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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 7:44am On Sep 09, 2014
favouryemmy:

Several of the beautiful girls still get married, but I mean they minimize their chances of really getting married if they are cheap for guys to woo and sleep with. Believe me, if a lady has slept with many guys, news will spread to other guys. If a very beautiful girl is also well behaved and virtuous (God fearing), she even stands better chance of getting married.
Best comment I have seen here so far.

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 7:46am On Sep 09, 2014
shinacollins: Most ladies that are beautiful and attractive don't have what it takes to make a man want marriage while the less attractive and beautiful compensate for what they lack by exhibiting the wherewithal to hook a man.
That's a very big lie.

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 7:54am On Sep 09, 2014
DoTheNeedful:

You are still very young sad,hence the above. You are most likely to be under 25 years undecided. I can only take what you wrote up there serious from a 40 -year-old woman that is genuinely happily unmarried undecided. You still dont know your left from right angry. Continue enjoying the dates kisswhile they last
I.am her,i am genuinely and very happy unmarried at my age coz it's nt every1 that must get married.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 7:59am On Sep 09, 2014
danexcel: As someone who have been opportuned to pray for and counsel some ladies, I discovered that many beautiful ladies are single because of curses operating in their lives. Some are physically beautiful but very ugly in character. Some are very lazy, if you marry them you are in problem. And the ones not too beautiful are getting married based on favour of God upon their lives. And they have beautiful character.
Tank god u dint generalize it else I would have been so unhappy with you.
Don't know why some people don't just reason that some don't want to get married.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Sagamite(m): 8:00am On Sep 09, 2014
DailyNews: You have very good points that I agree with. Take Kim Kardashian as an example, she went round, couldn't find a guy to marry her until Kanye did...its not always easy for a pretty lady to find a husband...until she uses her head and stop waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gatescheesycheesy

Kim K as pretty and popular as she is, settled for an ugly Kanye....Beyonce used her head and went for ugly Jay Zcheesy but some of my very pretty cousins are waiting for Pope John Paul Michael Jackson Bill Gates to come by, that's the problem most pretty ladies have aside character/etc issuesgrin

Kim Kardashian did not struggle to find a guy to marry her.

Fine girls will NEVER struggle to find guys to marry them. IT IS ALWAYS EASY! Actually they would be suffocated with offers every year and that is where their problem is: Making a choice from something so easy for them to the point it does not excite them.

That is where the bad boys come in.

They bring the excitement and intrigue. The fine girls can go for these bad boys so they can at least get some excitement and challenge in life to make their life interesting. It is a fundamental requirement of the human psyche to have a challenge for your life to be fulfilling. The fine girls can go for these bad boys with the assurance that if it does not work out there are still many suitors that will happily line up waiting to take them (i.e. Real Men and mugu good boys who don't mind the left overs and love saying sweet things to women, no matter what).

Kanye provides the madness that will keep a hot girl who is in high demand, like Kim K, interested and intrigued. The fact he has a talent and passion that makes him money is also like Viagra to women. It turns them the fck on!

Men's looks are not a primary determinant for women. They are just hygiene factors. Men just need to meet a basic threshold in the looks department, other things like "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" matter more. It is usually 16-22 year old girls that see looks and 6-packs as priority.

Kanye and Jay Z are not ugly. If you want to see ugly, just go to Muritala Muhammed International Airport and watch Nigerian men pass by. Kanye and Jay Z meet a minimum threshold for most women. The fact they are have "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" means many women around the world would be a bit creamy for them. If they are Tyson Beckford, then they would be the whole package, but their current package is already a very high and exclusive package to attract virtually any hot women on this planet we call Earth. The Tyson Beckford look is just a bonus.

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 8:04am On Sep 09, 2014
favouryemmy: To be sincere, if a lady is very very beautiful especially in terms of face and figure, she is more likely to attract men who just wish to "hit" her and run. She will make it worse for herself if she sleeps with almost any handsome guys that comes her way. But if she keeps herself she would be more likely to find a suitor who really intends to marry her.
The reason many guys would not want to marry a lady like this is because they believe many other guys had slept with her and would continue to Chase after her even after she's married. Guys are more likely to chase very beautiful ladies for sex, but when it comes to marriage, they go for virtue and they usually find those in averagely pretty ladies.
That's if she gives herself to every tom,dike and harry.
So if they keep marrying the average beautiful ladies,who do u guys now expect to marry the beautiful onesaliens
There are many beautiful ladies married in d society and having a happy married life with kids.or is it a crime to be beautiful with all these assumptions you guys have.dont you think the change has to start from you guys(changing your mentality about beautiful ladies)

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by perry2020(f): 8:07am On Sep 09, 2014
andromida:

Which guys ends up with the beautiful girls?

