jennylove7575: God knows marriage ain't for me..I don't believe in spending the rest of my life with one man. Repeating same routine daily. I was watching a TV documentary somedays ago, about how Hungarian families were forcing their kids into marriage at the age of 14yrs. I was indeed gutted at the child abuse..people should be able to have choice...marriage shouldn't be by force but by choice....I recently met this guy on Nairaland, last week we decided to meet up at the Westfield shopping centre...when we met, for 5mins he couldn't say one word. He was startled. When he eventually opened his mouth to speak he said I can't believe am standing with crazy jennylove of Nairaland a very pleasant guy indeed....to be cont......

100Cents:

Thank you for number 2

I have never dated an ugly lady anyway.

Number 2 is just their problem.

I even asked the last girl if she thinks I am not handsome, why is she with me, abi can't I be on phone calling ladies too ?

This is the height of[b] illiteracy and insecurity[/b] among young ladies. Placing on themselves a false sense of importance that her phone is always busy. " Answering calls that don't pay bills"...

hotwax:

All babes want to marry, but circumstances make them change their decision.

No sane woman will say I dont want to marry. Even Lesbian marry .

Even the so-called feminist Kim Kardasian Family are hiding in men's house.

quintybabee:
You were d one i replied when i wrote diz
There are lots of sane and financially satisfied women out there and because theyvrefused to be culturally brainwashed u tag them as feminists and some even believe a man must have broken their heart for them to be like that, cause u believe no woman can have such mindset from the very beginin, that Is wrong assumption

Sanchez01: I consider this a rebuttal to the one you read, unfortunately, I find the argument weak, a little too weak, I'd say. Your thread, though seem to serve as a bit of encouragement to females out there, still, it has failed to tackle the real issue.

No one loves a single, the earlier you understand it, the better. It is okay and maybe believable if a guy says so. I have friends who say they won't think of marriage until 15-20years from now. I'm talking about guys of around 25 years,on the average. And the reason is because they want to run around and explore before being tied down. The story is way different for ladies, at least, I have a bit of understanding, which is; ladies' don't have time on their neck as their male counterpart.



This is Africa, WE ARE BLACK AND OUR IDEOLOGY ABOUT MARRIAGE AND BEING SINGLE IS DIFFERENT FROM THAT OF THE WESTERN WORLD. Marriage, is the ultimate target for every lady in this part of the world. At least, they think so. True, why a lady is single is hers alone but will her parents think so? Her place of worship? Her friends? And even the society? We're superstitious and we hold marriage issues dear to our heart, particularly when it's on the part of the lady. Ladies are subjected to pressure on this part, particularly here, in Nigeria. To verify this, why do ladies feel uneasy when they hit 25? Why do they worry when all they get from guys are the 'boyfriend/girlfriend only zone'? You must understand these things, Dearie.

I never believed the post could get to a lady this much. It was only an opinion and I believe it shouldn't disturb anyone.

Misogynist2014: What do you refer to as 'western world'?They are only freedom obsessed people.They still can't cheat nature.Whenever I see posts like this,I get infuriated because what is our fvking business on earth when we remain single.Even the 'almighty' Genivive Nnaji confessed being single is not rosy.We should stop thinking reality don't set on 'independent' women of d west,it's just that it's always too late when they realise that having a happy home and experiencing the joys of motherhood is sweeter than a billion dollar career.After freezing their eggs for 20 solid years of futile,selfish and materialistic adventure;they go on to buy sperm and do artificial insemination to give birth to their 20 year old son(pure barstard),a son they might never watch grow.Even 'feminist terrorists' like Chimamanda Adichie have married because they can still reason.POSTS LIKE THESE SHOULDN'T MAKE FRONT PAGE AT THE EXPENSE OF BETTER AND MORE EDUCATIVE ONES(IT IS INCITING,CRUDE AND VERY CONCLUSIVE DISPOSITION)

DollyParton1:
You are not alone. I stand with you.

LoL
Thank You!

MizMyColi:
Heck the people I'm speaking for right now may not know me, but I'll stand for what is right even if I stand alone.

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ThoniaSlim:

Right on point girl! Its funny that some Nigerians most especially the men folk, find it hard to believe that a lady can choose to be single.

Its all about personal choice. I made a conscious decision a long time ago, that I wasn't gonna allow family or society dictate how I live my life or influence personal choices that affects me or my happiness. At the end of the day, when I die, I'm buried alone in the coffin. Quality over quantity any day please.

Ohohohhoho

@TheEmboldened should become a word on marble.

Somebody will quote her now and say, she's unafrican, how can she possibly choose to be single.

But I know what she driving at and I support that

dancok: marriage is not for u,well, Is either u are olosho or u can't get pregnant again after abortions.have seen ur profile I know u.

