My wife keeps calling her ex on phone every blessed day. The worst of it is that she speaks wit him on or before 8am on daily bases and each day they talk on phone for four to five times. I have tried to stop her and each time I do she tells me that her ex keeps calling whereas she is the one calling. She keeps asking me if I want both of them to be enemies. I am not comfortable with that and I feel like beating her terribly but I am not the beating type. I wish to quit the marriage despite what I spent on my wedding because I am not happy with the marriage. Since I cant have happiness in the marriage, I don't think it worth it. Folks your advice will be appreciated. Thanks!

tell her to either chose you or her ex, report the matter to her parents, because from your tone, you will not only beat her, you will kill her. I believe prevention is better than cure, by the way, why did you marry her? you blind? a man who is crying can still see. love with your heart, marry with your head.

No she's not. Confirm if he is working at MTN Customer Care.

Okay Seriously
I have some questions Sir?
1)Were you the cause of their breakup?
2)Is her EX Married?
3)Are you giving her the attention she really needs as a woman and a wife?
4)Have you tried talking to her?

I sincerely hope she married you for love if not you don enter one chance and please try not to quarrel with her because you will end up beating her up which would make matters worse.

Alternatively encourage her to join NL. She needs some speaking into her life at the romance section.

@ Op you don't sound like you are incharge of d family, or rather u dn't act as the head of the family. On my openion, as a family you and your wife should know the things you both like and those you dn't like vis visa.You really need to tell her how much you dn't like her contacting her Ex. If not, your marriage is heading to d wall.

No be from my mouth them go hear say ogbaje go heaven.

dead man walking. she has already made you the ex

@ op u r definitely a learner...

Sir, you are making some mistakes;

1. Referring to someone as ex and yourself as the husband. The facts speak for itself na. Try swapping the titles...better?

2. You are cheating with the woman on the 'ex'. She keep calling him to apologise.

3. Sir, you are the 'ex', only you have refused to be confined to the past.

Be properly guided!

She obviously has no respect fro you and I can see why I mean how can you allow such a thing to continue This is an insult to your manhood, you don't have to beat her to make your point but as a man no matter how hard headed your wife is, you have to know where to draw the boundaries, and you can't allow a woman to disrespect you like this especially not your wife, women are very easy to cross their boundaries and trust me the next one she will do will be bigger then this.

I mean nigga I can't believe you opened this thread, so what do you want? For us to tell you your duty and man right? You sure you are even ready for marriage or you just jumped into it?


Here's the thing you should do since you lack a peni...s, stop it! Yes stop this bullshi...t, who's the man in that house? And why in God's name will your wife not even a gf be talking to her ex every single day? Tell her to stop it or leave your house simple as that. That's your house, thats your wife and you have the right to stop this.

Na wa o! Were u instrumental to their breakup? I think she's cheating on her ex with u (husban). Gobe!!
I think u rushed d wedding for fear of this ex thinking marriage will end their love

rokiatu: She obviously has no respect fro you and I can see why I mean how can you allow such a thing to continue This is an insult to your manhood, you don't have to beat her to make your point but as a man no matter how hard headed your wife is, you have to know where to draw the boundaries, and you can't allow a woman to disrespect you like this especially not your wife, women are very easy to cross their boundaries and trust me the next one she will do will be bigger then this.

I mean nigga I can't believe you opened this thread, so what do you want? For us to tell you your duty and man right? You sure you are even ready for marriage or you just jumped into it?


Here's the thing you should do since you lack a peni...s, stop it! Yes stop this bullshi...t, who's the man in that house? And why in God's name will your wife not even a gf be talking to her ex every single day? Tell her to stop it or leave your house simple as that. That's your house, thats your wife and you have the right to stop this.

U took d words right outta my mouth. Wife? Not gf. Na she pay brideprice abi na fabu b d tory? Pls do wat dis lady has said ok

*still sleeping*

If she your wife or your girl friend ?

Shouldn't this be in the family section

I can't stand dat kinda marriage! Wuould hv sent her packing long ago

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20pounds:

Sir, you are making some mistakes;

1. Referring to someone as ex and yourself as the husband. The facts speak for itself na. Try swapping the titles...better?

2. You are cheating with the woman on the 'ex'. She keep calling him to apologise.

3. Sir, you are the 'ex', only you have refused to be confined to the past.

Be properly guided!

You guys can be very wicked...

