MizMyColi: errrmmm.........putting myself in perspective here, I'd say MrKay101 and Wikiman posts sounds Selfless while that of Killjoy sounds, well - Selfish Let the bullets hurling begin already! Hiorhiorhiorhior

killjoy:

why why do u employ cheap psychological schemes against me? I don't nid a magnifying glass to see hw hurt dis thread makes u feel. smart gals wud learn a tin or two from dis post. dumb gals wud b offended by it. its gals lyk u dat make guys tink gals hv fish brain.

redgem:
*Laughing* *still laughing* and *laughing*
Just imagine your monicker... 'Killjoy' I'm still happy, dancing and singing....
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Question 1
Did I say anything bad in your thread?

Question 2
Did I insult you or any other male folks here?

Question 3
Look at my profile picture...do I look like a popper?

I don't expect anything from the opposite sex but that does not mean, they should be selfish to themselves cos I won't say selfish to my fellow sex..
To does guys that I reading this thread and taking note of it, I pity your future relationships..

Any insults that is referred to me...won't get a reply or a word from me...you can post insults as you like, I will only ignore it cos having a conversation or exchanging words with the person is an insult to my path...

redgem:
*Laughing* *still laughing* and *laughing*
Just imagine your monicker... 'Killjoy' I'm still happy, dancing and singing....
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Question 1
Did I say anything bad in your thread?

Question 2
Did I insult you or any other male folks here?

Question 3
Look at my profile picture...do I look like a popper?

I don't expect anything from the opposite sex but that does not mean, they should be selfish to themselves cos I won't say selfish to my fellow sex..
To does guys that I reading this thread and taking note of it, I pity your future relationships..

Any insults that is referred to me...won't get a reply or a word from me...you can post insults as you like, I will only ignore it cos having a conversation or exchanging words with the person is an insult to my path...

pcguru1:

Well yes and no, it depends on the perspective you look at it, truth is despite a guy doing everything for a lady they still get dumped, you might not agree because maybe you feel women should always been on the receiving end, but ideally some women despite getting all those selfless actions still make the guy feel stupid for even being nice in the first place. So like I said if you look at this without being biased you would see there's a point to this, okay a better way, imagine it was your brother instead, am sure your view would be less opionated.

If I didn't see any sense in his post, I would have posted something in the lines of:

"Red Alert! Dangerous and Confused Post On Here "

Truth is, there are some ladies guys would come across and they have no option than go into selfish mode.

But then, that's why I said "putting my self in perspective"....... For me, being selfless trumps being selfish, anytime, anyday.

Why would a guy continue being with a lady that inspires selfishness in Him, take a break already joor!

Speaking for myself now, I find that I have a way of inspiring selflessness even in a rather selfish guy or girl, especially guys. Don't blame me, it is the Lord's Doing

Talking about being opinionated, I think we all are, as far as this thread is concerned.

The OP has spoken some truth(s), Yes. But then, Its relative, not absolute.

MizMyColi:

If I didn't see any sense in his post, I would have posted something in the lines of:

"Red Alert! Dangerous and Confused Post On Here "

Truth is, there are some ladies guys would come across and they have no option than go into selfish mode.

But then, that's why I said "putting my self in perspective"....... For me, being selfless trumps being selfish, anytime, anyday.

Why would a guy continue being with a lady that inspires selfishness in Him, take a break already joor!

Speaking for myself now, I find that I have a way of inspiring selflessness even in a rather selfish guy or girl, especially guys. Don't blame me, it is the Lord's Doing

Talking about being opinionated, I think we all are, as far as this thread is concerned.

The OP has spoken some truth(s), Yes. But then, Its relative, not absolute.

redgem:
Hahahaha...very funny
Singing *I've got 99 problems and you ain't one* lalalalala

killjoy: i created this post some months back, but i lost it along with my account. let me do you guys a favour by re-posting for those interested.



