tope2000:

Well . . . . .That dependz but i gotta keep real so i have to say mostly its the women but having said that why do you guys have commitment phobia anywayz, why do u have to wait until the girl ask or pressurize?

Commitment phobia is inevitable. . . .

For a woman, all she wants is the white wedding dress and the glamour surrounding it. . . .
She cannot see beyond that wedding day and think about the aftermath . . . . .
Questions like. . . . .Are we financially strong to be alone together? Do we have sufficient funds to start a family?
Some certain standards have to be met BEFORE most guys can walk the aisle with their women and until then, PHOBIA, PHOBIA PHOBIA!!!

men also pressurzie women for marriage

a woman will tell a man dat shes not ready,maybe cos of school or sthg,u need d see d way d guy begs d woman and promises to be understanding

all dis men dat marry 18 yr old,sm of dis girls aint in school yet,and their parents smtimes will not want them to get married just like dat,i tell u dat men swear wt d last drop of their blood promising heaven and earth to see her thru school no matter wat

yes woman take d lead but smtimes men also pressurize d women too,so drop d blackmail

~Sauron~:

Commitment phobia is inevitable. . . .

For a woman, all she wants is the white wedding dress and the glamour surrounding it. . . .
She cannot see beyond that wedding day and think about the aftermath . . . . .
Questions like. . . . .Are we financially strong to be alone together? Do we have sufficient funds to start a family?
Some certain standards have to be met BEFORE most guys can walk the aisle with their women and until then, PHOBIA, PHOBIA PHOBIA!!!

I quite agree with the words in bold but even if some guys are financially stable they still chicken sh.it about it, so that isnt an excuse to me, you both should help each other out thatz what marriages are for anyways for better 4 worse abi

Danke:

men also pressurzie women for marriage

a woman will tell a man that shes not ready,maybe because of school or sthg,u need d see d way d guy begs d woman and promises to be understanding

all this men that marry 18 yr old,sm of this girls aint in school yet,and their parents smtimes will not want them to get married just like that,i tell u that men swear wt d last drop of their blood promising heaven and earth to see her through school no matter what

yes woman take d lead but smtimes men also pressurize d women too,so drop d blackmail

God bless you

Danke:

men also pressurzie women for marriage

a woman will tell a man that shes not ready,maybe because of school or sthg,u need d see d way d guy begs d woman and promises to be understanding

all this men that marry 18 yr old,sm of this girls aint in school yet,and their parents smtimes will not want them to get married just like that,i tell u that men swear wt d last drop of their blood promising heaven and earth to see her through school no matter what

yes woman take d lead but smtimes men also pressurize d women too,so drop d blackmail

Danke, those are one-OFFs!!!
How often would u see men pressurizing women into marriage??
The situation is women 85%-15% men.

tope2000:

I quite agree with the words in bold but even if some guys are financially stable they still chicken sh.it about it, so that isnt an excuse to me, you both should help each other out thatz what marriages are for anyways for better 4 worse abi

Well. . . . . .I agree with you.

The issue of marriage is DEEP.
Men love their freedom and marriage(these days) is an entrapment.
It means i cannot just decide i wanna go to Glasgow and party like i used to without informing ma partner.
Ma buddies cant barge in on a saturday afternoon with drinks to come watch football with me without permission. . . .
It's FUCKERY.

@tope

i remember d third girl in my family,her first suitor came wen she was 17,dat day my dad chased d guy outta d house politely

seriously especially if d girl in question is very cute,as in beautiful,sm of them men dont wanna waste time,cos of fear of loosing d babe

wat of those men dat dont even know u from adams but the very first day they see u,they will tell u outrightly dat they aint interested in bf ang gf thingy,they want marriage,im talking out of experience here

pls men pressurize ojare,most of the women dat pressurize men ,do it of frustration,maybe cos of age not being on their side any longer or sthg,but u hardly see a young girl pressurizing  a man for marriage,its not as if they r no young girls doing dat,but comon dis pple r in no hurry

