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Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by spicy244(f): 11:31am On Jul 10, 2014
@Jieta n spotless, u don't av to take tinx up like that. Its a free world, if he decides not to av sex till today, then gud for him. He jus made a mistake saying he hasn't . The topic shud be re framed as an advice. Buh I tell u@ spotless by the time u start having sex, u will jus be like DOG cos u get aroused every now & then. By then ur miss V will be fed up with u. Buh if truly u haven't, lemme ask u dis:








How do u get rid ur sperm?
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 11:49am On Jul 10, 2014
HogWash: "They also preach it in church that pre-marital sex is a sin."

Oh! Boy! Most of them are very adulterous! They preach water and drink wine.
make christ your mentor.
Let him be your source of emulation.
Let him be the one to inspire, not man.
If you look up to your pastors, you may be bound to fall cause they are not perfect and are mere mortals like you.
The pastors are not infallible.
Look up to God as the author and finisher of your faith.
He alone is perfect and he alone should you strive to imitate and mimic, not man.

*GOD BLESS YOU*
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 12:01pm On Jul 10, 2014
seankafor: HOW DOES DIS STOP ME FRM LICKING MY GAL FRNDS CUM DRY TILL SHE SCREAMS DOWN D CEILEINGTONIGHT?
As you are licking your gals, don't forget that this world and all its pleasures are ephemeral.
They can never last long.
Safeguard your soul now that you still have the chance to.
We have a place we are going to which is heaven!
Will your soul be ready when our lord comes or would you rather choose to spend eternity in hell?
Our lord Jesus christ condemns sexual immoralities and all other sinful activities.
Remember bro, hell is a place of torment and grief. A place of perpetual punishment and suffering. It is eternal and everlasting.
Have you ever tried putting your hands in a fire?
How does it feel?
Good or bad?
You can imagine how much more one will get to suffer in a place like hell where the fire will not only burn your hands but your whole body as well. One won't get to pass through this for just a day or two but forever.
Think about it bro.
*GOD HELP YOU*
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Blessedwhite(m): 12:16pm On Jul 10, 2014
Guy sorry but i ve a question for you. Do you masturbate?. if you do then you can have sex . I only think you are timid and too shy to touch a gal pant. Work on urself and get laid. B4 you die a lad
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Nobody: 12:25pm On Jul 10, 2014
Don't mind them, ur reasons are enough and ur decision is yours to make. If you decide to change ur mind tomorrow its nobody's bis. If you can, keep yourself, if you fall, its not the end of the world either.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Ngseralph: 12:25pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: I am running 29 now and i have not had sex with any lady till now.
I have kissed a girl before but it did not result to sex eventually.

My reason is that:
1. I don't see sex as the most important thing in life than pursuing ur goals in life.

2. People behave as if sex is food that you cannot live without. And it pisses me off. Sex is not everything.

3. Am so so scared of the dreaded hiv/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. I dont want to be a victim.

4. I dont believe in the use of condom. As there are people saying is not hundred percent safe for use. And i cant spend my money on that.

5. They also preach it in church that pre-marital sex is a sin.

6. I don't want to father any child now as i am not ready for it now. So i had to stay away from sex.
If u are not ready to be a father, why impregnate a girl and later ask her to commit abortion.

These are some reason i have not engaged in sexual activities for now.

Do you think it will affect my married life later?
.
My dear, I really congratulate you cause I know it's never easy.
And to these I say, more power to your elbow!
But dear, I have some things to tell you.
1). If you really want to keep your virginity, let your main reason for doing that be for the fear of God and not fear of pregnancy or STDs. In that way, you can best please and do more of the will of he who sent you. Abstain from sex because you know that's the best and the right thing to do not because you don't want to contract aids.
2). The bible said, free ye from all forms of sexual immoralities.
Sexual immoralities here includes, fornication, adultery, phone intimacy, masturbation, kissing, romancing, immoral sexual thought, homosexualism, lesbianism, incest, bestiality, watching porns/nude pictures/blue films, indescent dressings, lusting after a girl/boy etc.
Before God, what disvirgins a person is not merely fornication or adultery.
One who involves him/herself in any of these afore listed sexual immoralities is no longer pure in God's sight.
So if you indulge in kissing/romancing, I advice you stop it dear cause it's not just in God's sight.
I hope you can look into all that I said bro.

