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Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 2:39pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
If this post were directed to a more general category of "single beautiful ladies", You'd be spot on. Tallesty1: To be honest, some "Beautiful women" have alot of personality flaws. We all do but theirs are too many. Some of them are just asses, they believe that "beauty" can get them anything they want. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 2:41pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Shikenan! and that might just be what's indirectly scaring "make sense" men away Kachisbarbie: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Tallesty1(m): 2:42pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
jennylove7575: God knows marriage ain't for me..I don't believe in spending the rest of my life with one man. Repeating same routine daily. I was watching a TV documentary somedays ago, about how Hungarian families were forcing their kids into marriage at the age of 14yrs. I was indeed gutted at the child abuse..people should be able to have choice...marriage shouldn't be by force but by choice....I recently met this guy on Nairaland, last week we decided to meet up at the Westfield shopping centre...when we met, for 5mins he couldn't say one word. He was startled. When he eventually opened his mouth to speak he said I can't believe am standing with crazy jennylove of Nairaland a very pleasant guy indeed....to be cont......Really? Is this not you? jennylove7575: For my first alhaji......money boxBe Real, S/he That Tells The Truth Always Does Not Need To Remember Anything 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Crocz(m): 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Eh ya...hmmm,I seriously try to understand the plight of "some" ladies in finding husband bt here I am still trying to comprehend..."You can't seriously understand a concept when you've not been through it" Seeing some serious comments here...I feel for them! CHEERS to the smart girls who knows where the market is to shop for quality...and to the not so smart, I hope you find yourself in time *sigh* 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 2:46pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
what is happening here ni to ri olorun! |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Really? Is this not you?take her words with a pinch of salt. don't say I didn't warn you ooo 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Tallesty1(m): 2:52pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
2sExy1: take her words with a pinch of salt. don't say I didn't warn you oooThanks bro, women can lie. 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Dayjhihannon01(m): 2:53pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
dre11:you said it all... The reason for been a single solely depends on her since guys can also stay singled as long as he wanted, and also as long as his/her economic/educational status delayed him/her.(Was actually wondering when I was telling my mum about a lady dat was around me months ago; d first thing she asked is ; what's her educational level? --Ki lo ka?--, My head bcums so big ... Parents pressure, peer pressure, can continue... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Crocz(m): 2:54pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Seconding Tallesty1...most beautiful girls play hard to get far too long and put most men off. Some even expect you to worship them especially when the man beauty does not match hers...some feel like they are doing men favours, hell I'm handsome too, and I don't play by nobody's rules Most times I feel like: 8 Likes
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Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Dayjhihannon01(m): 2:55pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
dre11:you said it all... The reason for been a single solely depends on her since guys can also stay singled as long as he wanted, and also as long as his/her economic/educational status delayed him/her.(Was actually wondering when I was telling my mum about a lady dat was around me months ago; d first thing she asked is ; what's her educational level? --Ki lo ka?--, My head bcums so big ... Parents pressure, peer pressure, can continue... ##Since dating and romance dey trend, off I go to anoda thread abt ''why u are still single''...Nah all dis pressing issues we must iron# |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Ebubeslym(m): 2:58pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
jennylove7575: God knows marriage ain't for me..I don't believe in spending the rest of my life with one man. Repeating same routine daily. I was watching a TV documentary somedays ago, about how Hungarian families were forcing their kids into marriage at the age of 14yrs. I was indeed gutted at the child abuse..people should be able to have choice...marriage shouldn't be by force but by choice....I recently met this guy on Nairaland, last week we decided to meet up at the Westfield shopping centre...when we met, for 5mins he couldn't say one word. He was startled. When he eventually opened his mouth to speak he said I can't believe am standing with crazy jennylove of Nairaland a very pleasant guy indeed....to be cont...... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 2:58pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi: Shikenan!It's very possible. Some men like to be pushed into marriage, others take the decision by themselves, one can't be entirely sure which type your man is and you end up taking the wrong step. I have a friend, she is older than me with about 3-4yrs. We weren't so close in sch, but these days we talk well. Everytime another of our friend or coursemate is getting married, even if I'm not aware, she would bring the info to my doorstep. Then she would say something like, 'babe when will I invite you guys o'... You know @ that point, she is making me uncomfortable with her desperation. I would tell her the advantages of being single and how best she can utilise it...she would say I'm consoling her, whereas I'm only telling her the truth. Singlehood is actually an opportunity to build ones' carrier, I have a mini-job that doesn't give me the kind of money I dream of - but enough time to take care of my family, because I am tied in a location where things are not happening and I definitely wouldn't leave my family in search of my dream job. It's actually a two way thing, one can't easily have it all, every single lady out there has to start appreciating it, being married ain't even easy. 3 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by quintybabee(f): 3:03pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Dear lord, what have I done, I should have kept my mouth shut. I dont wantto quote anybody but I feel the need to respond. There are lots of sane and financially satisfied women out there and because theyvrefused to be culturally brainwashed u tag them as feminists and some even believe a man must have broken their heart for them to be like that, cause u believe no woman can have such mindset from the very beginin, that Is wrong assumption 2 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Sanchez01: 3:05pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
