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Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by MizMyColi(f): 10:39am On Aug 09, 2014 |
errrmmm.........putting myself in perspective here, I'd say MrKay101 and Wikiman posts sounds Selfless while that of Killjoy sounds, well - Selfish Let the bullets hurling begin already! Hiorhiorhiorhior |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 10:46am On Aug 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi: errrmmm.........putting myself in perspective here, I'd say MrKay101 and Wikiman posts sounds Selfless while that of Killjoy sounds, well - Selfish Let the bullets hurling begin already! Hiorhiorhiorhior Well yes and no, it depends on the perspective you look at it, truth is despite a guy doing everything for a lady they still get dumped, you might not agree because maybe you feel women should always been on the receiving end, but ideally some women despite getting all those selfless actions still make the guy feel stupid for even being nice in the first place. So like I said if you look at this without being biased you would see there's a point to this, okay a better way, imagine it was your brother instead, am sure your view would be less opionated. 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by redgem(f): 10:48am On Aug 09, 2014 |
killjoy:*Laughing* *still laughing* and *laughing* Just imagine your monicker... 'Killjoy' I'm still happy, dancing and singing.... Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Question 1 Did I say anything bad in your thread? Question 2 Did I insult you or any other male folks here? Question 3 Look at my profile picture...do I look like a popper? I don't expect anything from the opposite sex but that does not mean, they should be selfish to themselves cos I won't say selfish to my fellow sex.. To does guys that I reading this thread and taking note of it, I pity your future relationships.. Any insults that is referred to me...won't get a reply or a word from me...you can post insults as you like, I will only ignore it cos having a conversation or exchanging words with the person is an insult to my path... |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 11:05am On Aug 09, 2014 |
redgem:I don't think you should be attacked for hearing your opinions, afterall we all here to learn, with that being said as much as I don't usually agree to post like this. Sadly right now I do, maybe it's out of anger but I do, because doing the alternative hasn't let me anywhere, the only reason I agree to this is because one should not put someone's needs above his or her( esp when not married), it's stupid and leaves the other party hurt. Its one thing to be dumped for cheating but being dumped for not being as available as before or not communicating is absurd. Don't you think? |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by killjoy(m): 11:06am On Aug 09, 2014 |
redgem: ohhhhh at first u wer the psychological schemer, "d op is funny, d post is senseless"-doz wer ur words... now ur attacks r thwarted, ur playin the laughin n singin victim... ohhh purleeeaaassseeee 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by MizMyColi(f): 11:09am On Aug 09, 2014 |
pcguru1: If I didn't see any sense in his post, I would have posted something in the lines of: "Red Alert! Dangerous and Confused Post On Here " Truth is, there are some ladies guys would come across and they have no option than go into selfish mode. But then, that's why I said "putting my self in perspective"....... For me, being selfless trumps being selfish, anytime, anyday. Why would a guy continue being with a lady that inspires selfishness in Him, take a break already joor! Speaking for myself now, I find that I have a way of inspiring selflessness even in a rather selfish guy or girl, especially guys. Don't blame me, it is the Lord's Doing Talking about being opinionated, I think we all are, as far as this thread is concerned. The OP has spoken some truth(s), Yes. But then, Its relative, not absolute. 1 Like |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Tymax(m): 11:14am On Aug 09, 2014 |
Best Advice on Nairaland Ever!!! Killjoy, even though I don't like your username, I must confess, I gbadun your post 100% Naija babes, by default, expect a guy to be daddy, boyfriend and sugardaddy all at the same time. Maka why? No babe should complain if we cheat, cos you never loved us in the first instance. We bought your attention and loyalty... so ladies, shut up. Honestly, I don't see how any woman can share equal rights with me if I am the lone spender. Why must I be the caring one everytime? Makes no sense. If you care for my gifts only, then brace yourself cos I am your lord and you are my thrall. Deal with it, woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 11:17am On Aug 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi: That's quite true actually, like you said, we are all opinionated and I support your view that being selfless trumps being selfish, I think the main point I like most in your post, is "why being a relationship that is selfish", sometimes we humans think we change people or want to believe people are more than we see, not knowing pple don't change. And yes everything is relative nothing is absolute. Take care 2 Likes |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 09, 2014 |
redgem: You got a whole lot of 99 problems? O guys, beware ooo . O tu to diri Jesu ! O Lord, thank you, I ain't one |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Skykid1208(m): 11:36am On Aug 09, 2014 |
killjoy: i created this post some months back, but i lost it along with my account. let me do you guys a favour by re-posting for those interested. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by tiswell(m): 12:02pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Ollybarbie219:I thought dis post is exclusively for men...u seemed like the one pained by dis post |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 12:04pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
pcguru1: [size=13pt]Well, sadly it didnt work for you. Plus being a good dude isnt about buying gifts like a dummy, That why even if you do, ur girl might be spending it on a broke guy somewhere else. its not about you being a maga, but being honest about what you can take. for example i aint scared to scold my babe when somfin pisses me off. Id tell her babe, ur boy is broke right now..... If you guys are serious about the relationship, being open and honest is expedient. If ur the guy to say yes to every of her wishes, its unrealistic and she knows this, shes no dummy, so instead of mutual love you pay for her love. i dont roll like that. or maybe ive been lucky with all my rltps or maybe i know how to handle my woman (cos i grew around em)..... Just be urself, dont hurt urself tryin to impress her.... Honesty helps!!![/size] 2 Likes |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 12:33pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Shout out to all the guys who girls spend their money on. And dont go for poverty stricken girls (who wanna live above their means). Go for a girl with a future, who respects herself...... Jeez, if all you can offer a girl is your money then she will milk you dry.... If ure a fun and lovely person she will desire ur company.... its how u present yourself, its the foot you show first...... Even A runs girl always has that one guy who she loves (and he is probably a broke niccur)..... Who are you without the money , remember jesus was not a rich man but he had huge followership. Your personality is crucial, the money just makes your like a looooot easier, but it cant buy you a good personality. A pig is a pig even with diamond chains. Once again, shout out to them boys whose lady also spends on them, u re doing something right bruv . |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 12:51pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
kwis: She understood that's there was no money, and yes I have to scold if i know she's acting in a way that is either not favorable to her or me, but despite all these , getting a break for something as little as not communication is a bit annoying, i mean i know boyfriends who act like arseholes to babes and they are still together, just because i can't call everyday to validate someone. but i get your point though. with women nothing is really logical i guess. |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by TerpeOjorobaby: 5:56pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Babe me sef na babe oh!!!! I m nt after any guys money.just do wht s rght as a guy n nt depending on anyones writeup.as a guy if u feel ur babe shld nt b trted rght e cncrn u. killjoy: |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Ryabcool(m): 6:11pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Ollybarbie219: BROKE ASS KIDS be like~ For ur info since u were too blind while lookn through my profile to see I'm a student and I'm in my 2nd year...no give urself high bp ooo.. Not everyone on nl is a jambite like u take hrtyadi yadi yada dumbass... STFU Uglyass Monstar of Limbo!
