Desiree1:

@ Lady T

it's true a girl hardly ever forgets the first especially when it was a mutual or through empty promises

even when he is putting you through hell?

but why is it so?

@ agaba123

yeah I would definitely left for me, time and God cos i put my time n effort into this. no one especially when good deserves such! and the painful part he still doesn't want to let go of me.

Desiree1:

@ Lady T

it's true a girl hardly ever forgets the first especially when it was a mutual or through empty promises

abeg help me preach to uncle uche and sister Onyinye2 there.

That was the first person to make u a woman n also no matter what when u look @ urself, it's like something u carry 4eva. men and women are different, women, virginity cant be undone except through technology of course that is a woman's pride.

Desiree1:

@ agaba123

yeah I would definitely left for me, time and God because i put my time n effort into this. no one especially when good deserves such! and the painful part he still doesn't want to let go of me.

He does not want to let go of you because he thinks you are so dependent on him. You make him believe he is your life and stuff.

He might even try to make you feel as an ingrate knowing that he helped put you up.
All those things are manipulation.
Do not fall for it girl.
Get over him

@ poster
am tired of seeing this thread pop up, e don do abeg,, are u the only one with a heart?

@ davidylan lmao   hehehehe

for those that cant stand their first, it may be so but the fact still remains they remember who did the thing first no matter how good or bad.

Desiree1:

That was the first person to make u a woman n also no matter what when u look @ yourself, it's like something u carry 4eva. men and women are different, women, virginity can't be undone except through technology of course that is a woman's pride.

Now I understand.

If am the one that did your own, I will not let go jare.
Anyway that is by the way.
Just get over it after all he did not cut the whole thing. You are still carrying it

@ idupaul  

did the post bring u in here, y dont u ignore it? If u dont have a heart, i have one!

Desiree1:

@ idupaul  

did the post bring u in here, y don't u ignore it? If u don't have a heart, i have one!

av been silent on this post, bt ur sobbing is now too much, ok wat do u want us to do 4 u,

1 do u want a new guy

2 do u want us to go an beat up ur old boyfriend

3 should we beg him 4 u

choose girl, because am tired of seeing this ur heart break thread

Idupaul,my broda,u no see say na the things wey dey the guy house she dey still wait for to move on,you fit offer to buy her the things na,wicked boy

Hey hun,

you've been had! Tough, get over it. i know u can, this things happen! there are signs everywhere and u may hv seen them. There is life after love!

girl if thats u on your profile, then youre one fine sista
that boyfriend of yours shoul be shot!
anywayz i'd advice you move on with your life

@ idupaul, then pluck ur eyes off so u dont have to see it

davidylan
God has answered my prayers
This is the girl you've been waiting for.

@ idupaul

may the way i feel now neva come ur way cos i dont think u would be having mouth 2 talk like this!

@ neikid, yeah thats me n thanks gal!

Desiree1:

@ davidylan lmao   hehehehe

for those that can't stand their first, it may be so but the fact still remains they remember who did the thing first no matter how good or bad.

Nne forget that Mr Methuselah that treated you bad.
At 21,what are you doing with a 35 year old?
He'll manipulate you to death.
look for a young intelligent man within your generation.
Davidylan is his name

How can you be talking about Usher while your man is talking about Barry white?

@ roscodaddy

pls help me tell him

@ queenisha

heheheh who is davidylan?

awwww!!!

you surely do not deserve this treatment cos you've got a good heart. Returning 'blessing for curse'

That is prolly why you are finding hard to let go.
You think you will hurt him if you move on and you do not like hurting people.

The other way round, he is hurting you and may do that again.

I know it is difficult but you would not want to go over this kinda feeling again.
You may only be postponing the evil day if you decide to go back to him.

leave him and come to me i'll treat you like an African queen that you are, you're too beautiful to be treated that way

Desiree1:

@ queenisha

heheheh who is davidylan?

david is my nairaland babybrother.
Very smart lad

but seriously,you are a beautiful,articulate girl with a wonderful heart.
This man is way too old for you.
don't make that mistake of talking marriage as you said earlier.
He is immature and manipulative.
did I mention too old for you.
at 21 you shouldn't be with anyone above 30.
It will not be a good match

y'all are wonderful except 4 idupaul who forced himself here. wel ive decided to move on n yeah the age difference is much. Love why did u carry me 2 him?

Awww . . . .look on the bright side C'mon.

@ desiree
now ur talking, get a good brotha from here that will give a good time instead of crying on four pages of meaningless post

y'all are wonderful except 4 idupaul who forced himself here. wel ive decided to move on n yeah the age difference is much. Love  Angry why did u carry me 2 him?

 i was just tired of seeing u lament over nuttin

@dreeldee

lmao, thats the beginning of every dick n harry, ill treat u right like a queen n all that then along the line, pls girls help me fill that out. Though not all guys some of u guys are sweet n real! ya know

dicks is a name n not the other lmao

Desiree1:

y'all are wonderful except 4 idupaul who forced himself here. wel ive decided to move on n yeah the age difference is much. Love why did u carry me 2 him?

This is probably your first love.
We do silly things when we're young and think the first man is the right one but most of the time he's not.
You have no one else to compare him to.
First time I fell in love,I was 16, he was 26 and I felt I had found the one.
These "older" men have a way of messing with the mind of young girls.
You'll get it if you remember what I'm about to say now.

A man that truly loves you will treat you right.
He won't run around and cheat on you
He won't manipulate you
He won't take undue advantage of you
This your man has done all 4 things
And he knows you're vulnerable because of your age and family being faraway

My advice

Don't sleep with him anymore.
That is his weapon for keeping you bound to him while he messes with your mind.
This man is well experienced in these games
He's been around a while.
Dump him like yesterday's tampon.
He's not worth it.

Mr Right will come along and you'll know him when he comes.
He'll respect and treat you right.
All the best my dear.

Desiree1:

@dreeldee

lmao, thats the beginning of every [b]privates [/b]n harry, ill treat u right like a queen n all that then along the line,  please girls help me fill that out. Though not all guys some of u guys are sweet n real! ya know

Seun don kill me,  i guess one can't mention di.ck on nairaland, it's termed one general meaning, what if my name was di.ck so i've to call myself private  

@desiree yeah some of us like me so check me out . Anyways, you should take a break. me think that guy not right for you

@ Queenisha

that's a true talk, ive decided to move on.

Desiree1:

@ Queenisha

that's a true talk, ive decided to move on.

Good , now can we leave this thread , i just hate the topic, tell u wat desiree just open a new thread so ur new army of admirers can go there.