Queenisha:

yes, if he buys kitchen stuff that's good and thoughtful but not as an anniversary gift.
(yes I forgot flowers on  anniversary)
But it goes both ways.
The ladies ought to buy their men things too on each of those ocassions.

Like a bottle of Jack Daniels  

@Nwando,
Of course not for anniversary.

Uchenna, take note o:
For our anniversary, I want something shiny, black, has four wheels and the symbol LEXUS in the front!!

Yes, you can bring the flowers, our kitchen table would look nicer wiv it

Uche2nna:

Like a bottle of Jack Daniels

No, for my man, I'd do more for him than he did for me.
I know that naija men are not romantic, but I'd reward him for trying

Uche2nna:

lol. And I would take your advice and get the ones from the roadside  

If a man gives utensils as presents, then he must love your cooking. That is something to be proud of  

not by me.
Utensils are household stuff not a gift for a wife or girlfriend.
Thank God so far,I've never received one from Mr Osisi as a birthday gift
I'll be mortified.

Ruby_Pearl:

@Nwando,
Of course not for anniversary.

Uchenna, take note o:
For our anniversary, I want something shiny, black, has four wheels and the symbol LEXUS in the front!!

Yes, you can bring the flowers, our kitchen table would look nicer with it
No, for my man, I'd do more for him than he did for me.
I know that naija men are not romantic, but I'd reward him for trying

Ok then.
Let's not call it a gift.
It doesn't qualify
He merely bought some household stuff

Ruby_Pearl:

@Nwando,
Of course not for anniversary.

Uchenna, take note o:
For our anniversary, I want something shiny, black, has four wheels and the symbol LEXUS in the front!!

Yes, you can bring the flowers, our kitchen table would look nicer with it
No, for my man, I'd do more for him than he did for me.
I know that naija men are not romantic, but I'd reward him for trying

You see why You would always rate high in ma books. Sometimes I forget You are a teenager   U reason like an adult

Uche2nna:

You see why You would always rate high in ma books. Sometimes I forget You are a teenager

Na Sango go fire your dried @$$ for that comment!!!
who is a teenager?

For my anniversary i expect more than some stupid gift that has no thought in it. To me it is not the money that counts. I would except a day at the beach just him and me. Having a time of fun and love, then something material.

Queenisha:

not by me.
Utensils are household stuff not a gift for a wife or girlfriend.
Thank God so far,I've never received one from Mr Osisi as a birthday gift
I'll be mortified.

Queenisha:

Ok then.
Let's not call it a gift.
It doesn't qualify
He merely bought some household stuff

 

I agree. Utensils should not count.

Ruby_Pearl:

Na Sango go fire your dried @$$ for that comment!!!
who is a teenager?

lol

First off, you don't call people imbeciles, especially people you don't know. Try to have class and behave in a civil manner.

I treated you like you DESERVED to be treated. I made a comment and you had the audacity to try to make it personal with "oh maybe that's how YOU'RE treated", and you expected me not to respond to you in the same way? You must be drunk off some cheap beer. Like I said before, tit for tat.

and I like how you used that line to hide and ignore everything else that was said. Cant say Im surprised. Ara e lon ton je

It's a very bad gift
Tufia
please don't ever let your man give you kitchen utensils as birthday presents.

How about a chia pet

what kind of flower can i give a girl

venus flytrap

And HOw much is it?? And what does it specify My love, what about a pet instead, puppy dog, or a baby tiger or a baby python, u no.

kini meaning of flowers??

A rose?
it comes from a wanna be.

Nigerian Guys do give flowers

Trust me, this years vals was crazy cos we had diffrent catalogs from diff flower shops and con see how men dey talk of bouquet arrangement and all.

so flowers are real in Nigeria.

U guys are rilly startin to strain my patience with this "flower" thing.No!! we don't giv flowers & we don't intend to stat 2day,period.

Who is "we"

Speak for your self

yeah speak for yourself

whos we?

cold:

You guys are rilly startin to strain my patience with this "flower" thing.No!! we don't giv flowers & we don't intend to stat 2day,period.

how unromantic can u get??

ok we dont give flowers we eat em
yes we dey chop rose etc.


lol

no mind the bush man.

Epluribus:

ok we don't give flowers we eat em
yes we dey chop rose etc.


lol

no mind the bush man.

So givin flowers maqs u more civil than i am,ha!remarkable if u ask me.This just shows how shallow ur reasoning can get.U think givin a flower wld maq a girl luv u any more than she wld if u didn't?It's ur type that always com to NLD cryin & postin topics how u were ditched & seekin advise on how to reconcile(slowpoke).While u're bizy giving flowers she's bizy thinkin of me,go figure.

temper temper my friend,
take it easy it was a joke ooooo



we dont need all that beef after all we are supposed to act like men.

Peace

@topic
the fact that a nigerian girl's though would be focused on if the guy cant or cant afford 11 more roses shows that that are like that still have a long way to go to meet up with progressive thinking of western girls/women, so they ll rather prefer the guy to buy a carton of roses or maybe even buy cadbury s chocolate factory for them

@ post



Do flowers put food on the table?

Wokeyim:

@ post



Do flowers put food on the table?

Do sex put food on the table too? nope, but we still have sex.
Flower just represent something and ost women love flowers.

I don't think Naija men are big fans of flowers for loads of different reasons. it always seems forced somehow. a bit forgivable at traditional celebrations: valentines, couples anniversaries.i'm not a big fan of flowers myself. gimme chocolates. u STILL get to express your undying devotion PLUS i get to eat them. win win situation if you ask me! lol

Nixie:

I don't think Naija men are big fans of flowers for loads of different reasons. it always seems forced somehow. a bit forgivable at traditional celebrations: valentines, couples anniversaries.i'm not a big fan of flowers myself. gimme chocolates. u STILL get to express your undying devotion PLUS i get to eat them. win win situation if you ask me! lol

And i heard the chocolate cld trigger some emotion in the ladies, how true is that?

$$Rhino:

And i heard the chocolate cld trigger some emotion in the ladies, how true is that?

Ahh it depends on the type of chocolate.

Ok, pls educate my mind as to what kinda chocolate and what they do jare.