~Sauron~:

Danke, those are one-OFFs!!!
How often would u see men pressurizing women into marriage??
The situation is women 85%-15% men.

its a lie ,its not a 85-15 thingy plssss,yes nobody is denying it dat women r good in pressurizing,but u men pressurize too

ive seen men dat will even ask his pple to go beg d girl cos shes refused to marry him

i know how much assurance my man gave my dad b4 d man let me out,i know d way i was pressurized

abeg forget matter

Danke:

its a lie ,its not a 85-15 thingy plssss,yes nobody is denying it that women r good in pressurizing,but u men pressurize too

ive seen men that will even ask his people to go beg d girl because shes refused to marry him

i know how much assurance my man gave my dad before d man let me out,i know d way i was pressurized

abeg forget matter

I am not denying this. . . . .
Ma point is, women do it more than men and the percentage is high.
Every woman wants a white wedding, it's very compulsory for them to marry with all the glamour.
Men?? They just want kids and a family(if the whole wedding shebang can be cancelled, 90% of the men out there would LOVE the idea).

A Good woman never complains about a man's clutter. It is their right to make a mess and it is our job to clean it up. Please I beg you, stop watching too much sex and the city or Divine Secret of the yaya Sisterhood. Life is not like that.

Thank You.

Baby Jinx:

A Good woman never complains about a man's clutter. It is their right to make a mess and it is our job to clean it up. Please I beg you, stop watching too much sex and the city or Divine Secret of the yaya Sisterhood. Life is not like that.

Thank You.

Sisi, this is for you.
Now i think the sarc snack is working to ma benefits.

~Sauron~:

Well. . . . . .I agree with you.

The issue of marriage is DEEP.
Men love their freedom and marriage(these days) is an entrapment.
It means i cannot just decide i want to go to Glasgow and party like i used to without informing ma partner.
Ma buddies can't barge in on a saturday afternoon with drinks to come watch football with me without permission. . . .
It's FUCKERY.

Roflamo . . . . . . .
Now you are confessing the real issues and might i also add that this include the fact there would no more be menage à trois for you anymore with ur white chicks

Danke:

@tope

i remember d third girl in my family,her first suitor came when she was 17,that day my dad chased d guy out of d house politely
seriously especially if d girl in question is very cute,as in beautiful,sm of them men don't want to waste time,because of fear of loosing d babe

what of those men that don't even know u from adams but the very first day they see u,they will tell u outrightly that they aint interested in boyfriend ang girlfriend thingy,they want marriage,I'm talking out of experience here

please men pressurize ojare,most of the women that pressurize men ,do it of frustration,maybe because of age not being on their side any longer or sthg,but u hardly see a young girl pressurizing  a man for marriage,its not as if they r no young girls doing that,but comon this people r in no hurry

Rofl. . . . . . . .
I believe nowadays more men do pressurize girls into marrying esp if the guy is alot older than the babe

tope2000:

Roflamo . . . . . . .
Now you are confessing the real issues and might i also add that this include the fact there would no more be menage à trois for you anymore with ur white chick

Menage a trois??
No white chic in ma bed anymore. . . . .I repented.

i can imagine a 35 yr old man marrying an 18 yr old girl

na who go pressurize pass

~Sauron~:

Menage a trois??
No white chic in ma bed anymore. . . . .I repented.

Ok, why do guys see in white chick anywayz? is because they take a lot sh.it from u guys sexually??

Danke:

i can imagine a 35 yr old man marrying an 18 yr old girl

na who go pressurize pass

Tell me . . . but
I wouldnt condone to a 18yrs marrying a 35yrs old

Anyway shud i just say dat some guyz do dat intentionally and if u see dat it wasn't done intentionally then i shud rather say that it is a kind of lazy act or d mode of upbringing of such guy.And i think dat's enough 2 separate d guys from d men.

tope2000:


Ok, why do guys see in white chick anywayz? is because they take a lot sh.it from u guys sexually??