Once again, congratulations to you cause I know it hasn't been easy for you.
One thing Iam sure of is that who ever your spouse is or may be, she will forever hold you in a high esteem cause of this.
Be lest assured that your virginity will never affect your marriage negatively, rather, positively.
*MAY HEAVEN BE YOUR REWARD*
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jieta: 12:39pm On Jul 10, 2014
spicy244: @Jieta n spotless, u don't av to take tinx up like that. Its a free world, if he decides not to av sex till today, then gud for him. He jus made a mistake saying he hasn't . The topic shud be re framed as an advice. Buh I tell u@ spotless by the time u start having sex, u will jus be like DOG cos u get aroused every now & then. By then ur miss V will be fed up with u. Buh if truly u haven't, lemme ask u dis:








How do u get rid ur sperm?
that guy is just a confuse 29 years old man, oya come and answer this question how did you get ride of ur sperm
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 1:29pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: I am running 29 now and i have not had sex with any lady till now.
I have kissed a girl before but it did not result to sex eventually.

My reason is that:
1. I don't see sex as the most important thing in life than pursuing ur goals in life.

2. People behave as if sex is food that you cannot live without. And it pisses me off. Sex is not everything.

3. Am so so scared of the dreaded hiv/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. I dont want to be a victim.

4. I dont believe in the use of condom. As there are people saying is not hundred percent safe for use. And i cant spend my money on that.

5. They also preach it in church that pre-marital sex is a sin.

6. I don't want to father any child now as i am not ready for it now. So i had to stay away from sex.
If u are not ready to be a father, why impregnate a girl and later ask her to commit abortion.

These are some reason i have not engaged in sexual activities for now.

Do you think it will affect my married life later?

Ewwwww! Nigga, you gay. you just haven't discovered it yet or you have and you are in denial grin
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by rocgirl: 2:38pm On Jul 10, 2014
Just a thought.
Do you pick interest in or like guys?
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:13pm On Jul 10, 2014
Prymestrr:
Dude why exactly did u put dt shit up in a public forum. Like u rightly stated, we all have freewill. If u v never had sex @ 29, u n u alone know d reason behind dt. Moreover, if ur reason 4 bringing dis 2 public notice is 2 seek GLORIFICATION then Bro, I'd call u a FOOL.
so u did nt see my reason above too. Why do people like u always think negative? Who is seeking ur glorification? At least i want u to know that everybody are nt the same. There are people still holding on.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:17pm On Jul 10, 2014
rocgirl: Just a thought.
Do you pick interest in or like guys?
now everyone thought dat i am a gay. Let me shout it again. I AM NOT A GAY!
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:21pm On Jul 10, 2014
Churchill96:

Ewwwww! Nigga, you gay. you just haven't discovered it yet or you have and you are in denial grin
hw many times will i say it. That i am nt a gay person. Is it a crime to keep oneselve 4 marriage?
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 3:31pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: hw many times will i say it. That i am nt a gay person. Is it a crime to keep oneselve 4 marriage?
Are you a shy person
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by rocgirl: 3:32pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: now everyone thought dat i am a gay. Let me shout it again. I AM NOT A GAY!
Lol..
Ofcourse i didn't mean it in the way that got you typing on all caps(shouting at the top of your voice)..that is
Passen sie gut..
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:32pm On Jul 10, 2014
Blessedwhite: Guy sorry but i ve a question for you. Do you masturbate?. if you do then you can have sex . I only think you are timid and too shy to touch a gal pant. Work on urself and get laid. B4 you die a lad
i dnt masturb'ate neither am i timid. It is just my decision. I just nid to control my thought. That's all.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:36pm On Jul 10, 2014
I dnt masturbate. I am nt also timid. It is just my decision. I just have to work on my thought. That's all.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:39pm On Jul 10, 2014
Churchill96:
Are you a shy person
i am not.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 3:42pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: i am not.

