RoyalRoy: This story no get head or tail. All I see in it is "I cried" and "I was mad".

Kids in love is like a mad man getting high on weed.

Uncoordinated.

yea. Most of Us were not so good with being first timers at stuffs. Let the youngman enjoy the phase and process for in 10yrs from this moment he may be a baller n player breaking hearts with reckless abandon.

story for the gods,
You've just wasted 4 years of your life begging to be fed poo by a worthless specie, my dear that is symtoms of low self-esteem. ADVICE: you need rehabilitation

SirAweezy: You are the real definition of Ode! I was in your shoe when I was naive, I dated the girl for 5 years when you she got into school, she started seeing a particular lecturer, for a whole semester she even saved the man's name as P'square. I got to know and accused her of cheating, she confessed we both cried our eyes out that night, I forgave her. But it didn't stopped she got back to school and continued from where they stopped, I got to know I still forgive her; what does that make Me? an ODE!. Anyway she finally gave me red card by dating a man with 3 wives. I felt if she goes my world would crumbled, but seriously it was a blessing in disguise. Today I'm settled with the best woman in the world (even though I have learnt to love with my head).

Moreover, she no fit smell where I dey enter, it's God doing anyway.

So man love with your head, give her the life ban before she does, and stop being an I.diot!

kazmanbanjoko: thank GOD its weekend.

and so-:\

Bro your Single!!!


*in chris Browns Voice** "This Wh0res aint Loyal"!!

I suggest you leave that girl. She obviously has no conscience, loves to play mind games and has no regard for you or your feelings.

Being attracted to someone or in your case loving them doesn't turn them to saints. Everyone has a heart that they should protect. That girl doesn't love you, never loved you and will never love you.

Forget about her and move on.

And a word of advice: You are a man first then a romantic. Don't lose yourself trying to please a girl.

My broda na so some ladies life be, dis quote is for u.
"Care little u will loose dem,care 2 much u will get hurt"
Me too have xperience such,but have not gone that xtent telling one fucking bitch am gonna die for her,so dis is 21th century bro, if a woman loves u nobody go tell you,shapen ur brain ooo,weed all does pain off with big bottle of dry gin.

timilehing: and so-:\

so, you should shut up and find something doing instead of looking for trouble dis early morning. Nitwit...

mcocolok: Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....


I have been with this Girl like FOUR years... The first three Months of our relationship was sweet and cool until i noticed changes in her attitude.. The Tape worm(EX) crept in. I have been there for this girl.. Loved her and cherished her... I took pains for her just because i truly LOVE her...I took her to see my people so she could understand i truly want the best for us...

I met her when she was really struggling to gain admission into the University and we worked out the MATHS together just to see her through...Immediately she gain the admission, she changed.. She tells me its OVER at every little problem we had and all i do is CRY because i really do LOVE her and cherish HER so much... I give her everything she needs and i spend time thinking on how to make her HAPPY ALWAYS just because i cared about her....

The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX... I tried explaining to her that i was there for her and i love her so much and i really want 2 be with her. I explained 2 her that i so much love her and this can KILL me so soon and she insisted i should stop calling her... I was furious all through the night...Then she later called me crying. I asked why she was crying and she said she had hurt me so much and i was too good to her. She said she never deserved me and that she had things 2 tell me... She later Opened up that she lied about her EX and that she slept with HIM.. I was Heartbroken again and wept. She said she never intended to do it and she felt guilty about everything.. I said i still Love you and still don't care about the Mistake you made and we can move on and i will still LOVE u.. She later said she slept with her REV father. I was speechless on hearing that and asked how she got involved with him. I also asked if she slept with HIM when we started dating or before and she said after we started dating and she slept with him three times.....My reply was "I was there to make you happy,gave you the best sex,showed you LOVE and cared for you all through for good 3 years and all you had 2 do is sleep with your EX on seeing him once and also sleep with your REV father" I love her so much and just couldn't stand 2 see her cry so i forgave her...

