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Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by xtervaganza(m): 11:04am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Why would I prefer a bossy woman when I can get myself a boobsy woman |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by vislabraye(m): 11:12am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Opiosko: Men don't like to feel being bossed, that's why some lady's resorts to seduction.. Exactly. No man likes to be bossed or made to look incompetent. Seduction is more acceptable because it is less humiliating. Besides you can refuse seduction. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:28am On Jul 21, 2014 |
donpeey22: pm me let's hook up fast.#Following; rather... |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by aariwa(m): 11:29am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Go and die bastard baggy4luv: you are a big fool both onland and online.. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by makkitush: 11:30am On Jul 21, 2014 |
xp17: personally,I like bossy women. I like their confidence and they are less likely to cheat because of their egos. unlike one of those eddy Murphy asked to bark like a dog, they could cheat at every slightest woo, even from a weakling.i feel u. 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:32am On Jul 21, 2014 |
chimkaire: #Following; rather...pm i insist!:| |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:32am On Jul 21, 2014 |
freecocoa: If you read my post and understood it, you'd see that I know the difference but from majority of the comments on this thread, most people seem to think any lady who can hold her own is bossy, hence my post. Very well said... |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:33am On Jul 21, 2014 |
MadCow1:BIG UP MAN!!! |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by MadCow1: 11:38am On Jul 21, 2014 |
freecocoa: Erm, Madam; A Mans words inside his house are LAW! #Simple&Short. You reserve the right to biitch about it, you have the right to air your feelings about it, you have the right to even appeal his words in the highest Court of Marriage appeal headed by the Chief Justice of the Family; THE MAN. But it still wouldnt change. SO where a woman becomes unsubmissive is when she hears the LAW and disobeys the LAW without proper approval from the head of Government (THE MAN). Ask for the question of 'what will happen if I greet her first and make her breakfast', I will take it that you were cracking a joke and respond with a ' ' laughing smiley. However, please stop making such jokes from here on except its is the 1st of April. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:43am On Jul 21, 2014 |
donpeey22: pm i insist!:|...never swayed by insistence |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by MadCow1: 11:45am On Jul 21, 2014 |
chimkaire: ...never swayed by insistence #Bossy! |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Heamah: 11:49am On Jul 21, 2014 |
baggy4luv: Prerequisite for bossy women. Is that supposed to be for your wife or a girlfriend? If that is what you must do for a woman you call a wife, why not give advice to simply avoid marrying a bossy woman. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:50am On Jul 21, 2014 |
E get as u go fucc woman wether she bossy or not the next morning she go LOYAL! foreva and ever. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by freecocoa(f): 11:53am On Jul 21, 2014 |
MadCow1:Hehehe , inside 'HIS' house you say? I'd like to think the right word there is 'THEIR' house and No, his word is not law, not as far as I'm concerned especially if its something that affects me directly, like you rightly said, I can appeal but where you failed is saying it wouldn't change no matter what, tah! It can change and definitely will change sometimes(supposing one is dealing with a reasonable man here). As regards cooking for her, your response has clearly shown how much of an unromantic/inconsiderate fella you are . 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by pickabeau1: 11:56am On Jul 21, 2014 |
Dude You are mixing female bosses and bossy females MadCow1: 2 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 11:57am On Jul 21, 2014 |
(Quote author=MadCow1] #Bossy! [/quote]MadCow! Why evils |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by MadCow1: 11:58am On Jul 21, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Dude Very thin line fam! They infact tend to get crossed more often than none. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by pickabeau1: 12:01pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
MadCow1: Yes.. i agree it can A woman who attains leadership will more often than not will have shown some 'bossy' traits which men too will have shown However its not all cases |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 12:04pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
chimkaire: ...never swayed by insistence |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
chimkaire: ...never swayed by insistenceok i order u to pm me now! ; |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 12:13pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
donpeey22: ok i order u to pm me now! ; |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Anacksunamun: 12:16pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Nah, I disagree with the OP. The qualities he listed there ain't Bossy, but a quality of an annoying nagging woman. As for me, I can date a bossy woman. They're like other types of women, you just have to find her buttons and she'll be loyal to you. Bossy (not bad-mannered) women rock because of their strong personality. The fact is, low self-esteem men always feel threatened about any woman that has a strong personality and opinion of her own. This is why some low self-esteemed men don't like marrying women that earns more than them or are richer than them, they will feel threatened by her income, they loose their natural "leadership" title because they're afraid. They prefer wussy women. Such men are wusses!! If you are confident of yourself, you can tame a bossy woman and make her loyal to you. Bossy women are damn loyal. They stick up for their men through thick and thin. What irks a bossy woman is a man belittling her or her contributions/opinions. Appreciate her efforts, let her make decisions once in a while and she will give you your respect. Guys, if you can make a bossy woman love you, as in fall crazily in love with you, she will drop her bossy attitude for ONLY you. You'll earn her respect which is hard to come by. When dating a bossy woman, don't treat her like a slave, in as much as men are the leader of the pack, appreciating a bossy woman's efforts, allowing her make some decisions and following some of her steps, is all they ask from men. Don't relegate them to the background, once in a while, let her have her way in an argument/decision planning. It doesn't makes the man a sissy for that, it makes the bossy lady love her man and appreciate that her man is able to allow take some decisions by herself. Heck, that's what relationships are all about - Partnership. Your lover is your partner. That a man is a boss in the relationship doesn't mean he shouldn't care about his boo's views. That's autocratic!! We're talking of love not business transactions. Until a man stops looking down on woman or feel she and her decisions are inferior, they'll keep having problems with bossy/opinionated women. Please men, relationships is about two people, the decisions should be about two people as well. The "boss" in an organisation/business entity, is different from the "boss" in a love relationship. Appreciate your partners decisions and allow them make some good decisions themselves, and you will see bossy women are lovely to date once you tame them and show them you are loyal to them. They love fiercely and unconditionally!! 4 Likes |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
chimkaire:you have to obey me girl. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by AdmiralPato(m): 12:25pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
queensenglish91: Such an energy saver 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Anacksunamun: 12:44pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
MadCow1:My Nigga!! Preach!! |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by AriDsexy(f): 12:50pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
maxism2: a bossy woman would always ask u 2 :Change her pad during menstruation,are you for real? |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Anacksunamun: 12:56pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
MadCow1:Gbamest!! |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by daveP(m): 12:58pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Had one that was taking advantage of ma 'cooldomness'(at work) to boss me around(buy me credit,see set the dis dat,ul help me go downstairs......(like i don turn robot).one day i fes gaan,see how i drop angry lines.she con cryyyyy! Later i discovered why...but is bossing a guy around anoda way to signal to him? |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 1:04pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
I'm bossy. But doesn't mean I'm gonna let him know. Come on, what's the fun in that. Unless it's a d/s relationship though, then it's a diff ball game. |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 1:08pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
donpeey22: you have to obey me girl.At your service, Sir 1 Like |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by hisprinceship: 1:18pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
Why keep up with a bossy woman? Simply impeach her joor |
Re: Dealing With Bossy Women by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jul 21, 2014 |
xp17: personally,I like bossy women. I like their confidence and they are less likely to cheat because of their egos. unlike one of those eddy Murphy asked to bark like a dog, they could cheat at every slightest woo, even from a weakling.Now that's a real man talking with real confidence and high self esteem. Your head dey correct!! 1 Like |
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