GRAND30: "Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised" (Proverbs 31:30). If you are beautiful and still single when you should be married in reference to your age, something certainly has reduced your chances. What could that be? Your personality is most likely culpable. Good-looking people (not excluding our dandy males) usually promote, invest and pride in their physical appearance while doing little to improve their skills or develop personal traits. Unfortunately they become stranded at crucial points in life when physical appearance means almost nothing and comes far behind real skills and acceptable personality. OP, only if you are not part of this society called Nigeria or Africa would I encourage every overdue beautiful single girl to grab solace in your motivational counsel. Otherwise...it's a lantern without flames in a dark tunnel.
Lastly, as for beautiful singles who should be married already based on their age, I'd advise you sober up, peer into the past, review wasted proposals, purge your personality of excesses, let your physical beauty come second behind your inner beauty...and say a little prayer to your Creator! Expect another golden chance afterwards.

disloman: he's nt stalking but letting us know ao lying b1tch u r.

DailyNews: @MizMyColi, I expected to see a well outlined and numbered reasons that I could use for my next journal publication, but unfortunately, you didn't provide me with any and I feel disappointed but then, I must say well done to all the truly super-pretty ladies like Bianca Ojukwu (not in picture o, I mean in real life pls), I wouldn't mind holding a house party for you all and y isn't any lady answering Bianca in dis forum

Lightening:

I have a feeling that this lady is very confused. The danger here is that some impressionable minds here would read these comments and believe you meant them.

Someone has already showcased how fluid you can be on such matters as the foregoing.

ChiSun27:




Did u jst say marriage aint 4 u?


Ur folks don't Nairaland....so go ahead n tell us what u can't boldy tell them to their face...we are waiting.

AdeniyiA:
wetin u find go there? ordinary palm kernel? abi broom? ...

Sanchez01: I consider this a rebuttal to the one you read, unfortunately, I find the argument weak, a little too weak, I'd say. Your thread, though seem to serve as a bit of encouragement to females out there, still, it has failed to tackle the real issue.

No one loves a single, the earlier you understand it, the better. It is okay and maybe believable if a guy says so. I have friends who say they won't think of marriage until 15-20years from now. I'm talking about guys of around 25 years,on the average. And the reason is because they want to run around and explore before being tied down. The story is way different for ladies, at least, I have a bit of understanding, which is; ladies' don't have time on their neck as their male counterpart.



This is Africa, WE ARE BLACK AND OUR IDEOLOGY ABOUT MARRIAGE AND BEING SINGLE IS DIFFERENT FROM THAT OF THE WESTERN WORLD. Marriage, is the ultimate target for every lady in this part of the world. At least, they think so. True, why a lady is single is hers alone but will her parents think so? Her place of worship? Her friends? And even the society? We're superstitious and we hold marriage issues dear to our heart, particularly when it's on the part of the lady. Ladies are subjected to pressure on this part, particularly here, in Nigeria. To verify this, why do ladies feel uneasy when they hit 25? Why do they worry when all they get from guys are the 'boyfriend/girlfriend only zone'? You must understand these things, Dearie.

I never believed the post could get to a lady this much. It was only an opinion and I believe it shouldn't disturb anyone.

zeb04: why do you think she is confused?

MizMyColi:
Ohohohhoho

@TheEmboldened should become a word on marble.

Somebody will quote her now and say, she's unafrican, how can she possibly choose to be single.

But I know what she driving at and I support that

snowprince07: ****guy na network I de find there oo,na 4 palm tree I de get service 2 browse

Misogynist2014: Who gives a fvck! I only gave you a candid advice though I know you can't marry but you can only be married.So who d hell do you want to cajole to thinking that you are the one that is not yet ready.Even if you are the one, it's good ridance! Even Christ never got married.

Joavid: Nairaland is just funny.

I can't just believe some topics that come up for discussions on this forum. It is like making a mountain out of a mole hill.

Why do people just make simple issues complicated, thereby making life itself seem so complicated

WTF

And to think that people will twist and flog this topic, banter back and forth... WTF?

I always say it, people discuss relationships on this forum like their very existence depends on it.

Finally, whether ugly or beautiful, everyone has his/her own reason of remaining single.

Gosh!!

sandijey: You really don't no the pressure girls go through. My mind has been unsettled since I caught the bouquet in my friends wedding last Saturday. People shouting you are next when I never even see man. Maybe I shouldn't have stood up to catch bouquet cus the pressure has trippled since then.

AdeniyiA:
na EmptyHen u dey use or Airthief? ...

100Cents:

Karchisbarbie.

I dey find woman like you o. It is very hard as in hard to find a very beautiful lady with sound character. The ones I see are all married before 25. Seriously !

I I'll send you that email so you befriend that lady and teach her for me please.

I see her as a younger sister, since 2011 way I for don do her like I do other ladies, I still dey hold body.

Abeg check your email later. She is hard to understand...

Misogynist2014: Even Christ never got married.