Stillfire: Submission ko, sobolation ni. This has nothing to do with submission abeg but the mental IQ of the wife. The woman must be a person of low mental assimilation to not have weighed the consequences and detected the rationale behind her partner informing her of the risks and endangerment she places herself. When they tell you people to marry intelligent wives, una no go gree.

TribalEAST: but we run africa na! Abi e never do? How many countries run the world? How many countries are behind nigeria in the pecking order?

Yomieluv: yes,everyone makes mistake,but there's always a reference to every action taking.

The man would have referred the accident to earlier warning he gave to the wife about the interstate traveling.

The action of the man would also be based on many things going on in the marriage,but using this as a springboard for his action.

Acidosis:

Her God only reside in Otta na

carefreewannabe:

I can see how well you run Africa; so well that Africans are ready to kill themselves in overloaded boats to get to the promised land.

Stillfire: Submission ko, sobolation ni. This has nothing to do with submission abeg but the mental IQ of the wife. The woman must be a person of low mental assimilation to not have weighed the consequences and detected the rationale behind her partner informing her of the risks and endangerment she places herself. When they tell you people to marry intelligent wives, una no go gree.

TV01:
The Church is the Body, the only preference should be to worship with other believers. There simply shouldn't be a preference.

If an elder in the church is indeed fraudulent, you'd be more likely to know that if you all worshipped in the local community - also a lot less likely to venerate him if you saw him in his daily travails, instead of only splendidly decked out every Sunday !

I am not saying you make the church on your own, but your presence along with other believers is what constitutes church. I don't see how you could have misread that? Does one fellowship alone?

For the former, it's as above, for the latter, biblically congregations were always by geography/location. You gather with believers in your community. Denominationalism is just part of the larger error and distraction. And even if one is a denom A and prefers to not worship with denom B, you willl still be able to do that locally - 6 hours drive? Why not make the round trip to Rome just to be sure - if you are a Catholic of course !

Which is what obtains for most - I have a relative who is devoted to church and will only worship at HQ because GO is there. If you read with understanding...you willl see that that model of church keeps you immature by design. True liberty in Christ will not make you a devotee of any man or tied to any church

As above..."true liberty in Christ and a walk with Him will not make you a devotee of any man or tied to any religious institution...perhaps it's time to question those doctrines and convictions.

Christianity is not religion...and an arduous weekly round trip sounds very much like a pilgrimage.

TribalEAST: ask ghanaians, liberians, cote d'ivorians, togolese etc. We have the strongest political parties in africa, the best musicians and actors, resources, we excel in sports, we are smart etc. Don't hate on us

Acidosis:
Hmn... I'll still direct all blames to wifey

TribalEAST: ask ghanaians, liberians, cote d'ivorians, togolese etc. We have the strongest political parties in africa, the best musicians and actors, resources, we excel in sports, we are smart etc. Don't hate on us

carefreewannabe:

I don't blame him.

Yomieluv: for now,the man's action is justified,with time,he would get over it,and come to his sense,except there's more to the marriage.

pickabeau1:

Even with the fact that he was a church goer previously you still persist on blaming the woman for marrying an unbeliever?

freecocoa: This is not a matter of believer or unbeliever, whatever happened to listening to the voice of reason?

carefreewannabe:

Listen, everyone makes mistakes, everyone can have an accident, everyone can lose a loved person.

This is a family tragedy and not the time for submission and obedience debates.

freecocoa: Ha! Na real wa o.

I just can't wrap my head around it, I honestly get how the man is feeling, it will take a whole lot to just forgive and let go in cases in like this.


Many people now worship man instead of God.

freshdude2: On the contrary, this is the proper time for such debates. What would you have us do, mourn? The best we can do is empathise and sympathise.

pickabeau1:
Actually I was referring to acidosis who is still intent on blaming her for marrying someone who is not going to church.

On reason... this could have happened in the same lekki.stats shows more acccidents occur within 10 minutes from home

pickabeau1:

Even with the fact that he was a church goer previously you still persist on blaming the woman for marrying an unbeliever?

carefreewannabe:

No, this is a proper time to show some humanity.

Acidosis:

First, a baby they (both) labour to get after years of marriage died.

Secondly, the woman's leg is gone.

Only a strong husband can bare the pains. I really don't know the degree of the injury, so I will just keep my speculations, but forgiveness is one thing, moving on (happily) is another.

Mondisweets: your political leaders are so strong that they can steal billions right underneath your noses and you will never know of find out how they did it this is what you call running Africa abi please keep quiet. Your strengths can only be seen in your ability to change the lives of others for the good not the other way round

freecocoa: True, it could have happened even right in front of their gate but the fact that her hubby wasn't in support, the frequent arguments and even summoning of family members to talk to her to no avail, gives it a whole new perspective.

freshdude2: I'd like to know how to show this humanity. I'm serious, I'm obviously missing something. Please educate me.

pickabeau1: Last I checked

People have their opinions...

state yours and move on

carefreewannabe:

What else can they do? Their foreign counterparts are busy running the world.

The average Blackman has been so battered that all he holds dearly in his control is his woman .Take that away and the average Blackman is nothing

You're basically saying the black man is an empty vessel who needs to exercise control over his wife to feel good about himself.
How dare you insult black men like that?

Accept the truth and feel the pain of the black man ,look through my eyes right now and you'll understand why lots of folks breath fire when you ladies speak up.
Though the women speak the truth but the truth is bitter.........Is the Blackman really ready for what their women want?

pickabeau1:

Exactly....


Comes back to that word...... submission n respect ...a nightmarish word..

freecocoa: As far as I'm concerned, this isn't about submission, it's more about applying common sense.
If it was about submission then the church issue wouldn't be the major problem, OP said the woman insisted on going to ota because that's where she got her miracle, she's just brainwashed.

carefreewannabe:
Are you talking to me?

cococandy:
A guy said this on a different thread


And I was like



His response


I guess he's saying the truth to an extent.

So pls bear with tribaleast.
He gets egopanic attacks every time he hears that a distant woman somwhere is being disobedient. His panic levels increase

pickabeau1:


Who knows..