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Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by slex(m): 7:16pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
pcguru1: Remi hmm dont let me expose you man..lol |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by celeron40(m): 7:24pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Thank God this thread has not been invaded by thos "just flash the cash for her" clowns. |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 8:54pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
redgem:yes i got it.it can never make sense to gold diggers.it pains dem reading dis kind of thread.sori ok |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 9:27pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
slex: Haaaaaaa my nigga long time bro, how's Ukraine treating you, damn small world bro |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by slex(m): 9:44pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
pcguru1: Yeah man. Ukraine?!?had to leave wen dors damn rebels moved in . Whats up . Im now in lagos till things cool off. Hope u good man. Hey you still watch animes right? |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by MightyFortress: 10:17pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Lovely piece! |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by ERCROSS(m): 10:40pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
redgem: Hahahaha...funny post for ur mind... |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 11:13pm On Aug 09, 2014 |
Gbam, the guy is good. Even if I have sleepless night for a babe, I go tell her to woo her but before that conversation ends I just turn and tell her not to call me again. Nah the game be that.. ! Money doesn't buy a woman's love. Unless you are Adenuga or Dangote. She will eat the money and still run after her heart.. |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Nobody: 7:01am On Aug 10, 2014 |
slex:Nice up, straight up, and yeah still watching animes till death finds me. I got some bunch though. I will holla you on facebook. |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Ollybarbie219(f): 7:29am On Aug 10, 2014 |
Ryabcool: yadi yadi yada dumbass... STFU Uglyass Monstar of Limbo!Ignorant little fellow u have been ignored! Won't trade any more words with u...I'm not gonna get on ur level coz I don't gat d time to play high school. Grow up child! Life is not all about cartoons |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Ollybarbie219(f): 7:31am On Aug 10, 2014 |
tiswell: I thought dis post is exclusively for men...u seemed like the one pained by dis postIGNORED |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by Ryabcool(m): 8:08am On Aug 10, 2014 |
Ollybarbie219: Ignorant little fellow u have been ignored! Won't trade any more words with u...I'm not gonna get on ur level coz I don't gat d time to play high school. Grow up child! Life is not all about cartoonslol! Yadi yadi yada! Just so you know, i was in 200level in 2009. Meaning you were probably in jss3 writing junior waec so you can get the idea of who you think you're talking your load of 'barbie' rubbish to. 2. That cartoon you see right there is vintage. It was made 1988-1989 but it finally aired in 9igeria during the 1990s. Adults here who had a great childhood would remember that cartoon character and smile immediately. Children of your generation do not know it and are not expected to. 3. Adults also watch cartoons till date. If they didn't, Ice Age and Despicable Me wouldn't have graced the top ten at the box office. So now that you've been educated, save that grow up load of bull for your insecure little self. You better be happy i've been in a great mood this past week, i would have totally finished your sorry self and fed you to the dogs. Bye Ugly Mon'star! Have a great day in church! 1 Like
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Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by chidekings(m): 8:15am On Aug 10, 2014 |
truth is sometimes i think china spare parts are used in the construction of a girls body....cus they think abnormal somethings |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by laplace12(m): 8:43am On Aug 10, 2014 |
princessayesha: Am not a guy....buh thanksYou gething a copy for your bros? |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by EejaNla01(m): 8:47am On Aug 10, 2014 |
Its advisable for a man to be moderate in his dealings with ladies even though they can be very cunning... If and only if guys can take up this code,our ladies ill attitude about love and relationship ill be bettered Apparently they wont be happy with the op's post cos they ill be at the losing end and thier ego and manipulating attitude ill drop. |
Re: Seven Rules That Will Save You The Pain Of Heart Breaks (for Guys Only) by laplace12(m): 9:05am On Aug 10, 2014 |
The post is mostly about games in a relationship. But the bigger question is 'if you play games to win and keep a girl, will you play games in the marriage?' In as much I know and played some of the op games but I think I've changed strategy. Recently I deliberately choose to play a good guy and watch her reaction. Whatever her reaction is determines wether I stay or move on. I choose that cos I am going to be a good guy in marriage, and would want a wife that loves and respects good guys. 1 Like |
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