[quote author=MizMyColi] No, it isn't.It inspired... More like a come back? I'd still say it is a rebuttal, putting your title into consideration. Now you know why it doesn't qualify as a rebuttal. To reach out to people who were touched by the other thread? [b]Not harsh, Dear. Except one suffered or had a nasty childhood, no one desires a single life. We are designed to be gregarious in nature. That's who we are and no one can take that away. And so should be reduced to "nothings", spoken and addressed in disdainful manners by "so called" family and friends?No one is reducing someone to nothing; a man is a child to some parents and so also a lady. Should a family talk in disdain to their ward, then it means something is wrong somewhere. That doesn't make it ideal, does it?Wrong. It makes it ideal. We are attached and rooted with our families in this part of the world. We are cultured, and embedded into tradition which has overtime sustained and maintained the influence of westernization totally on us. We have a belief here, norms, rules, and ideologies in tackling every facet of life; which, to us, as Africans are ideal. What is not ideal is when someone brings an ideology contrary to what we have and yet question our beliefs. Mind you, I'm not referring to your belief here. Why our ideologies are accepted and endorsed is because we consider them ideal for us. LoL......@the bolded, how many people would you tell that to? An average undergraduate in a Nigerian tertiary institution thinks of graduating, seek employment or create one and what next? The answer of course, is to settle down. Marriage does not complete or compliment one, but would you successfully convince a partner that you shouldn't rush things just because you have some things you want to achieve before getting married, and then you know you are about hitting somewhere in your 30's? EVERY man wants a young woman, irrespective of how old he is. This is known all over the world, and not here alone. So, would you blame a lady who is fast approaching 30 to take things as they come? Please drop the mentality that those who get married did so out of desperation. This is untrue. Most marriages come to be because the couples found fulfillment in one another. Can you give me, say five examples of women who achieved amazing feats, got married at their own time and achieved all the happiness in a marriage? The truth is, the so-called quintessential women in Nigeria had at one time given birth or experienced a failed marriage before creating a movement. You really have to understand a lot of things here. If that's what you think, then I think you're a tad bit insensitive.I am not tad insensitive. I didn't read the other guy's post twice because I felt nothing meaningful was mentioned. if you think about what people say about you, or the opinions they have, then you would be brought down before you take a step. By the people you speak for, you mean the female folks, right? Here's a quote that will definitely help you if you want to become a trail blazer, that is: Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. ----Steve Jobs 5 Likes |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 3:07pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Adding anything to what you've just said would be mere repetition Thank You Ma'am. Kachisbarbie: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 3:08pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Sanchez01: Thanks, Noted. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by naijaboiy: 3:08pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I just dey like posts dey go 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by mstik(f): 3:17pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
da hell?? |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 3:27pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
The OP or the post before yours? mstik: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by mstik(f): 4:13pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
post before mine MizMyColi: The OP or the post before yours? 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by herald9: 4:33pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
mstik: post before minehey... |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by jennylove7575(f): 4:55pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Tallesty1: Really? Is this not you?..Tallesty1 keep stalking me o. You wan force me marry? Ha ha ha funny indeed. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 5:13pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
OP, Your font makes things difficult to comprehend. 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by MizMyColi(f): 5:23pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
LoL It's like a signature. Just try okay? TrollMan: OP, Your fonts makes things difficult to comprehend. |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by lirusehn(m): 5:27pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
I think the bae made a good write-up. WellWritten 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Nobody: 5:34pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi: LoL I think I've got a better way to read this. I've an Idea. 1 Like |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by mstik(f): 5:52pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
wow!!! is this you it's been long tho what's with the (f) btw? herald9: |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Neldrizzy(m): 5:58pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
Osho..... We jus want to have fun.!!! |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by herald9: 6:03pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
mstik: wow!!! is this youYea...it's me how ve yhu bin...? Abeg ignore the f nd give ur bruh a holy ghost crazy hug |
Re: On Why The “Beautiful” Ones Are Still Single… by Neldrizzy(m): 6:04pm On Sep 09, 2014 |
MizMyColi:Lolll story story!!! |
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