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| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 3:14am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@JJYOU please help me tell them, People like Danke I dont know his problem, advising with anger n irritation like i begged him to  @ BusyBody True Talk n thanks, I'll use that advice. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by JJYOU: 11:16am On Oct 24, 2008 |
To be honest closure is for people who are in a relationship and they broke up over vague reasons. Cheating in relationships don't require closure because it means giving a reason for the demise of the relationship I wish life was this cut and dry. it is always good we advice people. lets learn not to take this things too personal. nobody owe us a duty of doing anything we suggest/recommend. i believe we will do more good if we dont let our emotions run into issues that are very distant from us |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by agwoko: 2:45pm On Oct 24, 2008 |
Anu lady yen de se mi sah, su gbon bakan meji ni aye yio.ti o ba je wi pe obirin ni ose iru nkan bayi fun okunrin ko si eni ti oma mo wipe nkan kan sele o.ewawo bi awon ara nland se ba lady yii kanu sah.oma se ooooooooooo nkan tio ti sele tisele ni yen, take heart. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by agwoko: 2:56pm On Oct 24, 2008 |
@ jjyou well said. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:27am On Oct 25, 2008 |
@agwoko Pls could u translate that in anglais(English)  @jjyou Thanks 4 ur matured answers, it's people like u n others, lots to mention that makes me keep coming to nairaland except Danke  |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 12:35am On Oct 25, 2008 |
monica wats ur problem,uve mentioned my name twice now,u r d one asking for d trouble |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by topup: 7:45am On Oct 25, 2008 |
Monicaa, unfortunately it seems that you are too willing to let emotion take over logic. Yes, we've all watched those romance movies in which the guy realises what he's lost and then he makes a desperate attempt to get 'his' girl back, and you two live in harmony forever. . blah, blah, blah, Sorry but like I said I was there about 3 months ago, begging my fellow Nairalanders to give me the advice I wanted to hear (go get him girl!) and to tell me to try and win him back, but they didn't. If everybody can see that you're too good for the guy, why won't you believe us. Unless you are a cheating, lying, disrespectful girl, I wouldn't say you two were made for each other. I am not saying you can't ever be with him, but the type of guy he is right now, will do nothing NOTHING for any girl, and he is certainly not a catch!! Truth is you don't want to move on, you're too scared of having to confront your insecurities, you'd rather force a reunion so that everything can go back to how it was, how you knew it as, but it won't, it just won't. Even if he goes out with you, the ball is in his court, it's his rules, and you would have knowingly signed the contract to allowing such foul play. By you having to apologise to him is no way to start a relationship, especially when he was in the wrong! Yes, people say when a relationship fails, both people are to blame, but it is not necessarily 50:50. Maybe for the first time you stood up to him and he played his typical cards and walked out on you, and you weren't expecting it, he was expecting you to retreat to your shell, beg and plead for his return and you're going to do just that? If nothing else will make you stand up for your basic rights, at least know that everybody else can see right through it, we can see the insecurities you've developed, as there is no other logical reason as to why a girl like you would want a scumbag as himself back in her life, to mess her up. It's hard after a break up, but instead of shying away from the fear and pain, confront it head on, it'll make you stronger and wiser, you'll love yourself for it, you should always have the attitude that you are worth much much much much more, and deserve better, not that you have to compromise and adjust and reduce yourself to his lower level. Monicaa monicaa, heed this warning, and move on. *If you're scared about getting another guy like him, relax, there are millions of scumbags out there, cheaters, players, liars all sorts! You'll have no problem finding another guy to replace him. Don't just remember the good times (which were probably becoming fewer and fewer, but instead remember the times you fell out, what he did to make you cry because it sounds like he did quite a lot of nasty things.* Here's the part where you completely disregard everything mentioned above and you start finding excuses to suit every point, don't do it! |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:36pm On Oct 25, 2008 |
topup: ewwwww,i wish u well in ur love life |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by danielle1: 2:28pm On Oct 25, 2008 |
Girly, call him up if he still refuses 2 pick, bone him. which would u prefer broken relationship or marriage? |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by topup: 5:10am On Oct 26, 2008 |
Danke: Now, what is the 'eww' for? Is that really necessary! |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 4:09pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
topup: come whats happening here?u of all pple? dat i was thinking u r matured?my God,u really dont understand my post do u? the ewwwww is an expression,cos ur story touched me,did u really think i was making fun of u christ |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by chika98: 7:22pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
topup: I think she meant to say "awww" She did wish you well in your love life. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 9:32pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
chika98: awww and ewww are normal expressions ,smtimes i use ewww and smtimes i use awww why she would even think dat i was making fun of her wt dat,is wat beats me,she of all pple na waoooo |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by tope2000(f): 9:35pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
Danke: well . . . . most people use ewwww. . . . when disgusted n awww. . . . . as in sweet or nice |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Morenike3(f): 9:36pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
lmao. . . . u ppl are not serious. I ban eww and awww from nl  |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by tope2000(f): 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
lol. . . . i agree |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 9:38pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
tope2000: and most people use ewww and awww all meaning same thing even d words that came after that are not rude words |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by chika98: 9:40pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
lol. . . Please make we rest this case. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Morenike3(f): 9:43pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
Danke:True, but you've gotta be close to that person. When we are talking or joking, we usually use ewww, and laugh. But if you go up to someone who doesn't get what you mean when they know ewww= nasty, that person [b]will [/b]take offense. |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Morenike3(f): 9:43pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
chika98:oops, didn't see this. ok, Case REST!! abi na rested |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by tope2000(f): 9:44pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
*Morenike: My point excatly |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 9:45pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
*Morenike: like top-up,i believe or i tot she was one matured woman,in my native tongue we either use chaii or ewwww if she was offended by it,to hell,i really dont care again |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Morenike3(f): 9:45pm On Oct 26, 2008 |
abi o. tell Jenny. She's too stubborn, wnt listen |
| Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Youngpo413: 6:06am On Jun 30, 2014 |
KarmaMod: Was she fuckkking him without protection? |
He would have continued. Im sure he'll make up some lame excuse of how those girls are the one chasing him instead blah blah and you'll fall for it. / Do Men Gossip More Than Women? / If You Are A Lady Read This!!!
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