Warning: readers discretion adviced. If u can't handle a pretty lenghty write up, den move ahead wit ur life of ignorance; afterall, detest for readin is ingrained in an average black man's DNA. Below are the Rules:

Rule 1
Giving all ur love, care, time, even money doesn't guarantee she'll stay: let me tell u wot makes women stick to guys thru all season, both good n bad - because... they... wait for it, wait for it, wait for it... want to!!! Yes. They stick to guys because they love d guys n choose to stay wit dem. U must hv seen or heard of guys who beat up dia gals bt still, d gals cling to dem (nw I'm nt askin u to abuse ur gals). Givin ur gals ur all may be gud, bt is nt a reason for dem to stick to u, infact givin dem all in fantastic proportions is unhealthy. I will explain dat subsequently. So dnt tink she's still wit u cos of all d love n money ur showerin on her, wen its tym to leav u, nufin will stop her.

Rule 2:
Never make her too comfortable: u lov her wit ur lyf. She loves u even more. Bla bla. U devote all ur tym n bein to her, evrytin is magical, she knows ur hers for lyf, den a point is inevitably reached when... u suddenly start lookin lyk an ass to her. I knw ur tinkin, dats nt right! D more comfortable u make a person, d more d person shud giv more. Yes! Dat is in sync wit logic, bt women ain't logical! Once in a while, dnt get jelous, dnt care, dnt spend, hold back urself. Let her run after u. Get a lyf aside her! I can't tell u hw importnt dis is

Rule 3:
Family takes precedence over her: it cannot be overemphasised hw important it is for u to knw d people who will be wit u for eva n dos who will cum n go. Never take sides wit ur gal against ur mama or sister. Its against d bro code of conduct. Never inconvenience ur family to accommodate "one man's daughter". It will make her respect u. Once u forge ur gal into a wife, gud for u! She's nw ur family n shud nt be inconvinienced for anoda random "non-family". Until u ring her finger, she's fair game, meanin she can dump ur sorry ass for anoda. So dnt be stupid inof to enjoy temporary things n miss out eternity.

Rule 4:
She's not worth any emotional/financial stress: don't struggle to give what u dnt have! Asume she requests for 10k, if u dnt hav it tell her "i dont hv it", if u hav it bt aint feelin charitable, tell her "i wont give, go work for ur money", if u hav n feel lyk sharin fine! Give her! Relationships r to be enjoyed not tolerated! Dating is not an emancipation frm poverty! Neva you hav sleepless nights for her sake. Neva you borrow to satisfy her every whim! This may sound harsh, but not until ur married to her, u hav no business dealin with her usin ur heart, use ur head!! Most men make this moronic mistake of gettin worked up over a woman! God! Women r d emotional ones, let dem cry over d relationship, its nt ur job nigger! Dnt kill urself for a gal, she wud attend ur funeral with a new boyfrend. A word for d wise is sufficient

Rule 5:
Always get even: women always think they r smatter dan men. Here's why - dey grow up to have huge racks n bums as big as jumbo size hot air balloons, n guys r wired to be attractd to wot dey see, hence dey can manipulate guys, hence dey r smarter! Guys who hv more money dan sense tend to give more n get little in a relationship. Y shud u buy her a box of chocolate on her bday n expect hand band on urs?? Get even! For every shoe she buys u, get her a wrist watch, for evry tie, get her a scarf, for every boxer, get her a pant (wait, shey boxers r even more expensiv dan pants, hehehe). This sounds like a game bt in truth, datin a 21st century naija babe is a game, im not askin u to win, jst get even. Keep on readin, im not thru.

Rule 6:
Love yourself first n more: lyk i said earlier, ladies think dey r smarter n wud love to expliot u in d name of relationships. Hence word lyk *mugu*, n phrase lyk *maga don pay* wer coined. If u love urself first n more dan her, u wont get her wot u hav never tasted. U wont giv her a treat u hv neva had. There is somethin called self love n self respect n evry guy shud hv dem! Moreova, until u truly love urself, u will find it hard to love others without bein a wuss... lov ur gal bt undastand dat ur a human bein too n desearve d good tins of life. Take care of urself too. Love ur life, u hav jst one left. And d final rule....

Rule 7:
Understand who you are as a man: bein a man is one of d biggest burdens a human cud hav. Ther r previleges of bein a man, bt responsibilities too. Undastand dat u hv to be on top of evrytin, ur game, (i didnt say ur gal o, i said ur game, hohohohoho). Undastnd dat dis gal wud be d first to throw rocks at u if u become a failure in lyf tomoro. Set ur priorities right, make enough money to take care of ur family, both batch A n batch B. Imagine good things u can afford with $10million - a gud house, good car, love, etc. Strive to be d kind of man u wud be happy to have ur sister marry.

