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Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Johnnoo(m): 7:20am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Arcasie: Then tell her she is in for a catastrophe in her relationship, its just a matter of time. Suffice to say she is just keeping his bf 4 sexual gratifications |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by eluquenson(m): 7:21am On Sep 12, 2014 |
They are yet to marry, there is no cheating in this scenario, what the Lady ought to have done is let her boyfriend know about the guy with utmost sincerity & open mind |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Jessewizy(m): 7:21am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Can I comment? 4 Likes
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Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Dcaliphate(m): 7:24am On Sep 12, 2014 |
temigracie:if u hold on to love too tightly u will lose it. I love her but I cant force her to be with me, im not that insecure, if she prefers someone else dats her decision to make. Relationship is not a do or die affair. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Lankaline(m): 7:27am On Sep 12, 2014 |
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Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Dcaliphate(m): 7:30am On Sep 12, 2014 |
dking123:sure he can leave if he cant stand it any longer, only he should state his grievances. Until you pay the bride price for a lady, she aint yours i tell ya. #truth. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by MizMyColi(f): 7:36am On Sep 12, 2014 |
temigracie: ...How about if this particular guy doesnt feel anything for her??maybe he just sess her like a normal close pal....what if the guy is a woman-wrapper?? LoL Hun...... Read that my post well na That's why I said she should take a break already na. If not how she can she figure out the things you mentioned. Feelings change. People change. Shey you get sweets, if you don't teh me..... Ah wee explain more |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Articul8(m): 7:38am On Sep 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi:you'v bin trying so hard 2 b irresponsible. Leave those ones who deem it ryt 2 try commitment. I knw ur tots even b4 reading ur comments. U av multiple standard. U always wnt 2 b ryt. I wsh u d best |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Rapsainot(m): 7:38am On Sep 12, 2014 |
tjark1: She has not told everything...gbam |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Toks2008(m): 7:38am On Sep 12, 2014 |
G12: Can you be intelligently objective for once? This right up as you rightly wrote is hypothetical so leave it that way. its not condemning or liberating anyone,just an hypothesis. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by wo1F(m): 7:41am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Toks2008: @OP,yes she is still cheating and that can lead to a break in her real affair. Uncle toks, I always feel for you each time you use your ex-wife's infidelity to educate us the younger folks on matters of the heart I followed your painful separation and the eventual dimise of your then 11yrs marriage (op I got that right). One can only hope you've healed completely from such heart ache. If you haven't then you've got to try harder. You seem a decent guy enough so go out and meet people. Lastly, quit giving her d satisfaction that you're still grieving for loosing her by using her as a case in point in your submissions here. She doesn't deserve such 'publicity', not after this whole time. Move on bro, oluwa na your strenght 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by benkings(m): 7:41am On Sep 12, 2014 |
frankels: Hoes ain't loyal..why do u expect a hoe to be loyal 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by mcsnup: 7:42am On Sep 12, 2014 |
really don't see a thing wrong with her relationship with the guy, security in relationship is over-rated. How do you no you own something if you can't let it go and see if it would come back to you? What's love if it can't stand the test of time? Does having a girl/boyfriend restrict my association or relationship wit the opposite sex? She is not engaged yet, she is just in a relationship and yet she is in some form of bondage! If she con marry it probably would be unhealthy for her to leave the house, not to mention having d opp sex for friend. I beg nairalanders make una free d babe joor |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Articul8(m): 7:43am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Lankaline: i must say am realy impressd wth d comments here,,am facing a similar scenrio and feel i need an advc from yu guysI stpd getting scared long ago. We ever wnts to stay stays and if u wnt to go, go! Pls read in btw d lines. Am nt saying efforts shlldnt b made in making her stay bt if its nt working,bros dnt giv urslf hypertension. Stay fine! |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by charlito94(m): 7:45am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Well on my own opinion, I would not say she's cheating on her boyfriend now but wen a guy calls u frequently more dan he calls his close pals or parents even den he's up to sumtin. A guy can't just keep calling like dat all in d name of paltonic friendship well there is a possibility dat if caution. Not taking d girl will see every reason to live her boyfriend and accepts him if he asks her out |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Rapsainot(m): 7:47am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Dcaliphate: |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by MORNDEW(m): 7:50am On Sep 12, 2014 |