I made her strong and also forget about the silly shit with the HOLY MAN OF GOD....She called me two months after the whole drama and said she had something 2 tell me,she said "I still Love my EX and i want to back 2 him" I was MAD again and said why don't you want 2 leave your EX and let it be? Why do you always make me wanna cry... I later TOLD her i am no longer interested in the relationship and want i wish her luck with MR EX...I hanged up and switched off. She left me messages on Facebook saying she was sorry and wanted 2 see if i still LOVE her...I forgave her and we still Moved on. Now we have been together for four years. I had a chilled bottle of RED wine last night and decided to think about all she had done and also made up my MIND to call it QUIT. I LOVE HER SO MUCH that i was ready to die for her but she doesn't even appreciate everything .

I really need your help nairalanders if this is gonna be the right thing 2 do.. I need your advice before i take actions....

Tanx and One Love....

OP, you've really disgraced us. How could you cry for this bitcch? You sound like a wussy. Now, keep on ignoring her. Do it for couple of months, at least 6 months. She'll beg you thereafter. Women love guys who are difficult to meet. A friend who I avoided for the past 6 month. Just yesterday said she was in the hospital. Went there, she said, Joe I don catch you todday, you're running away from your baby, abi?:-) and said she was not sick. Only wanna see me. My friend was laughing so hard that i became shy:-)

Lol. This OP is a joke.

kazmanbanjoko: so, you should shut up and find something doing instead of looking for trouble dis early morning. Nitwit...

Nitwit??... I never knew you were one ma.dman on the run. ndo o?

Tobetoe: Fake story!!!.... She had sex wit a rev.father... Pls@op ,come and elaborate more,tell us d rev.father's name,parish,diocese,state and when it happened.. If u ar 20yrs,then dat ya babe maye 18yrs.. Total crap

na that one de pain u....you think say rev father non de fu*ck.........we once blackmail rev father and collect enough doll from him.when he slept with my friend chick.

1miccza:

Point of correction,your black big azz,why you run leave your book??

Question for Orunmila

SirAweezy: You are the real definition of Ode! I was in your shoe when I was naive, I dated the girl for 5 years when you she got into school, she started seeing a particular lecturer, for a whole semester she even saved the man's name as P'square. I got to know and accused her of cheating, she confessed we both cried our eyes out that night, I forgave her. But it didn't stopped she got back to school and continued from where they stopped, I got to know I still forgive her; what does that make Me? an ODE!. Anyway she finally gave me red card by dating a man with 3 wives. I felt if she goes my world would crumbled, but seriously it was a blessing in disguise. Today I'm settled with the best woman in the world (even though I have learnt to love with my head).

Moreover, she no fit smell where I dey enter, it's God doing anyway.

So man love with your head, give her the life ban before she does, and stop being an I.diot!

Don Weezy

timilehing: Nitwit??... I never knew you were one ma.dman on the run. ndo o?

people like you are always frustrating someone's life. Pls, i beg you, leave me alone. Dont frustrate my life or did you sight me in your dream while sleeping.

She is the man, I mean ur man. Its a pity though, you are a disgrace to men. How can a loose girl put you through all those things and u still need a red wine to get ur senses right?

I no knw y tins lik dis dey happen to guys wey no fit man up, d OP too cool...... Dats y wen sum1 on NL ask the reason y we date -- for love, money or sex ---- I said sex, I gat my reason.... U fall in love n dis shit appens...

Ishilove:
Question for Orunmila

Come madam respond to your bb messages jare... Question for Orunmila ko question for Amadioha ni.. Look at her big black azz......

Hei men see the kind snake women in human form that men go and luv, this kind of women is what i call walking doom, they bring total disaster to any man, that dear ventures into their lives in the name of luv, they pay back good deeds with very wicked deeds, they eat up a man spirit like cancer leaving the empty body to walk around, many men that is walking around today re walking dead eaten up by doom ladies, this young man is still considering to stay at the torment of a she devil that have detioririated his soul with life damaging lies, deceits, please this young man is no longer in his senses, this is the effects of complete possesion by vry baaad girls, with very baaad spirits, consult a man of God to help urself and ur soul b4 it is totally destroyed at a young age. woommen re evil, men has not yet understood this fact, but they do with terrible experiences and force...

temmyplayboy: My broda na so some ladies life be, dis quote is for u.
"Care little u will loose dem,care 2 much u will get hurt"
Me too have xperience such,but have not gone that xtent telling one fucking bitch am gonna die for her,so dis is 21th century bro, if a woman loves u nobody go tell you,shapen ur brain ooo,weed all does pain off with big bottle of dry gin.

