involved you alone know what you did to make him give you huge sums of money.

4 ur information I never ask him 4 money , he gives me money 2 load my fone even in hs wife present so why on earth was I suppose 2 know dat he has something in mind

tony9k: Your brother in law is not 'asking you out' but he is sexually harassing you. You need to properly define his action so that you would know the appropriate reaction. You should warm him to desist and if he does not you should report him to your sister. You should also avoid being alone with him so that he des not rape you. The idea of not wanting to disturb his marital relationship does not come in as he has already started the process by harassing you.

To the guys who may say that the lady should not wear sexy dresses etc that is immaterial as the brother in law should be abe to control himself. If he is in an office where ladies dress immodestly would he harass them.

The post also highlights the precarious situation that our society places female the child in. Ordinarily the op shoud not think twice before reporting such a case of sexual harassment. We seem to have a long way to go.

Spot-on. He is clearly harassing her and even dared her to tell her sister! This is really precarious. If she leaves the house like most suggests, won't she come visiting when the sister put to bed? And if she desists from visiting or leaves hurriedly, won't the sister inquire why? Some men!!! Don't be surprised, he turns the table against the Op to make it seem like she made attempts at seducing him. . Do not give in to this man who can't cringe at the thought of sleeping with someone who he should see as his blood-sister!

Pretyangel25: seriously he likes dashing me money o but I won't collect anything 4rm him again. tnx 4 ur advice

how old are you? You mean he gives you money and u receive it? What bollocks!


And why can't you leave their home? Must you stay with your sister? Shey ur own house no sweet ni? People like you break happy families


My advice is for u to return to your parents house, leave your sister with her hubby. Some family sef

Or use your phone to record what he is telling you and tell your sister please don`t do it for God`s sake my dear I beg you in the name of our Lord Jesus christ don` t do it as you don`t may God bless you with a man better then him I'm hundred times my love please I am a married woman please

RUN!

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She can do better by leaving the house for good. What is she doing living in her 'married' sister's house. There is a reason why the bible asks those in marraige to 'depart'. That girl will ruin that marraige.

man, I feel like hugging u.


The girl should leave the house as she does not belong there. I don't understand some family when someone gets married there they put all their burden on their son in law which is stupid. Return to your fathers house abi na by force?



If you ruin your sister's marriage I'll personally curse you!



Your brother in law is a Arrow though

Let us knw if the he-goat succeed kpanshing yu

xtervaganza: how old are you? You mean he gives you money and u receive it? What bollocks!


And why can't you leave their home? Must you stay with your sister? Shey ur own house no sweet ni? People like you break happy families


My advice is for u to return to your parents house, leave your sister with her hubby. Some family sef

oga biko take it easy, my sis ask me 2 come nd help her since she's heavy nd plz I'm nt staying dere permanently only went 4 a visit so will be going back 2 school soon so plz mind ur mouth

xtervaganza: man, I feel like hugging u.


The girl should leave the house as she does not belong there. I don't understand some family when someone gets married there they put all their burden on their son in law which is stupid. Return to your fathers house abi na by force?



If you ruin your sister's marriage I'll personally curse you!



Your brother in law is a Arrow though

Quite good if she were there uninvited........her sister asked her to come around for a reason. Going by her subsequent posts, the in-law is not responsible for her in anyway but does so without persuasion.

one word!!!! RUN!!!!!!

there are two easy solutions to these:its either you leave the house(out of sight,out of mind)where were you staying before your sister's?
OR
You do the THING!SE FINI

If you refuse to do the needful by not reporting him to your sister and family and sorry you might end up being blamed. Also, what are you still doing in that house, leave there. Body no be wood, leave there so you do not fall for the devil, destroying your sister's home.

xtervaganza: man, I feel like hugging u.


The girl should leave the house as she does not belong there. I don't understand some family when someone gets married there they put all their burden on their son in law which is stupid. Return to your fathers house abi na by force?