Tell her a story about how you run into your ex.... Later start making calls to an invisible ex, in front of her.... Observe her reaction

Fuckshit, no commentus?

@ op, hw old is the marriage. And is ur wife a christian, if she is then spend sum quality time to pray. And then have a chat wit her , truely try to get d reason why she is still calling the ex . Wht ever the reasons maybe . Then lets us knw. Lets see hw we can leverage on that.

Its called once deybe syndrome
her ex has deybe, etc.
Universally known as okafor's law of mpiakus

Climaths: @ op, hw old is the marriage. And is ur wife a christian, if she is then spend sum quality time to pray. And then have a chat wit her , truely try to get d reason why she is still calling the ex . Wht ever the reasons maybe . Then lets us knw. Lets see hw we can leverage on that.

English.

This matter needs force...

Felt like slapping the b*itch outta her system. It does not take a soothsayer to know she has no respect for the institution of marriage likewise her husband. Send her a*ss to her parents, she's not ready for marriage.

i don't think it is only phone calls that is binding her with her ex

Oga op, as you have tried to call her to order but she refused arrange a meeting b/w her parents and urs so she can choose b/w ur marriage with her or the phone calls + with her ex

lawrenceunaa: i don't think it is only phone calls that is binding her with her ex

Oga op, as you have tried to call her to order but she refused arrange a meeting b/w her parents and urs so she can choose b/w ur marriage with her or the phone calls + with her ex

i strongly support dis ur ideal. Vry thoughtful. Oga op give this ideal a thought

@OP, you have tried! How did you manage to accommodate your wife calling her ex everyday for God-knows-how-long? I'm a married man, I know what it feels like to have a wife call her ex constantly; it's not a sweet experience! Your wife needs to be educated on her responsibility as a wife. Please talk to her parents or close relatives and if she doesn't heed their advice then know that you have a real cross of a decision to carry.

This story sounds unbelievable. Its a pity that you've lost your authority as the head of your home. Your wife is not submissive to you and she doesn't respect you either. Are you supposed to be pleading with your wife to stop such an act? You are weak and your wife believes you can't do anything.

I'm sorry but when a wife loses respect for her husband that marriage is finished because it can lead to death...the husband who is short tempered may be pushed to beat some sense into her and anything can happen.

This is Nigeria. We have traditions and cultures that deal with such attitude from a wife. Find yours and apply it. You are a man.

The way I see it, no amount of leash will stop this woman (your wife) ending this until she fully and satisfactorily sees the end of it. When a woman's heart is fix on something or someone, deliverance from revered prophets are ineffective. Guess you are both @ fault on dis one. She was still very much into this her Ex and you were too busy being inlove and trying to secure your investment by tying her into marriage. Pele... I wish you all the best...

Can FÜCKING see OP has been provided with FÜCKING lovely suggestions. His the man & he should FÜCKING prove that, he should be FÜCKING firm & take a decision.

I FÜCKING do not subscribe to beatings. Am FÜCKING totally against it.
Not all might FÜCKING see it this way but I feel she's having a FÜCKING "Emotional affair" which is often a FÜCKING gateway affair leading to full blown SEXÜAL infidelity

fuckshit: Can FÜCKING see OP has been provided with FÜCKING lovely suggestions. His the man & he should FÜCKING prove that, he should be FÜCKING firm & take a decision.

I FÜCKING do not subscribe to beatings. Am FÜCKING totally against it.
Not all might FÜCKING see it this way but I feel she's having a FÜCKING "Emotional affair" which is often a FÜCKING gateway affair leading to full blown SEXÜAL infidelity

@fuckshit
You are probably 13 but right now you are my hero

fuckshit: Can FÜCKING see OP has been provided with FÜCKING lovely suggestions. His the man & he should FÜCKING prove that, he should be FÜCKING firm & take a decision.

I FÜCKING do not subscribe to beatings. Am FÜCKING totally against it.
Not all might FÜCKING see it this way but I feel she's having a FÜCKING "Emotional affair" which is often a FÜCKING gateway affair leading to full blown SEXÜAL infidelity

This is Fuc.king hilarious coming from Mr. Fuckshiit..

equlibrium:
@fuckshit
You are probably 13 but right now you are my hero

FÜCK!! Am all laughs right now.
A big FÜCKING thanks.

FÜCKING trust me, am FÜCKING above 13, by a great FÜCKING number of years.
Just being fuckshit & having fun