MizMyColi:i ve noticed ur ever presence on dis forum so. Bt pls i did nt get anything from all u said above. Whts ur argument. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by rman: 7:57am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Dcaliphate: What you are suggesting is called ''open relationship''. Good! But do not cry foul if the guy dumps her first. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by chemmerfrank(m): 7:58am On Sep 12, 2014 |
for me...if she has found a better guy..break up with the previous one...sort of everybody wants a great job so we switch once a beta one cums arnd..just bcus she has a bf she dosent wanna call it love...how can piple even lie to deir own self?? ..ur bf is nt ur husband...dey are all variables..find ur perfect match nd put a ring on ur finger! |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by hermesprogidy(m): 7:58am On Sep 12, 2014 |
some women are unbeliveably hypocritical, or should I say delusional? Yes! Emotional cheating is cheating. It's even worse than physical cheating and for the umpteenth time, guys always want sex in the end. So keep deceiving yourself that you're not attracted to him sexually. Soon you'll be riding his dick and telling yourself you're only showing appreciation for giving you listening ears. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by MizMyColi(f): 8:00am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Articul8: you'v bin trying so hard 2 b irresponsible. Leave those ones who deem it ryt 2 try commitment. I knw ur tots even b4 reading ur comments. U av multiple standard. U always wnt 2 b ryt. I wsh u d best Y'know, seeing your comment, at best, what I could think of was ignore you. By that, I mean, not dignifying your mention with a matching reply. @TheEmboldened's all I need, to know I made the right call. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by slap1(m): 8:01am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Moral of the story: Guys should smarten up before another man steals their woman's heart. It's not all about being rich. A little humour and wit doesn't hurt. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Toks2008(m): 8:03am On Sep 12, 2014 |
wo1F: Trust me pal, it is very natural to always make it a pointer to educate people anytime situations or topics come up that relates to what went down. It is not that i am grieving,not at all or i am still sulking just that i belong to a school of taught that believes in high morale standard and unfortunately this present world does not give a bleep about that. As per moving on i have emotionally and that is what counts and getting another lady as sexual partner is easy but getting the lady to be with is not as easy as many people think considering the crops of ladies we have now that mostly have no morale standard as regards commitment and morality in sexuality. So when i make reference, its nothing more than for educating people because when you write from experience, people value it more for instance the emotional infidelity part is one that is vital to share as regards this topis. Nb:5yrs of marriage but 11yrs of relationship. 3 Likes |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Hemanwel(m): 8:05am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Arcasie:Judging by this comment,the girl sure doesn't love her so-called boyfriend.Or let me say: there's no love in the relationship. And to think the first person she calls when she wakes up in the morning is another guy?? |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by MizMyColi(f): 8:07am On Sep 12, 2014 |
MORNDEW: I spoke in very clear terms. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Johnnoo(m): 8:10am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Dcaliphate: No comitment And she went on banging this dude Disgusting!!! I wonder when ladies will learn I |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Missonas(f): 8:11am On Sep 12, 2014 |
@topic I do believe and if she doesn't want complications.she shud detach.I do not blame her much cos...
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Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Allwility: 8:12am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Toks2008: You can be together and grow old together if both of you are willing to work it out. You couldn't have said it any better. Hear people! Read and learn! |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by drnoel: 8:12am On Sep 12, 2014 |
When they warn the housefly not to play around dead things it won't listen till they bury the dead thing and the fly with it. It friend is playing with fire. Everyone who had being thru that course relationship 101 life teaches one knows this. |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by frankels(m): 8:14am On Sep 12, 2014 |
benkings: why do u expect a hoe to be loyalI don't oo |
Re: Do You Believe In The Concept Of Emotional Cheating? by Toks2008(m): 8:16am On Sep 12, 2014 |
Arsenate: but of course the new guy will appear perfect at the beginning. they are obviously not living together with the lady so she is not aware of his flaws. trust me he is not as perfect as she thinks. most guys, anyway, don't marry the ladies (wives especially) they snatch from another man. guys aren't as dumb as ladies. he'll always have it at the back of his mind that he might the next victim. cos smart bros know hoes ain't loyal. Thats all. |
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