If you ruin your sister's marriage I'll personally curse you!



Your brother in law is a Arrow though

you this boy I think there's something wrong with you. Did I tell you that my family put burden on his head? Plz respect urself

titomontana: My dear next time someone inappropriate touches u in wrong places use the nearest weapon on him, e.g serving spoon from hot soup, turning stick etc... When u give him an obvious mark and people start asking him what happened to u, shame won't allow him say the truth and he will thread with caution.

As per telling ur sis, she might not believe u even with sms evidence so pray and ask God for direction meanwhile just tell ur sis u want to go and if she ask why just tell her u want to have some me time till u have sorted it out with God.

Cheers

thank u Jare


Something in my mind tells me she's give him d green light. No man will touch ur chest without some encouraging signal from you(believe me, I'm a man).


But your bro in law na craze I mean how he would have an erectio looking at u? Disgusting

chimkaire: Quite good if she were there uninvited........her sister asked her to come around for a reason. Going by her subsequent posts, the in-law is not responsible for her in anyway but does so without persuasion.

Iuunderstand , I'm just unhappy at the prospect of her sisters marriage crashing ni.





I think she should leave and only visit once n a while

Pretyangel25: oga biko take it easy, my sis ask me 2 come nd help her since she's heavy nd plz I'm nt staying dere permanently only went 4 a visit so will be going back 2 school soon so plz mind ur mouth

sorry Jare.

U don't know how upset I am with you and your brother in law. I think you're toying with fire, I pray u don't burn




Why on earth would ur bro in law get d spine to touch your teddies? And what kind of animal is d man? Oga gan Oo



Anyways leave d house and don't break any stupid news to your sister( u said she's heavily pregnant) no cos wahaala o

Move around wth a sharp knife n whenever he makes silly advances,cut off dt his thing that cannot b controlled. The bible says cut off anytin dt will make u SIN ;DMove around wth a sharp knife n whenever he makes silly advances,cut off dt his thing that cannot b controlled. The bible says cut off anytin dt will make u SIN

Move around wth a sharp knife n whenever he makes silly advances,cut off dt his thing that cannot b controlled. The bible says cut off anytin dt will make u SIN

Pretyangel25: you this boy I think there's something wrong with you. Did I tell you that my family put burden on his head? Plz respect urself

sorry Jare. Pardon my ignorance. Just leave you have tolerated so much bullcrap already.

sassy angel: Move around wth a sharp knife n whenever he makes silly advances,cut off dt his thing that cannot b controlled. The bible says cut off anytin dt will make u SIN

wicked human being.......lol make I hide my previous prick from u o

Pretyangel25: Ever since I step my foot in my sis house, the husband have been disturbing my life, first he sent me message and I taught it was a joke just last night he purposely touch my breast when I was in the kitchen cooking and I became so angry that I refuse 2 eat and my sis ask me why I'm that angry, I couldn't utter a word because he was staring at me.

He sent me another text this afternoon telling me that my sis is travelling on wednesday this week 2 come back on sunday and that he will have me all 2 himself, can u imagine? should I tell me sis and how will she feel? Because I don't want to create problem btw them. Advice please

can u hear urself? Ever since you step foot in d house ur sis hubby wants to sleep with u. Don't u have common sense? Mature women will leave d house nd avoid d hubby for peace to reign, yet u ave d time to still stay in d house, nd even carry fone and type story nd post, u even ave d time to reply insults? R u for real? Either u want to b molested, or u don't ave sense. Dis kind of situation don't need public opinion, leave d house or report to elders. Wat dazzles me is ur reply to all d posts, and I'm sure u r still in d house waiting for d day it will happen. Smh. Infact do u need a slowpoke to tell u wat u should do? U get chance o.

No weapon fashion against you shall prosper! Stay pls, don't leave the house. You can also call 911 if he over powers you

Pretyangel25: did I just hear u well, I should Bleep him? God 4bide

you know what to do already, run for your life and don't even go and stay over again.