I wonder ooo,aliens from space I guess.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Sagamite(m): 8:10am On Sep 09, 2014
100Cents:

See this scenario.

A confident guy starts dating her and works on her to cut down on her admirers and the frequent calls to pay more attention to the relationship, and she complains you are monitoring her or trying to box her.

I don experience this with two ladies..

Confidence ko, Agbadofidence ni!

Insecure men calling themselves confident.

That not only sounds insecure, it sounds like an insecure psycho.

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by 100Cents: 8:16am On Sep 09, 2014
Sagamite:

Confidence ko, Agbadofidence ni!

Insecure men calling themselves confident.

That not only sounds insecure, it sounds like an insecure psycho.

You arent well. Sorry.

Maybe you date chimpanzees who got no admirers...
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Sagamite(m): 8:33am On Sep 09, 2014
jimmyfrenzy: PERRY2020 u have say the real fact but in additional those beautiful ladies out now they find them self in such spot just because of their character. Some of them what they believe is that, yes, they are beautiful if they leave one man they will get another man and at the end of the day they found them self's in this single spot. And some of them always want to date the big men in the city which those men would have get their own women at home so when they find out they leave that man and jump to another. I wonder how young girl will be dating man of 60 years of age and if the young guy of their age proposed to them they will molest him or sock him in full embarrassment, so I don't pity some of them in such spot

The type of beautiful ladies that end up single are the ones that:

- Get arrogantly stuck in their wish list for a man and decide not to settle for less while their looks is fading
- Have developed a completely stinking personality/reputation and still think they can tie down an eligible man and will not settle for less
- Too stuuupid to know or in denial to admit that the looks is gone or is going, hence did not sell the product before the sell-by date, while new and better products are coming off age

By and large, they face some of the challenges of successful girls when they leave it too late:

https://www.nairaland.com/1204511/what-reasons-high-level-30/9#14566107

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Ivanspring(f): 9:40am On Sep 09, 2014
There's no need for this e-fights. Beautiful women, like handsom men have their problems. But, no two 'beautiful' human beings are the same. Thus, they can't share the same problematic features, karmas, characters, demons, mammy water and temperaments that are capable of chasing men away.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Sagamite(m): 9:43am On Sep 09, 2014
100Cents:

Noted !

It still doesn't change the fact that you are still an insane attention seeking bore idioot.

A psycho harassing a girl by monitoring her and cutting her off from other people so she "pays more attention to the relationship" should not be talking about "insane", "bore", "idioot" or "attention seeking".

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by 100Cents: 9:46am On Sep 09, 2014
DailyNews: @op, u are correct and the major reason is this; most beautiful ladies get carried away by their physical beauty and fail to develop their inner beauty- their character, such that it scare most guys ready to marry away, leaving them with fun-seekers looking for flings, dating and part-time affairs.

Some pretty ladies who have good character too do send the wrong signals to potential suitors.

Men are insecure, more insecure than u can think of, especially when they want to settle down- they want a reserved and not-so-bling lady.

Now, how do some pretty ladies scare potential suitors away while attracting numerous boyfriends and sugar-daddies

1. Via what they wear- leg chains, tattoo, nose ring, tongue ring, belly ring, etc.

2. Big wig like masqueradecheesy
3. Too revealing clothes, etc.

I am not trying to be religious here o, I am being frank o...and I know that some very enlightened guys and ladies will come after my head now, so let me be on my heels before they arrivecheesy

Stay put, you said the truth.