You don't self-service, you are not shy. Its decided then, you gay! You just haven't accepted it.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:45pm On Jul 10, 2014
jieta: that guy is just a confuse 29 years old man, oya come and answer this question how did you get ride of ur sperm
i dnt get rid of sperm. U can tell me hw u get rid of urs.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:48pm On Jul 10, 2014
Churchill96:

You don't self-service, you are not shy. Its decided then, you gay! You just haven't accepted it.
so u want to tag me as a gay nw. Isn't it? I even detest hearing it let alone doing it. What a disgusting thing.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Spotless180(m): 3:52pm On Jul 10, 2014
rocgirl:
Lol..
Ofcourse i didn't mean it in the way that got you typing on all caps(shouting at the top of your voice)..that is
Passen sie gut..
i just want to lay emphasis on it.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jayyungg(m): 3:56pm On Jul 10, 2014
xtervaganza: People like you don't know what you're missing




The day you get a blowj0b is the day you will curse yourself for missing out all these years
lol still waiting 4 dat day
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by rocgirl: 4:10pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: i just want to lay emphasis on it.
Got it from now on..
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by rocgirl: 4:10pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: i just want to lay emphasis on it.
Got it from now on..
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by kestolove95(m): 5:52pm On Jul 10, 2014
The guy is just consolln himself...u luck so ugly and dirty,no gurl will open her legs for u..dats y u'v not had sex.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by beatzbyraiyub(m): 5:54pm On Jul 10, 2014
spicy244: @Jieta n spotless, u don't av to take tinx up like that. Its a free world, if he decides not to av sex till today, then gud for him. He jus made a mistake saying he hasn't . The topic shud be re framed as an advice. Buh I tell u@ spotless by the time u start having sex, u will jus be like DOG cos u get aroused every now & then. By then ur miss V will be fed up with u. Buh if truly u haven't, lemme ask u dis:








How do u get rid ur sperm?
well, even guyz in d celibacy n monastry do get rid of it all at a time jst naturally w/o forcing it out. Its simple? Dnt touch urslf just let it overload- den go to sleep n fatansize alot and datz when wet dreams will definately crave in, and brahh! You had ur NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS. Once again, u ar relieved in dz vicious cycle. Just lyk dat. @Op, i feel ur stories and its lyk we ar on dz same page here but on different books. Just admit u ar nw officially a buddah convert- always see self-discipline as ur only life source, enhance d quality of ur life by channeling all ur sexual brouts n energies into activities dat ar productive n goal-striving. Its a free world, not against it, but just dont feel pious enough to wasting my sacred seeds here, dia n everywher, beside when u let dz tins out of ur systems-ur eyes muscles begin to strain in pains n dizziness n u may av very poor eyesight wen growin old, d groin joints crackle 'uneasenly' lyk tukunbo engine n u jst cant tink straight or clearly- u begin to xprience weight n hair losses,lyk grow slimmer n bald-u lose ur blood level by 13.6%-etc...n it will scientifically takes 67 dayz to regain dat amt. So tink about it, guyz-moderation is going to be d key lyk once in evry 2wks, wen i perhaps marry dat yeye runs gurl- one has to jst imagine himslf being a buddah grand master in dz present world of hot voluptuous-flashing walking, skimming luking skirts riding up dia laps as dey walk,sit-Gush! frontviews lyk two sagging-lookin pawpaws! oh! N d mermaid-like tight-hot looking leggings, remotely calling out ur..em.. to sticking its head out thru d prison bars of ur boxer. U knw wat? Aamitab buchaba;
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jieta: 5:59pm On Jul 10, 2014
beatzbyraiyub: well, even guyz in d celibacy n monastry do get rid of it all at a time jst naturally w/o forcing it out. Its simple? Dnt touch urslf just let it overload- den go to sleep n fatansize alot and datz when wet dreams will definately crave in, and brahh! You had ur NOCTURNAL EMISSIONS. Once again, u ar relieved in dz vicious cycle. Just lyk dat. @Op, i feel ur stories and its lyk we ar on dz same page here but on different books. Just admit u ar nw officially a buddah convert- always see self-discipline as ur only life source, enhance d quality of ur life by channeling all ur sexual brouts n energies into activities dat ar productive n goal-striving. Its a free world, not against it, but just dont feel pious enough to wasting my sacred seeds here, dia n everywher, beside when u let dz tins out of ur systems-ur eyes muscles begin to strain in pains n dizziness n u may av very poor eyesight wen growin old, d groin joints crackle 'uneasenly' lyk tukunbo engine n u jst cant tink straight or clearly- u begin to xprience weight n hair losses,lyk grow slimmer n bald-u lose ur blood level by 13.6%-etc...n it will scientifically takes 67 dayz to regain dat amt. So tink about it, guyz-moderation is going to be d key lyk once in evry 2wks, wen i perhaps marry dat yeye runs gurl- one has to jst imagine himslf being a buddah grand master in dz present world of hot voluptuous-flashing walking, skimming luking skirts riding up dia laps as dey walk,sit-Gush! frontviews lyk two sagging-lookin pawpaws! oh! N d mermaid-like tight-hot looking leggings, remotely calling out ur..em.. to sticking its head out thru d prison bars of ur boxer. U knw wat? Aamitab buchaba;
i know you are not from nigeria and i will not answer you
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by jieta: 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2014
Prymestrr:
The bolded is an inexcusable sign of an adult with an underdeveloped thinking faculty.
i love this comment
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Mintayo(m): 7:14pm On Jul 10, 2014
Churchill96:

You don't self-service, you are not shy. Its decided then, you gay! You just haven't accepted it.
So because he doesnt self-servce and he is not shy,plus he has not had sex before,then he is a gay? Interesting!
This is a corrupt generation.
Op pls dnt mind anyone abusing you for making ur own decision. I have seen a man that got married at the age of 32 as a virgin. So its ur life,don't let anyone demoralize u.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by dagentility(f): 7:25pm On Jul 10, 2014
Spotless180: I am running 29 now and i have not had sex with any lady till now.
I have kissed a girl before but it did not result to sex eventually.

My reason is that:
1. I don't see sex as the most important thing in life than pursuing ur goals in life.

2. People behave as if sex is food that you cannot live without. And it pisses me off. Sex is not everything.

3. Am so so scared of the dreaded hiv/AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases. I dont want to be a victim.

4. I dont believe in the use of condom. As there are people saying is not hundred percent safe for use. And i cant spend my money on that.

5. They also preach it in church that pre-marital sex is a sin.

6. I don't want to father any child now as i am not ready for it now. So i had to stay away from sex.
If u are not ready to be a father, why impregnate a girl and later ask her to commit abortion.

These are some reason i have not engaged in sexual activities for now.

Do you think it will affect my married life later?
+1000 likes
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 7:30pm On Jul 10, 2014
Mintayo:
So because he doesnt self-servce and he is not shy,plus he has not had sex before,then he is a gay? Interesting!
This is a corrupt generation.
Op pls dnt mind anyone abusing you for making ur own decision. I have seen a man that got married at the age of 32 as a virgin. So its ur life,don't let anyone demoralize u.

Do you even know what that word "abuse" means? Dictionaries are cheap. Go get one.
Re: Why I Have Not Had Sex Till Today. by Churchill96(m): 7:32pm On Jul 10, 2014
dagentility:
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