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| Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 8:44pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
This happend to a friend of mine but could have equally happend to me or anyone. She is an attractive girl and gets many suitors. There is this guy who she has been having an on and off thing with. She finally summoned the courage to msg him saying she is feeling 'hot' and he should come 'help' her out. After calmly replying as if he didnt just get offered a deal of a life time he said he would come see her. He didnt pitch n when she asked him he just said work came up  She was so angry but tried to contain it and act normal like she didnt care. But she later told me she felt rejected because she actually prepared for him. Now we ladies are always rejecting guys left right and centre with no care in the world. When we are rejected all hell will and should break loose. So this got me thinking... Have any ladies been brushed aside after taking such a bold step and inniating sex? I mean men love sex...or is it to punish her in return for rejecting him the previous times. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by dechandel(f): 8:52pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Spreads mat 7 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 8:57pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
dechandel:*draws mat away * Op your grammar strong gan ooo..... any ladies ? 20 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by pasqal09: 8:59pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Men love sex but that doesn't mean our lives depend on it And yes, I've reject having sex with a girl before. Sometimes, you're just not in the mood. 39 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:02pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Op± I'm dead sure this said lady is you  •70 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:05pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Jregz: its plural for lady ? Stop being a grammar Nazi 11 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
banega: Op± I'm dead sure this said lady is you lol would it make you share your experience if it was? .... If so then its me indeep  |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by purplesummer(f): 9:06pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Sometimes when you are being begged to eat a particular food, you lose the appetite. It doesn't necessarily mean another person wouldn't desire the same food. 15 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
banega: Op± I'm dead sure this said lady is you lol would it make you share your experience if it was? .... If so then its me indeed |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:09pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
purplesummer: Sometimes when you are being begged to eat a particular food, you lose the appetite. It doesn't necessarily mean another person wouldn't desire the same food. very wise words but its like preparing food for your husband...as much as others would love to eat it, you just want him to. Its his food. 9 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Rejected many times mostly as a virgin. Rejected once I am not happy with you. I can beat you on top.. 1 Like |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by bestman09(m): 9:13pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
I have turned down one before though i have been turned down countless times! 1 Like |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:14pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
pasqal09: Men love sex but that doesn't mean our lives depend on it I dont understand this... As a woman im taught to believe men always want it. What reason do you have to not be in the mood 4 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
bestman09: I have turned down one before though i have been turned down countless times! why did u turn her down? Was it to get revenge or boost your ego? 1 Like |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by pasqal09: 9:18pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids:Must I always want to have sex at every moment? 12 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
pasqal09: not every moment but when you see me you should. Especially if i put in the effort to look sexy for you....as a man you should pay me attention ( excuse the pun lol) 4 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by chibwike(m): 9:24pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
i do reject sex from ladies often |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by pasqal09: 9:28pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids:Not when you caught me at a bad time |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by vizkiz: 9:28pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: If i wanna see you, how do i go about it??  11 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
chibwike: i do reject sex from ladies often why? Even ones you have had sex with before? |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:31pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
vizkiz: use your imagenation ...only my bf should see me |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
pasqal09: honestly I know as a woman its a bad quality...but i dont like taking no for an answer so id be very angry with you...no sex for you the next time you want it  1 Like |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by vizkiz: 9:35pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: don't be scared swirry...i will not turn you down 8 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by uboma(m): 9:35pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: Who ever taught you that didn't teach you well. A man can turn down a woman's advances if its obvious that she's trying to pin him down. A lot goes on our minds gal. I'll advise your friend to take it slow with him. Let the feeling from both sides flow naturally. And if he's really for her, then she wouldn't have to work 3 hard after all. 10 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:40pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
uboma: you make a good point about the flow from both sides. I dont think he likes her so I just advised her to let him be...she can do better. |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:42pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Mutuwa: Make i swim joor! What is special if a girl gets rejected of sex! lol...because women dont innitiate sex every day...so you better appreciate it. |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids:ok.... "any ladies" should come and state her matter4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Jregz: lol yes any of these ladies should. Please correct it for me since your english is perfect. And leave it in plural |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
vizkiz: lol im not offering |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Waspy(m): 9:49pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Lol @ Op.... your BF is calculatively cynical. that's all. If you made the move out of the blue, he might want to get skeptical/ cynical. This is why ladies shld be more spontaneous and non sterotypic......And pls for the records, erase the notion that all men want is sex, gaddemit, sometimes all we want is to get our acts right and then sex is far from it2 Likes |
| Re: Have Any Ladies Initiated Sex And Gotten Rejected? by Mutuwa(m): 9:50pm On Aug 11, 2014 |
Kinkybraids: Well some women do..i remember when i was comin up,i still see the face of the first girl who tried to screw me up,talking about the early 90's.she was older than me tho! Then my secretary some months bk,and an acquaintance I met at ikeja mall last month.funny enuf I fend them all off.. 1 Like |
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