jpphilips:


If life runs on sympathy, Amaechi would have fixed woji road by now.

You suggest she waste her future supporting a student who is after sex than taking his academics seriously?

Have you had pity on the parents who suffer to send that boy to school to have a future?

Do you pity this girl who is taking a huge risk on her life and future with a boy who can not even afford contraceptives?

Give her the advice you will give your sister.

If he becomes a tycoon tomorrow, good for our economy, how about the girl marries a tycoon too?

FLYGERIAN91:
what can i say Never judge a book by its cover.... I dont know why Nigerians believe you wont succeed if you dont take school seriously..... How about she on her own part tries to get the guy focused instead of whinning??

loswhite:
are your friends not enjoying the bleeping? Are your friends taking care of the thing dat does the bleeping? If no, y then do you expect the bleeper to take care of the bleeped

I am not. I do most of the spending and also giving him money for this career

Krak:
So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands?

Krak:
So ladies cant work for themselves and make money again. Why must you always depend fully on your boyfriends or husbands?

MarjieJ98354:


I can't relate to this question. I have always worked and have always had broke ass men. It's not the "brokeness" that is the problem. It's all the psychological baggage that comes with the man being broke. Living off several different women at once; men sitting up in your house all day smoking weed, playing video games and fukin other women in your bed; not in any particular order, while the main women; until she finds out that she is not the main woman and kicks his ass out; is out working 2 jobs! There are baby momma dramas all over town! Men having babies with mostly white women to keep the woman around as long as possible; while promising to never get a job. It's funny how in the USA a black men uses multiple women to support them; whereas in Nigeria, men have multiple women by flanting their wealth. I wonder which side pieces are better off; the Americans or the Nigerians? I'm voting team Nigeria! The USA currently has an abundance of jobs, yet we have plenty of chronically unemployed black men that "refuse" to get any kind of job they feel is demeaning even though they have failed to get any kind of vocational training. Of course here in the USA there is systematic racism where black women are able to be more successful that black men so that blacks will always keep each other down. I even seen black men with decent jobs quit a job once they find a women that makes more money than them. How does that work? So if you're expecting women to make their own money, and they should, just know that the moment she is doing for herself, she a'int trying to do "Broke" After all the shit broke ass men put women through she can do good all by herself or as an option will date outside her race.

In short; I'm too old to give a fuk about saving the world anymore. But Nigerian women, this will be your future if men and women can't figure out how to relate to one another without it being about money.

I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.