Nota Bene: i am not prejudiced towards women, i hate everyone equally.

Ollybarbie219:

pcguru1:
Crap I would have believed this if I weren't getting dumped despite calling, getting gifts,valentine day sending recharge, helping with resume and other stuff as for OllieBarbie you may not like the post and may not like the op, hell I hardly know the op, but damn the topic sliced my heart, because I broke very rule. I always worried about my gf because I loved her so much, but yet she gets pissed because I worry too much I can understand that, I got gifts for her on her birthday, valentine day and just gifts randomly, but wait all I got was a fake watch and wallet, normally I don't do all these spending but this was different I was in love, ave helped out with applying jobs on her behalf, doing stuff for her that I won't even do for my bros. I never cheated and I always made sure we at least tried to hangout. But so to my shock she asked for a break in the relationship the reason was.......wait for it wait for it. because I don't call as much as I used to, because I stopped paying attention. Come on am a programmer am trying to set my career at 28 am not yet where I should be. Am sorry to say but I think a lot of young Nigeria girls are selfish,immature,stingy and unrealistic. This is the first time dating someone younger than me and it's a bad experience older ex babe's were always understanding. OP I feel your post, although there are some good reasonable and matured babe's out there. But seriously focus on your career, if you are poor tomorrow, your so called loved one will be the first to mock you.

kwis:


[size=13pt]Well, sadly it didnt work for you. Plus being a good dude isnt about buying gifts like a dummy, That why even if you do, ur girl might be spending it on a broke guy somewhere else. its not about you being a maga, but being honest about what you can take. for example i aint scared to scold my babe when somfin pisses me off. Id tell her babe, ur boy is broke right now..... If you guys are serious about the relationship, being open and honest is expedient. If ur the guy to say yes to every of her wishes, its unrealistic and she knows this, shes no dummy, so instead of mutual love you pay for her love. i dont roll like that. or maybe ive been lucky with all my rltps or maybe i know how to handle my woman (cos i grew around em)..... Just be urself, dont hurt urself tryin to impress her.... Honesty helps!!![/size]

killjoy:

look my friend, der r gals out there praying to meet a guy who will just be himself n just be gud. I pray dey find u, plus, go n work hard for ur money n stop stakin ur future on d hope of finding a gal in a better position tomorrow. focus guy! focus!!

Ollybarbie219: BROKE ASS KIDS be like~ For ur info since u were too blind while lookn through my profile to see I'm a student and I'm in my 2nd year...no give urself high bp ooo.. Not everyone on nl is a jambite like u take hrt

pcguru1:

She understood that's there was no money, and yes I have to scold if i know she's acting in a way that is either not favorable to her or me, but despite all these , getting a break for something as little as not communication is a bit annoying, i mean i know boyfriends who act like arseholes to babes and they are still together, just because i can't call everyday to validate someone. but i get your point though. with women nothing is really logical i guess.

redgem:

Hmmm...please,I'm tired of laughing
Is it hult or hurt?
It doesn't affect me...wanted to give the op a simple advice but changed my mind..decided to just laugh and leave the thread cos it makes no sense..
Got that?

slex:

Remi hmm dont let me expose you man..lol

pcguru1:

Haaaaaaa my nigga long time bro, how's Ukraine treating you, damn small world bro

redgem: Hahahaha...funny post
Funny op
Hahahaha

slex:

Yeah man. Ukraine?!?had to leave wen dors damn rebels moved in . Whats up . Im now in lagos till things cool off. Hope u good man. Hey you still watch animes right?

Ryabcool: yadi yadi yada dumbass... STFU Uglyass Monstar of Limbo!

tiswell: I thought dis post is exclusively for men...u seemed like the one pained by dis post

Ollybarbie219: Ignorant little fellow u have been ignored! Won't trade any more words with u...I'm not gonna get on ur level coz I don't gat d time to play high school. Grow up child! Life is not all about cartoons

princessayesha: Am not a guy....buh thanks