Who would u rather have??
Liv Tyler or Kemistry??

~Sauron~:

Who would u rather have??
Liv Tyler or Kemistry??

Lol
true i wud rather have wentwoth miller than sauron anyday

tope2000:

Lol
true i would rather have wentwoth miller than sauron anyday

Scofield??
I am not jealous.

~Sauron~:

Scofield??
I am not jealous.

yes scofield
Well you should

It's very inconsiderate to leave your stuff all over the place. It's not tiredness, it's pure laziness

stillwater:

It's very inconsiderate to leave your stuff all over the place. It's not tiredness, it's pure laziness

tell them

stillwater:

It's very inconsiderate to leave your stuff all over the place. It's not tiredness, it's pure laziness

I agree it's inconsiderate but its natural for men to act this way.
Deal with it just like we deal with the way women can't handle a blown fuse or install complex gadgets.

tope2000:

yes scofield
Well you should

I am not jealous cos i know Scofield is millions of miles away from you.
U better start crushing on Desmond Elliot or Jerry Amilo.

~Sauron~:

I agree it's inconsiderate but its natural for men to act this way.
Deal with it just like we deal with the way women can't handle a blown fuse or install complex gadgets.

Natural or unnatural, it's a very bad habit, just like picking your nose. Get rid of such habits, please.

~Sauron~:

I am not jealous because i know Scofield is millions of miles away from you.
U better start crushing on Desmond Elliot or Jerry Amilo.

ROFLMAO
OH lawd!!!!!!!!!
Well desmond is a very cute guy but unfortunately hes married
jerry amilo insult , the dude is too ugly for people with faces like mine

stillwater:

Natural or unnatural, it's a very bad habit, just like picking your nose. Get rid of such habits, please.

stillwater:

Natural or unnatural, it's a very bad habit, just like picking your nose. Get rid of such habits, please.

Thatz why it's a habit!!!
It's in a guy's DNA. . . . . .Y'all should deal with it, abeg!!!

tope2000:

ROFLMAO
OH lawd!!!!!!!!!
Well desmond is a very cute guy but unfortunately hes married
jerry amilo insult , the dude is too ugly for people with faces like mine

Jerry Amilo is cute. . . . . .
I heard he won face of Africa in 2002.

~Sauron~:

Jerry Amilo is cute. . . . . .
I heard he won face of Africa in 2002.

Jerry is your definition of cute
The dude is too ugly for my liking, sorry to say. It's painful watching him on screen

She should have known that before marrying him and knew she cud tolerate or at least change that aspect of him, so why complain now.

tope2000:

Jerry is your definition of cute
The dude is too ugly for my liking, sorry to say. It's painful watching him on screen

Painful??
A top celeb like that??
Tope. . . . . .A celeb is a celeb, no matter how ugly he looks.

~Sauron~:

Painful??
A top celeb like that??
Tope. . . . . .A celeb is a celeb, no matter how ugly he looks.

I dont giv triple jack if he is celeb or not, who cares _{maybe some chicks does sha}
A top celeb , i doubt that, upcoming more like

Tamunofiri:

She should have known that before marrying him and knew she cud tolerate or at least change that aspect of him, so why complain now.

maybe sha

tope2000:

I don't giv triple jack if he is celeb or not, who cares _{maybe some chicks does sha}
A top celeb , i doubt that, upcoming more like

Have u forgotten Scofield so soon??

~Sauron~:

Have u forgotten Scofield so soon??

not in wentworth case plssss
i meant jerry or jackass worreva his name is

tope2000:

not in wentworth case plssss
i meant jerry or jackass worreva his name is

Okay. . . . .
I have Wentworth's number.
U want it?

~Sauron~:

Okay. . . . .
I have Wentworth's number.
U want it?

U are a bad guy, you have it all this while and u cudnt even bother to give me
Ok i want it, give me plssssssss 

_{im guessing there is catch here}