I am with my pistol to ward off any cockroaches..
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by butanep(m): 10:52am On Sep 09, 2014
ayoodeji:
OP, I thought the beautiful ones are not yet born, abi na which beatiful ones you dey talk?
They have been born ooo....
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by NifemiOlu(m): 11:03am On Sep 09, 2014
Beautiful but single women should watch men they date. Many men are stringers...they'd use them and sing "yago lona, shey mo jo Yemi my lover ni?"
Most importantly, many guys are just not ready for a serious relationship or marriage. Any right thinking man won't marry a babe because she's beautiful, there are MANY variables that come into play.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Nobody: 12:26pm On Sep 09, 2014
DanjaNinja:

Lmao....Please, i beg of you, dont regard this silly excuse of yours, as the reason for your being single.
I suspect you need to work on your relationship skills cos no sane, willing and available lady would turn you don cos she "feels" your hooked.
Please,read books, watch videos, mix up.
Wish you all the best. grin grin grin grin
aint ready for full commitment sir
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Nobody: 12:32pm On Sep 09, 2014
Sagamite:

Kim Kardashian did not struggle to find a guy to marry her.

Fine girls will NEVER struggle to find guys to marry them. IT IS ALWAYS EASY! Actually they would be suffocated with offers every year and that is where their problem is: Making a choice from something so easy for them to the point it does not excite them.

That is where the bad boys come in.

They bring the excitement and intrigue. The fine girls can go for these bad boys so they can at least get some excitement and challenge in life to make their life interesting. It is a fundamental requirement of the human psyche to have a challenge for your life to be fulfilling. The fine girls can go for these bad boys with the assurance that if it does not work out there are still many suitors that will happily line up waiting to take them (i.e. Real Men and mugu good boys who don't mind the left overs and love saying sweet things to women, no matter what).

Kanye provides the madness that will keep a hot girl who is in high demand, like Kim K, interested and intrigued. The fact he has a talent and passion that makes him money is also like Viagra to women. It turns them the fck on!

Men's looks are not a primary determinant for women. They are just hygiene factors. Men just need to meet a basic threshold in the looks department, other things like "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" matter more. It is usually 16-22 year old girls that see looks and 6-packs as priority.

Kanye and Jay Z are not ugly. If you want to see ugly, just go to Muritala Muhammed International Airport and watch Nigerian men pass by. Kanye and Jay Z meet a minimum threshold for most women. The fact they are have "intelligence, money, power, swag etc" means many women around the world would be a bit creamy for them. If they are Tyson Beckford, then they would be the whole package, but there current package is already a very high and exclusive package to attract virtually any hot women on this planet we call Earth. The Tyson Beckford look is just a bonus.
You are nothing but a professor of womanology. I am agree with you 1001%....you're so so correct. In fact, I am copying this your comment for some article publication. Well done Sagamite...you hardly disappoint.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Nobody: 12:35pm On Sep 09, 2014
100Cents:

Stay put, you said the truth.

I am with my pistol to ward off any cockroaches..
100Cents = $1cheesycheesy well done sirgrin
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by Sagamite(m): 12:47pm On Sep 09, 2014
DailyNews: You are nothing but a professor of womanology. I am agree with you 1001%....you're so so correct. In fact, I am copying this your comment for some article publication. Well done Sagamite...you hardly disappoint.

shocked shocked shocked

My copyright fees are 50 naira 27 kobo per annum o. tongue grin

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Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by colnettlisa: 3:09pm On Sep 09, 2014
Anybody knows about Sugar daddy? What are sugar daddies? I know it's kinda noobness ... thanks for your answers kiss
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by DoTheNeedful: 3:11pm On Sep 09, 2014
perry2020:
I.am her,i am genuinely and very happy unmarried at my age coz it's nt every1 that must get married.
First thing i did was to check your profile. You look quite mature though. If you are not a divorcee or a widow and you are genuinely happily unmarried then thumbs up smiley. You look very cute wink I must confess.
Re: Beautiful But Still Single... by favouryemmy: 3:29pm On Sep 09, 2014
perry2020:
That's if she gives herself to every tom,dike and harry.
So if they keep marrying the average beautiful ladies,who do u guys now expect to marry the beautiful onesaliens
There are many beautiful ladies married in d society and having a happy married life with kids.or is it a crime to be beautiful with all these assumptions you guys have.dont you think the change has to start from you guys(changing your mentality about beautiful ladies)

My comments are not just personal opinion but very much of what I've seen happen in real life.
If you read my comments, you will observe that I'm not saying the beautiful ones do not get married. What I'm trying to say is that men look for outward beauty first when seeking for a sex partner; but when looking for a spouse, outward beauty becomes second after virtue (which includes character and the fear of God). So it's not really about guys now but more on the ladies' side preparing themselves to be someone's wife. If a lady is very beautiful and virtuous, she will have a greater chance of getting married than the average girls.

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