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Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Harmvirus: So why do you emphasise that it is a woman's primary role when it is also the father's? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 6:46pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Well to me I believe the major reason the society is getting worse is because of this "whatever rocks tour boat" mantra, people just think up anything they like and act it and then throw up the "it's my business " card when others frown at their actions. Failure at home is what has turned the society upside down.and I don't share your views. the world we are today is a world where selfishness and greed take the center circle and people no longer care about the overall effect of their actions. wayward kids from dysfunctional homes where "anything goes" are tearing the society apart and I think "anything goes should not be encouraged in a family setting. Fathers should know their roles and mothers should know theirs too, trying to flip this around is not healthy and won't be healthy no matter what. kids are now growing up with no idea of what roles and responsibilities stand for. Whether you like it or not, the main role of a man remains to gather and that of the woman to manage what has been gathered. this model remains the best model for every home who actually likes orderliness. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 6:49pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
honeric01: According to you Nigerian kids should be the best in the world then. Anyway, you are free to have it your way in your own home. You will find PLENTY OF ladies who like it this way. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by kaboninc(m): 6:53pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Your username....are you a care-free-wannabe? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
kaboninc: There is a story behind this name. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by kaboninc(m): 6:57pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Tell me. I have a very good listening skill. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
kaboninc: I was dreaming of carefreeness when a loved one was sick. This is when I created the account and came up with the name. Times were tough back then, now everything is ok again. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by kaboninc(m): 7:05pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Tannie:Another kind of my lady! |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by bukatyne(f): 7:13pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
honeric01: Trust me, when I started working I knew it was not black & white Every average man & woman especially a married one wants a well paying job with half work hours and twice the pay (My dream job ). Alas, reality is different. Even Oil companies that close early resume by 7am (Do you know the time one has to leave for work?) We all have to learn to balance well. And yes, some women work late/take up extra tasks to look efficient. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by bukatyne(f): 7:25pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Sorry about the promotion (I know it can be painful) I have a very rich imagination/melancoly so I have this idea that if I work /get home ling hours, my weekends would be fixed for family, I will pass up extra stuffs that are not necessary for the job but will aid promotion, I will work smart and remember that work never ends so will learn to let go daily of what I can't control etc. Hubby is already doing what he can It is well damiso: |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by bukatyne(f): 7:28pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Motixsis: This is the typical mindset of an ignorant man who suffers from nothing more than insecurity. A man who wants his wife to spend time with him & kids is not insecure 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 7:36pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Thank You!. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 7:38pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: Pls...Kindly read the WHOLE writeup... You're welcome. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by bukatyne(f): 7:42pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Motixsis: I have but I was responding to your post because it was general I have commented on the OP previously 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Harmvirus(f): 7:48pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: Because women are good at it . No matter how caring a father can be he can't fill that void that is left when the mother is not there which is part of the reason most widowers remarry |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Harmvirus: No matter how caring a mother is she cannot replace a loving father. Widowers remarry because this is what society expects of them whereas people think differently of a widow who wants to remarry. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by jhidey08(m): 8:35pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:at dis juncture, i'll lyk 2 hang my boot. U cannot learn. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 8:36pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
Motixsis: You are welcome 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by jhidey08(m): 8:54pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:dat's ur problem, u think u knw more dan odas. Is it ur brought up dat is faulty or u jst chose 2 grow wings as u're growing older? I'm sori bt u need a serious lecturing 4rm a mother. U're nt in d U.S |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
jhidey08: dat's ur problem, u think u knw more dan odas. Is it ur brought up dat is faulty or u jst chose 2 grow wings as u're growing older? I'm sori bt u need a serious lecturing 4rm a mother. U're nt in d U.S I do know more than many others and I do know how to write proper English lil brother. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 9:32pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: If life throws "you" a lemon, aren't "you" suppose to make lemonade outta it? is anyone putting a gun on any woman's head to work in places where "logistics" is bad? are there no women actually living and working on these "environment" who still have time for their kids? and what makes "you" think i don't know life is not white and black? We can always find excuses for why we don't want to do what we ought to do when selfish and self-centered, we want to have it all and keep chasing shadows while the society keeps getting worse through decaying sense care, interpersonal relationship with our loved ones e.t.c. Why should a woman take up any job that warrants her leaving home by 5:30 am and coming home by 9-10 pm when she's not the breadwinner? If "you" think "you" have no choice but to take up jobs with this schedule, i would advice "you" don't get married at all so the country and the society at large won't be burdened with wayward kids from dysfunctional homes/homes without care, attention or role models. Marriage and having kids should be reserved only to selfless people who are not greedy and self-centered. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 9:35pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: How did you arrive at this? and sorry, not every woman is into competition with men, majority of ladies believe this is how life and the home front should be. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
honeric01: It is not about competition with men but even if it was, it would do a lot of good. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 9:39pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: At the detriment of the kids, the future and the society, worth it huh? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
honeric01: As if the society as it is now was good, what are you talking about? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by bukatyne(f): 10:09pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
honeric01: Bros, This is not about me and don't make it so You asked a question and I gave you a answer When you see people with such arrangements, you can advice their husbands to divorce them and marry selfless wives |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by jhidey08(m): 10:12pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:here we go again. U're part of d problem we av in dis country. Always looking 4 grammatical errors. Wot's d essence of language? To communicate ryt? And I didn't c any blunder in wot I posted up there. Carefreewannabe, wot r u? If I may ask. U don't even luk lyk sum1 who has work, u've been all over dis thread since ystrday. A career woman indeed! |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 10:15pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
bukatyne: The "you" was not directed at you, hence the "", only for those who fit into the bracket or do you fit? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by Nobody: 10:16pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
jhidey08: here we go again. U're part of d problem we av in dis country. Always looking 4 grammatical errors. Wot's d essence of language? To communicate ryt? And I didn't c any blunder in wot I posted up there. Carefreewannabe, wot r u? If I may ask. U don't even luk lyk sum1 who has work, u've been all over dis thread since ystrday. A career woman indeed! A career woman who is on holiday and about to travel around beautiful Europe. |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by honeric01(m): 10:17pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe: You are actually the one i should be asking what you are talking about. you said you wouldn't mind competing with men and it's worth it and i ask again, to what end? |
Re: Is It Ideal To Go For Someone With A Lesser demanding career than You by jhidey08(m): 10:20pm On Jul 14, 2014 |
carefreewannabe:congrats o, career woman. |
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