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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 12:54am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Saecula:As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it..... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by shurlermoz(m): 1:01am On Oct 02, 2014 |
well, like a lady once told me "if money grow on trees some ladies would date a monkey" you see a girl who wants an handsome, rich, tall, God fearing, funny, caring, romantic and understanding man, and you ask her what do you have? her response - I'm a fine gal na! 3 Likes |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by shurlermoz(m): 1:06am On Oct 02, 2014 |
As a man, taking care of your partner brings some kind of fulfilment but when it turns out that the Lady just sits there and wait for you to spoon feed her then it brings a whole lot of resentment. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 3:13am On Oct 02, 2014 |
bongolistik: I tuk tim 2 read d 24 pages nd found out dat d OP mite be a very 9ce gel bt quite obstinate on her part, meaning she wuld be quite dificult 2 tek advice dat can evn enhance her future. Despite comin out to pour her aclaimed loved bf esteem on d floor, d OP failed 2 undastand dat som tins ar beta off nt discusd in public nd mindles dat d bf could also see dis thread nd get fuly disapointed in her. But d OP has stubbornly tried to justify evry statement she made includin doz she made in errors.me no dey give myself headache because of nairalander quotes ,na today dem they insult abi what even special there wey you put the matter for head.anyway just bear in your mind that in a thread,mentions some will like and share,some go insult,some will quote you right or tells you are wrong so different strokes for different folks, |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 3:16am On Oct 02, 2014 |
deavicky: see ur mouth na broke guy fit u.cos u fine reach person wah me go even spend money on. Try reduce the size of ur lip.ogbeni face your front jorr wetin concern you with my lips,quote and insult no big deal okay. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Simonet: 4:25am On Oct 02, 2014 |
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one Face it. Some guys may never be rich! If u will marry this guy, take him as he is now!! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Saecula: 6:21am On Oct 02, 2014 |
moonraker:Seema you lack the facility to properly comprehend what you wrote that led to this rejoinder |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by slimzypink(f): 7:17am On Oct 02, 2014 |
at age 20 I got my 1st car.. at age 22 I sealed a million deal..talk about being independent, but all dsame dis broke guys aint loyal. best liars 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 7:41am On Oct 02, 2014 |
QuiverBox:what are u saying? Didn't u see wen she said husband. Beside if a husband will do his responsibilities after marriage it will tell by how well he treats his lady wen they are dating. This is where we ladies get it wrong wen dating a man and the man is not doing anything for u, u still go ahead to marry him thinking that he will change and after marriage he didn't change next thing is to start talking about divorce. Like u said, the bible made it clear that a man thaat can't take care of his home is worse than an infidel. By the time u give a man the impression than u can take care of yourself he leave that to you total even after marriage. I no of many homes today where is the woman that takes the man's responsibility even if the man has money. Am not saying ladies should not work or take care of themselves but am saying we ladies should leave men to do their responsibilities and stop forming miss independent. Our men are just going lazy by the day because some ladies are giving them the wrong impression. Some men now want to seat down at home while the lady work and take care of the home this is very wrong and plz ladies should stop supporting this wrong things. Men plz wake up to ur responsibilities. Men, any lady that dose not want to take care of her is not wishing u well it means she dose not want you to have because there is no way a lady will want you to take care of her without praying for God to give u the means. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 8:07am On Oct 02, 2014 |
luvola: why nah .pls nah why nah .pls nahsorry I'm lost |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 8:49am On Oct 02, 2014 |
destante: sorry I'm lostCommon # add me up #gush |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 8:51am On Oct 02, 2014 |
luvola: Common # add me up #gushon where? I don't use bbm sorry. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by gede7744(f): 9:06am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Fphotographer: after she builds herself to become a complete entity as u put it, you wil now bring up the theory that women are not meant to have more finances than men so therefor she is not a suitable mate.... omo guys dont even know what they want. the say one thing and mean another do YOU know what you want in life urself? d moment u know u will stop being confused |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 10:00am On Oct 02, 2014 |
destante: on where? I don't use bbm sorry.k.. I give up.....lol#cover face 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by joshrare(m): 10:59am On Oct 02, 2014 |
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one This is. Clear truth Finance is a necessity almost in everything.. Being in a relationship and be broke doesn't bring out the best of the relationship I once loose a nice girl I was dating because I was broke.its a painful experience sha |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by moonraker(m): 11:20am On Oct 02, 2014 |
Saecula: sorry but your daft. dont quote me ever again. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 11:39am On Oct 02, 2014 |
destante: on where? I don't use bbm sorry.not even f.b or whatapp? hmmm |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by idu1(m): 12:01pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
This where i need my guy dailynews for bitter truth analysis. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 2:12pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
slimzypink: at age 20 I got my 1st car.. at age 22 I sealed a million deal..talk about being independent, but all dsame dis broke guys aint loyal. best liars Pics or adonbelie..... better yet, tell that to the birds! |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Ndababa(m): 2:23pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
