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Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by LesbianBoy(m): 8:59am On Jul 13, 2014 |
pro01:Na him be say most nigerian girls dey naive or deluded because this is how most think! They would treat poor/average men so bad and want to marry a richman while hoping the richman would have eyes only on them. IMAGINE! They forget that the richman was once poor and must have gone through what they are currently doing to poor/average guys now! |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by dominique(f): 9:01am On Jul 13, 2014 |
iykedare: You must be a very shallow thinking immature dolt to generalize. Maybe all the ones you're related to are like that. Please direct your anger and bitterness to them not the millions of hardworking independent ladies out there. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by LesbianBoy(m): 9:13am On Jul 13, 2014 |
dominique:Dominique no offence but, you know the bolded is a lie! A BIG LIE! I mean! If there were millions of 'hardworking independent ladies' out there, trust me most nigerian guys won't be complaining about nigerian girls love for money! |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by dominique(f): 9:52am On Jul 13, 2014 |
LesbianBoy: To be sincere, there are lots of annoying needy chicks out there who will expect their men to pick theirbills even if they have their own money. But not all are like that (speaking for myself, sisters and some friends I can vouch for). So you need to understand why it annoys the hell out of me that some men will want to categorize us all as gold digging money hungry slores |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Get over it girl... u were just a sidechick... 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 13, 2014 |
chidyhels: its an option betw am not sure you guys read her write up, guy is married, they aren't together again. He will not be the first, offices are opened everyday.hmmm i recognize this quote. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by soldierdollar(m): 10:41am On Jul 13, 2014 |
chidyhels: like your sisters abi? I see. No. Like your mother |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 11:16am On Jul 13, 2014 |
soldierdollar:k I see |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 11:18am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Jenams: hmmm i recognize this quote.sure? Have you being an office before? If not,let me start with you now? Don't say no |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by soldierdollar(m): 11:31am On Jul 13, 2014 |
chidyhels: k I see Ok |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by paranorman(m): 12:02pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
hushmail:badt guy! |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by paranorman(m): 12:03pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
chibabe3: best advice on this issue. nne, thank you o jare.. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by blank(f): 12:11pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
@ OP, from your description, you were definitely his side-chick. It's his wife who should be compensated. 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 12:18pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
chidyhels: sure? Have you being an office before? If not,let me start with you now? Don't say noe don tey wey u make me ur office na... |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by knowledge4(m): 1:18pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
Your ex is married and wants to come back? That is ADULTERY! ROMANS 7:1-3 SAYS SO LET GOD'S WORD BE TRUE AND ALL MEN LIARS |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by lanrefront1(m): 2:52pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
if he insists on bestowing on you an unusual generosity because of the past, tell him to sign a written note that he should not expect any favours from you, especially ones of a sexual nature. After that, send him your account number. if he wants to deposit millions of naira inside the account, let him do it. No mind all this yeye guys wey dey talk. I know for certain that if a past rich girlfriend says he wants to compensate them with GOOD money, before she even finished talking, dey don give account number. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by odogwu9(m): 5:47pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
It think u shouldn't take anythn from him..he is quite daft and cheap..show him u hv dignity and integrity..u r no cheap woman to be paid off.. 3 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
pls pls pls girl forgive him but don't take a dine from him, what for? , its not pride, the money can't mend your broken heart and am positive you don't need it , just move on. 3 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by revelationuche: 8:58pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
BABE! My heart ekesout and soaked with emotion as read through ur message.I luv u 4 real.Plzz change ur line and dnt ve any tin to do wiv idiot agai.It good u didnt find out wen u are aredi carrying his baby [img]http://www.hostsleek.com/clients/?aff=052[/img] [img]http://www.?aff=580[/img] [img]http://clients.utiware.net/?aff=595[/img] . 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by delpee(f): 8:58pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
In summary, you are considering accepting a gift from a militant who is violent. You really do think you'll be able to walk away with no strings attached after that? You've done well by keeping off all this while. Forgive him and move on. Don't swallow the bait. Better guys will come your way. 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by pinkliny(f): 9:04pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
2sExy1: What a life... ! Why wouldn't you stay in such relationship when you are seeing money.why are you so insensitive_ |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 9:17pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
Young lady, you just found out that your ex is earning money as a reward for being a militant/criminal and common sense has not told you that you need to pack well, face your front and never look back? Don't you know what he really wants? Did you not mention that he has 2 baby mamas that he beats up? I know you are desperate for money but have some dignity and self respect for once in your life! Your so called friends perceived your weakness and that's why they were bold enough to suggest that crap! (If you are telling the truth ) 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
pinkliny: why are you so insensitive_ |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 13, 2014 |
koyyes: Young lady, you just found out that your ex is earning money as a reward for being a militant/criminal and common sense has not told you that you need to pack well, face your front and never look back? Don't you know what he really wants? Did you not mention that he has 2 baby mamas that he beats up? I know you are desperate for money but have some dignity and self respect for once in your life! Your so called friends perceived your weakness and that's why they were bold enough to suggest that crap! (If you are telling the truth ) In a country like Nigeria, the embolded does not matter... as long as you can "take care" of "them" |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by yollychika(f): 7:55am On Jul 14, 2014 |
compensate u wif more bullshit...he wants to continue screwing u n misbehaving.....men cant move on.....n wifey n baby mamas hmmmm u gon be da 3rd babymama ....say NO to him n his bait called compensation.....babe u nor dey work sef? na wa to u ooooo 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 8:04am On Jul 14, 2014 |
Arinze96: I'm convinced that you don't actually know what it means to love. Which kain Love? She was there because she didn't know her own value. 1 Like |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by iriskiki(f): 8:08am On Jul 14, 2014 |
phlame: My bf and I have been together for almost a year now. He is good man and very generous. I've never had to ask him for anything because he just gives me without me even asking. Its like he just picks up on things that I need and just gives them to me when I don't expect it. I'm not a materialistic person myself though. Hi. I suggest one of two things. Ignore the issue, act as normal. When he is ready to talk he will. Or call him for a sit down chat, as many times as it takes. Either way, be sincere and I guess you can show him you withdrawal slip. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by iriskiki(f): 8:11am On Jul 14, 2014 |
dominique: I wonder o |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by Nobody: 8:14am On Jul 14, 2014 |
iykedare: Its not the money. Its more about a woman having self value. Look at how the guy wants to compensate her with money as if it can wipe the damage done to her self esteem while they were together. Even poor guys maltreat women who tolerate it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by iriskiki(f): 8:16am On Jul 14, 2014 |
LesbianBoy: You made me remember a question from another website. Choosing between a faithful poor man and a rich unfaithful man. The typical stereotypes in Nigerian relationships are unfortunate. Because I believe that everyone is not the same. There are users among us, but that does not mean we should throw out the baby with the bath water. |
Re: My Married Ex Wants To Compensate Me by duby91(m): 8:32am On Jul 14, 2014 |
So what exactly does the OP need? he mistreated you...he has gotten married and he has 2 baby mamas already and you're asking us what u should do? you should move on already. there's no need for any compensation unless u want to become his baby mama. just forgive him and move on. I just wonder why ladies stick to those guys that maltreat them and are even more faithful to them to those that treat them right. its just sad. i think i should ditch my gentleman attitude sef, if that's what it takes to make dem ladies loyal . |
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