KingTom:
Work my dear is hectic

IrishKez:

Easy o
Weldon

KingTom:
You now speak pidgin? . I have been gone too long

IrishKez:


You're cazzy
Did I ever say don't speak pidgin
Hmmm, as long as you're in Nigerian campuses and in a forum like this you'll only get better at it

KingTom:
No wahala o

IrishKez:

Now I can go read, right?

Chelsea made my evening

laplace19:

Dude,no be lie matter abeg.. I don pass that level... she normally do those stuffs at the back of our house meant for fetching water and washing of clothes... we go dey talk and she go raise her clothe,on citing her belle I go mumuliciouslly look down.... na past things shaa

chibwike: Wat re plans for today

Kachisbarbie: lmao...I don't really woo like can you be my boyfriend...
...but I have walked up to really cute guys and asked for their names/numbers/pins

So...lemme complete the story. There was this guy den in sch, I was in final year - he was in his second yr. Everytime the guy sees me, he will be looking @ me like a mumu. I figured out he fancies me but bc of the class difference he was scared.
I walked up to him one day...mehn...CJ was shy...he kept on looking up/down. He became a very good friend...used to walk me home and take me for lunch. ...I liked it - I like walking with fine boiz...lol

I forgot to mention the fact that I really liked him...my friends kept telling me that I was falling their hand by associating with a junior -lil did they know I was older than him with just '11 days'.
I had to really friendzone him by my second semester. Some really bad guys in my dept (that were unsuccessful in dating me)started harassing him thinking we were dating - I confronted the ones I could. @ a point I just gave the guy space...I wo?uldn't have forgiven myself if any1 hurt him.

laplace19:


Lolz.... chai!!...na same boat dey carry us,I swear

Beennkumar:
Oh my God! I'm blushing now. That was so lovely. Awww.

Just kidding. I don't remember.

Tags: Dolcilicious

Ilovenigeria: This guy I wooed bleep the hell out of me.
I have to run for my life before it's late.
since then I no dey woo guys again.

Jhayeahsam01: after bisola and funmi saw the dick in me.....
they wooed me and later planned rapping me.. .

1one: As cool as it sounds to the ear... really, a girl wooing a guy is just gross!!!

I've not gone through all the posts yet, but from the pages I've read, such relationships don't just last.. It doesn't because it goes against the natural order of things... "Imagine a fish eating chicken meat.. The girl-guy dynamic was not designed to operate that way.

I've never been wooed by a girl and it has nothing to do with being ugly, on a good day I'd pass for 6.5/10 in looks.. which is a pass mark on a verrrrrrry good day, I dey even enter 7.5 sef

What I'm saying is most times it just puts the guy in an awkward position and makes him to give in just because of courtesy or because the girl is pretty... all guys that have accepted wooing proposals from girls all had this common denominator-"she was foooooiiiine". Later on they might discover the girl has more character flaws than they can handle and this leads to stress in the relationship. If the guy in this situation chooses to stay in the relationship, he stays mostly due to the fact that he pitys her and remembers that she was the one who wooed him.

The flip side to this is that it also creates an atmosphere where the guy doesn't want to do any tangible work to feed the relationship under the guise that well after all babe, you were the one that asked me out so I don't have to stress myself doing anything that makes you or us happy, the work is on you.


This is 2014, as a girl in one other thread said and yes by that definition, a lot of things have changed, bordering lines have become blurred, women are more brazen, driven, the society has seemingly become more liberal and accomodating to notions like this - A girl wooing a guy. However, I think when it comes particularly to relationships, lets just keep it traditional... It works better that way... Give the guy "green light".. blind him with it.. Let it be so bright that even if Nepa takes light he won't notice.. That's the best you can do to a guy you're interested in as a lady... Start from dropping subtle hints and clues, if he still remains clueless, then increase the tone, if he doesn't still get it, then leave him be.

Never Never Ever walk up to a guy and ask him out.

louiskay: I see sense and experience in you....... You gat""it

phazotron:


mofo of life

dude99:
Aisha!you would not understand this but my heart was beating fast while i was reading this,i went to check you profile after reading it cause i tot it was that lady that wrote it.........i swear that was my exact story...every content of it!

lol @Aisha
No, I'm not Aisha. I can imagine... ...how your heart was beating - Aisha done carry your matter come NL ba? lol

Kachisbarbie:

lol @Aisha
No, I'm not Aisha. I can imagine... ...how your heart was beating - Aisha done carry your matter come NL ba? lol

Dolcilicious:

...hey bennie

Tallesty1: I 4 be d 4st to comment if I wanted to.

But people wey know me here will begin think say I dey bragg.


*MODIFIED*


It feels good when a babe woos you but you gotta use ur head. Don't just fall yakata because nah woman dey woo you. If you like her then take over the wooing from her and pretend you didn't notice all that she's been doing. It restores their ego.

But if you don't like her then be open and straightforward. Don't play them cause they don't easily let go and she may harm herself.

Another thing is these babes that have guts to woo a guy are not always reliable. They port any moment they see a better guy. So have that at the back of your mind.

While you are enjoying the relationship, try to get heart-repairing kits because the possibility of you getting dumped is high.

*from experience*