golddeejay: who is selling n who is buyinwhoever wants it more.... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 2:57pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Enahi: You must be sick in the head, don't quote me again dickhead.oosh... enahi..common#harsh |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 4:31pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
luvola: not even f.b or whatapp? hmmm*sigh |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Enahi(f): 4:31pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
luvola: oosh... enahi..common#harshSorry |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by luvola(m): 4:36pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
destante: *sighsob.... Order quality footwears from.olak store #Free delivery service#.Biz line.07089328564 :* pin 746f8f4c kindly rbc*** lol |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by golddeejay(m): 4:58pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
Ndababa: whoever wants it more....fair enuff...because me i aint buyin ntn...guess they wnt it more |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 6:12pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
idu1: This where i need my guy dailynews for bitter truth analysis.lolz |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by jcflex(m): 6:28pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
FLYGERIAN91: As a matter of fact yes.... Its only the tycoons i see..... The truth of the matter is i have seen and have heard of alot of people whose fortune change from abject poverty to bastard wealth..... Trust me u know or have heard of atleast one person.... Most pple who remain poor is due to the phycological effect of things happening around them and if i'm not mistaken, most times, ladies dumping their boyfriends because they have judged by his present state may leave some pple devastated and shattered probably because the one who they thought loved them has abandoned them to their fate after all he must have sacrificed for her.... Not all of such people make it out of such humiliation and abdject rejection..... Most times we are the cause of the downfall of men who would have been somthing with our support and encouragement without knowing it and only a few might be able to survive the scourge of being looked down on..... Just a single mis spoken word could bring an entire empire down in rubbles..... Never judge a book by its cover... Learn to help people stand on their feet when they need you the most.... Never let them crumble for their success will be your greatest achievement.... We should learn to be our brothers keepers not be our our brothers 'demolition man' !!! IT COULD BE YOU TOMORROW..... Only a foolish man is certain that his riches will last forever and throw caution to the wind..... (My own 50kobo) take or leave it..... I cannot but agree wit you writ up, nice one bro, |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by winner01(m): 7:28pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating oneAs much as I try to fix sense into your post, its just gets more unreasonable......I can almost ascertain you even make a mockery of your boyfriend in his presence.....if you as a girl are not a broke leech or too busy working to make something out of life, there shouldn't be a problem.....girls like you suffer in the hands of guys till your old age, you boyfriend would be the greatest fool to read this article and not have a secret plan to ditch you when he eventually makes it.....Ask your parents if they are still together especially your mother how she made it in marriage cos with your low intelligence you can't get anywhere......70 percent of the successful marriages you envy today, the man and woman grew into financial stability together, not because ladies found rich husbands. If you really are not a lazy leech, then no man should be a problem for you.. I didn't believe there were ladies like you until I read your post, your replies to people's comments are even worse and displays pride and arrogance( on nothing).....may God help you to change or to find a man that can put up with this. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
jcflex:thanks mhen..... Its just the way things should be..... |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
winner01: As much as I try to fix sense into your post, its just gets more unreasonable......I can almost ascertain you even make a mockery of your boyfriend in his presence.....if you as a girl are not a broke leech or too busy working to make something out of life, there shouldn't be a problem.....girls like you suffer in the hands of guys till your old age, you boyfriend would be the greatest fool to read this article and not have a secret plan to ditch you when he eventually makes it.....Ask your parents if they are still together especially your mother how she made it in marriage cos with your low intelligence you can't get anywhere......70 percent of the successful marriages you envy today, the man and woman grew into financial stability together, not because ladies found rich husbands. If you really are not a lazy leech, then no man should be a problem for you.. I didn't believe there were ladies like you until I read your post, your replies to people's comments are even worse and displays pride and arrogance( on nothing).....may God help you to change or to find a man that can put up with this.This person is a thief.... You just stole the words out of my thoughts...... You said the awesome truth..... I just wonder why some girls these days dont wnat to learn from others..... Please tell them.... 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by jcflex(m): 8:33pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
FLYGERIAN91: thanks mhen..... Its just the way things should be..... sure. that way tinz shld b as u rightly said. bt the issue of trust is one of our biggest problem this days. |
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:46pm On Oct 02, 2014 |
i can't even finish reading what she wanted to say. first of all, u don't choose broke or rich! u choose personality-WHAT I MEAN IS- u choose a guy who has A HEAD on his shoulders! if he is stupid - will never be rich. choose a guy who constantly has ideas in his head and is hard working. saying i can't marry the guy until he is rich. such a bull*hit. so if u marry rich guy, u have nice family and kids and one day he looses all his capital? what u gonna do even if he is rich, marries u and later decides to divorce u? darling u gonna sit on the sidewalk crying your eyes out. relationship is about encouraging each other and working together towards wealth and not just sitting like a hen on the perch waiting for golden times! |
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