Forsaken:


hmm. Thinking of the bolded.

But, i cant do premarital sex and i am shy to engage in any relationship with a girl.

Forsaken:


ok. Tanx. Actually, i got a much active NL account and i was realli scared to post it with that account.

MissMeiya: Lol brethart doll, I don't know what to tell him. If he's looking for a way to not be gay anymore... trying to be sensitive here, but I don't know what to tell him. It's never going to happen. I will add to the point that Nigerians don't understand that being gay is not all about sex. OP, it is possible that as a young, hormone-filled teen, you get erections at the thought of sex in and of itself. I know that growing boys get wood even if the wind hits them the right way.

In my humble (inexperienced) opinion, if you're not having butterflies in your stomach and romantic feelings, you can probably chalk it up to teenage hormones and your virginity. If you are, well, you are in a difficult country... Perhaps you can try and focus on growing up a little more. You can talk to other people in your shoes and get advice from them. I'm sorry, I'm ill-equipped to give advice on that matter with confidence. Circumstances in Nigeria are dangerous, and I am unfamiliar with dealing with them.

Good luck.

Forsaken: Nl gays should help me. Hezronlorraine, goshap, gsking, brethart, masonkz etc

masonkz:


Are you saying that's actually brethart

masonkz:

You even know all of us.

Forsaken:


lol. Yes

i'm actually an active nairalander but not among ur group.

brethart:
his "group"....

Forsaken:

yes. Gay group

brethart:
ok if there is a "gay group" .....is there a "straight group" or any other.......

brethart:
ok if there is a "gay group" .....is there a "straight group" or any other.......

masonkz: It's one thing to have feelings, it's another thing to act on them.

I don't believe much in prayers, but I do believe in self - discipline.

Dude, if you feel you're confused and something is just not right with you, and that this feeling came upon you just cos you started watching por.n...then by all means, resist whatever urge you have. Desist from such po.rn that makes you think of such, ans maybe try dating a girl. Dating, not se.x.

If that doesn't work, don't bite yourself, and don't stay frustrated. Many gay people, due to this same pressure of getting a girl friend, have ended up being so.

Above all else, your happiness matters. Focus on other things apart from your sexual life:school, work, etc...and make sure to excel in them. If you do find the person that makes you happy along the way and that you like, whether boy or girl, do not deny yourself of that happiness.

Life is short as it is. Make good use of it.

Illuminatus:
I agree with Mason. Many atimes we're blinded by labels. (For now) Forget about being gay or straight or even bi. Just focus on living your life, excelling at the other areas of your life. Your sexuality is just a part (albeit important) of your life. It'll all fall into place. If along the way you meet someone you're attracted to, don't rationalize if it makes your straight or gay or neither. For the moment, be content with just being human.

Forsaken:

i av actually had sex with a girl 4year older than me when i was below 10. Dat one mite nt be counted.

Forsaken: No bashing please. I don't know whether i should post it on romance or religion section, but anyone of it is better.

I am a 17years old boy who can described himself as Bisexual/curious because I am still confused.

Growing up, I never knew what is gay and i have always been attracted to females. I always get an erection whenever i see female intimate organ like breast and bottom. I came from a staunch christian background and was never really a bad boy. I never had a girl friend.

My trauma all started at the age of thirteen, i started getting an erection whenever i see handsome men or well built one. I never really understood what was happening because i don't know anything about gay sex. It all became clear to me at fifteen years when i noticed that my attraction to men is more stronger to female(though i'm still attracted to them).

To cut story short, i havent had sex with male or female or kissed anyone. But, i get more intimate urge to do men than women.

The traumatise part of it is bible opinion about homosexuality and my question is if God really destroyed sodom and gomorrah because of it, why did he still allow satan to replant the seed in his imperfect creation and still want to punish them.

address this maturely. No bashing please

Scaredsilent:

What exactly interests you about a woman's body.