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Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by yinraph(m): 12:12am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Write an emotional letter to him never an apology letter. Or send him an emotional msgs b4 callin him |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:20am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Like U mean how he hurt me cos i could write an emotional letter but wouldnt that also include apology? |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 12:24am On Oct 24, 2008 |
i hate cowardice tell him watver u have to tell him to his face,no letter no sms |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by yinraph(m): 12:27am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Send an emotional msgs 2him b4 calling him and av a place of u talking things out |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by tope2000(f): 12:28am On Oct 24, 2008 |
monicaa is still seeking advice |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by KarmaMod(f): 12:28am On Oct 24, 2008 |
How come Monica missed this part Lastly, I believe that you should ignore this guy, as you have tried your best! Now, please stop inflating his ego, he will probably not realise what he's lost, if you're still knocking at his door and lingering around the corner, you need to disappear from his life Lmao. Now he's telling you that he forgives YOU when he's the one frolicking with other women. Hilarious. Apparently you need self respect lessons. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 12:36am On Oct 24, 2008 |
KarmaMod: she needs it,my dear |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:40am On Oct 24, 2008 |
U guys pls dont criticise me. I know what Im doing. Now he has apologised n I still got a lot of things on my mind to say. So till we see of cause I'm not gonna be his doormat. I'm sure u guys have been there, no matter what even if ur heart is stone or rock, it would be very hard to move on if u still have things on ur mind. I'm not seeing him to beg him but to tell him my mind n what he has to say then i could finally hold my head high. My heart is open to any1 oo for relationship , I aint sticking to him. I've met a couple of guys im dating u know but it's good to hear from him first u know. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:43am On Oct 24, 2008 |
It is more like getting closure HE is the one that wants to see me. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by yinraph(m): 12:45am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@Monica Life starts with voice But endz with silence Luv startz with fear But endz with tears True friendship startz anywhere & endz No where |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by KarmaMod(f): 12:47am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Wont surprise me if you end up seeing him and being the one to apologize to him. I hope Im wrong |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by tope2000(f): 12:48am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Monicaa: Oh, so he want to see you now |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 12:52am On Oct 24, 2008 |
monic is going to see him to beg him ,dats d simple truth |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:56am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@ Danke y do u alws sound harsh n bitter even with ur advice? how do u know? r u there or here with me? @ others if i ignore him, then what?? i mean this bout communicating n getting closure, pls show me how im wrong here. please |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 12:58am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@yinraph pls what exactly do ur messages imply? |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:04am On Oct 24, 2008 |
bitter?no just a lil bit irritated,u know im telling d truth,its bitter but swallow it u r going to beg him to come back ,no denying |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by JJYOU: 1:10am On Oct 24, 2008 |
one man's meat is another man's poison as they say. what is wrong in begging to get what you want? make una chill with our sister i beg |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:11am On Oct 24, 2008 |
nothing wrong as long as she does not come back to tell us dat d guy has cheated on her again,or d guy told her d love he has for her has faded |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 1:16am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@jjyou Thanks dear at least u understand @Danke, i wasnt going to beg but thinking about it, im actually wasting my time with u. U really sound bitter n alws ready for a fight. Read ur other posts. U rnt the only one giving advice, if u dont want then leave as simple as that, R u the only one on nairaland. By the way is there something bothering u that u would like to share that is making u so angry n irritated easily even when it's not called for? Maybe u should check urself to find out y u r like this. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:19am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@monic take a chill pill dear,no need to get excited all im telling u is go for self respect class like karma suggested fights? naaa ,not with smone who begs for a man to be with her,cool down we r not fighting im only trying to see if u could actually put on a little more sense to the little u have |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Busybody2(f): 1:20am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Monica, you know what your problem is? YOU ARE TOO NICE and if you are not careful IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN AND AGAIN AND AGAIN . . . After all this guy did, he had the audacity to say he forgave you What is he forgiving you for Newsflash dearie He should be the one doing the begging and the grovelling He responds to you grudgingly because you bombarded his phone with calls and text and, now you are here claiming he contacted you because he wants closure You are so nice you are even wishing karma should treat him nicely Don't worry, we will all laugh over this a few months down the line |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by KarmaMod(f): 1:25am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Monicaa: what exactly do you wanna discuss? If not for the fact that you checked his phone, would you have known anything? He would have continued. Im sure he'll make up some lame excuse of how those girls are the one chasing him instead blah blah and you'll fall for it Have you gone for a STD checkup. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 1:26am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@Danke sigh it's a pity, u really are a miserable person n ready to fight n yap all sorts. Call me all u want, it aint nothing dear. Newayz uve said all u want, can u leave my page. Thanks y'all for ur advice both the good n bad but at the end of the day, I live it all to God since sum pple such as Danke, ! reserve my comment Peace out. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by KarmaMod(f): 1:27am On Oct 24, 2008 |
one man's meat is another man's poison as they say. what is wrong in begging to get what you want? Like Aids? |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 1:30am On Oct 24, 2008 |
@ Busybody, yeah i guess im too nice but cant be a fool. I said he texted me saying he forgave me n so on. I ignored that, all i said from my side is closure, he wants to see me n i would to hear what he has to say, is that bad? The forgiving part i ignored it cos i dont know what he's forgiving me for n thats y i said it would be left till we see in person, so i could really n finally know n talk to him. I'm not begging any1 here. @Karmamod Yeah I have n I'm all clean dear. Thanks I've heard but i believe i wont fall for his games. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:31am On Oct 24, 2008 |
KarmaMod: buahahaahahhahahahah @monic haba why u dey vex naaa miserable,my dear if im miserable i would have opened up a thread like u,na u dey miserable jare my sister,miserable and desperate,uve lost ur pride,ur self repsect and so on,blive me the likes of u r a disgrace to womanhood,so wen u come here showing ur frustration it angers me,not only have u been used and dumped,but uve also been deceived and turned to a mugu im only triyng to make u sensible for once |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Monicaa: 1:35am On Oct 24, 2008 |
lol lol lol Dont worry I'll invite u for my wedding, Miserable human being. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Danke: 1:38am On Oct 24, 2008 |
abeg invite me make i come chop rice,u sef na wen u wan marry,time no dey ur side again oooo,no wonder sef,ur posts has clearly showed us u r so miserable dat u wouldnt mind accepting anything as a husband,abeg invite me jare,make i come see |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Busybody2(f): 1:40am On Oct 24, 2008 |
KarmaMod: Let me guess Why do you always cheat? What did I do to deserve this? Why did you break up with me? Don't you want to marry me anymore? Why have you been avoiding my calls? What did I do to offend you? Why wasn't my picture in your phone? Who's picture is that? Whose p*ssy was that? How long have you known the hoe? What does she have that I don't have? I know you told me on the phone, but once again can you please forgive me? What can I do to make things work out? Was I rude or disrespectful to you? What can I do to make amends? . . . Monicaa |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by KarmaMod(f): 1:42am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Monicaa: Fine but I already know the excuses he'll give and Im sure he'll use the so called "yelling" against you. To be honest closure is for people who are in a relationship and they broke up over vague reasons. Cheating in relationships dont require closure cos it means giving a reason for the demise of the relationship. You already KNOW why the relationship ended so getting closure doesnt make sense. I know you're still gonna go so im gonna at least as you to Please dont meet him in your house or his place. No "private place". If he says anything about the yelling or whatever, ask him how would he react if he saw the same nonsense on your phone. Dont follow him anyway after the "talk" Before you leave thank him for the good times and wish him luck in life. Make sure you let him know that you just deserve better. Hopefully you take this into consideration. |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by Busybody2(f): 2:15am On Oct 24, 2008 |
Monicaa: Please take it easy with the guy o, don't go violent on the brother I beg Right, seriously, you know what's up, but you are just afraid of moving on, and it is a normal although unpleasant feeling but please take Karmamod's last post on board I wish you the best of luck. I mentioned Top-up, Nairaland's Agony aunty's name in the other thread, her posts are in pink you can't miss it and she told you she was in the same shoes as you three months ago. We were all privy to the case. Read her posts for inspiration, I hope it helps you move onwards and upwards. ALL THE BEST |
Re: Rules Of How To Get An Ex Back Necessary? by JJYOU: 2:57am On Oct 24, 2008 |
u guys manage to turn every thing to a fight on nairaland. chill people. there is no harm in apologising to people you love. |
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