Correct guy!!!!!!

valdes00: I no knw y tins lik dis dey happen to guys wey no fit man up, d OP too cool...... Dats y wen sum1 on NL ask the reason y we date -- for love, money or sex ---- I said sex, I gat my reason.... U fall in love n dis shit appens...

Most defaneitely bro!!!!!

Love is an illusion, simply does not exist. Control the emotion and you run the game of relationship. I don't trust holes.

The alcohol in the red wine the OP drank is still active.

What a fiction.

Solange3: To the posters above. If u have nothing important to say then say nothing. Anyway OP, I feel ur pain. I felt the emotions in your post.

I realise that in life, when you show too much attention to some1, he/she tends to take u 4 granted. But the moment you stop it and care less, the person will just be all over you. You cared too much, Forgave too much , probably spent too much and this is the result.
My honest opinion, call it quits with that chic.
P.S- how come she slept with her Rev father since in your words, u gave her the "BEST SEX"

he never gave her the missionary style

I've been there before...and I'm still with her. I'm really teaching her salient lessons as we speak, because, she has to pay for her sins. Well, brother, all you explained above is called 'relationship abuse.' If you deeply love her, there are two ways to leave her, as leaving her is the ONLY option; if you dont, she'll sleep with your security guard later and appologise, quote me on this. So
1. Draw her closer and punish her with 'love.' Call me later, I will tell you what I mean. By this, she'll be leaving you heartbroken with deep scars!
2. Completely reconcile with her outwardly.....draw her closer...act nice.....then, when she buys it, totally ignore her for no just cause and move on. Never say a word to her, no matter what, under any circumstances. Bear your loses as lessons.
Finally, stop that self-destruct lifestyle with red wine. Get a life and move on. What is not yours is not yours. There are almost 7billion people on earth o. If u luv Maths, u'll kno wat I mean.
Shalom!

This is one funny poo ..... @ op are u Jesus that takes away the whole sins of ur girlfriend ?

I locked my heart up and threw away the keys(love) into my tresurey base,we are in a world where love has gone. Though it still exist but at secondary school level. I rather channel the energy into my future than waste it on our modern day Girls who doesn't cherish love but money,fun etc my brother stop living the life of movies,it doesn't exist in the real world better grow up

ThoniaSlim: Dang! Men like this still exist?

he is the last of them..

Oloshi die 4 dere...fool gals don finish fr country....go tell u father y u dy tell us 4 here....mtcheewwww Oloshi die 4 dere...fool gals don finish fr country....go tell u father y u dy tell us 4 here....mtcheewwww

moreeni: Let me not sugar coat it for you at all...

You are the rock, the refuge, the security, the promise of a good life and marriage, the safety nest, the all needed in a good man for the future. She is a very wise girl! Who in her right sense would pass off a guy like you? ...but you are not her adventure, her love, her wanted companion and last bus-stop. She would probably spend the rest of her life with you so long as any other Fancy does not ask her for a long walk though several short walks are guaranteed.


Oko Iyawo, you will always be her bronze medal...

Gbam! Well said in a nut shell. Any girl that you showered so much love and even forgave her shortcomings and yet she still deserts @ times to pursue other means has already concluded that you are behind in her rankings..

Cool story bro

I hope I'm in the right century...?
Bro, nobody should make these mistakes. For morality sake, you are dating a whõre! RUN AWAY. A girl that sleeps with a Rev. Father can breed a new type of disease or curse and transfer to you. Your girl is possessed (just like you, I suspect).

She will ruin your life if you don't get a better one. At this rate, she'll gladly sleep with your brother. This one is more than friend zoning; you have been foolzoned!