coolviv: @op you are very funny share. You have not seen a man who left his wonderful cook of a wife for a woman who doesn't cook or wash because she doesn't want to spoil her nails? And he hires a servant for her.

Guy a beg leave all these story ooo, before women will come now and say any man who has no job or no money is not a responsible man because he should have been watching and learning from his father for the last 10 to 15 years how to earn and provide for his home. After now, we will say a girl that can not stay with a man who has no job or money is a gold digger. But we no wan marry woman way no fit cook? Common men!!

Can you pls relate what you just wrote to the topic.
Can a boy see his father working in his office when he is in sch learning, haba am @ a loss!!!

Acidosis:

No mind this gals wey dey defend gals wey no sabi cook 4 here...
Most of them that are defending them actually knows how to cook... Just tryna bring in Feminism into d picture.
I stopped worrying or telling naija gals to learn how to cook after i discovered that no matter how them do shakara reach, one day na them go use their hand go learn how to cook.

While i was staying in Abuja, i lived with my Boss and her daugher in same flat, d daughter na all dis Ajebutta wey go dey form, d dad was telling her that she should learn how to cook she go dey do yanga, me and one guy do all d cooking in d house while she does the eating and handlicking
Lil did she know that we wont be staying with her 4 too long, i left 4 Lagos, d other guy left 4 xkul. She was left with her dad... D popsi has dis kinda IDK attitude.. He makes sure all different kinda foodstuffs are at home, xo if U dnt knw how to cook na fasting go sure 4 u be dat
Everyday now na d gal dey worry me 4 phone make i teach her how to cook soup even eba self dis gal kant make, she kant slice a yam and person go come tell me xay dat kind gal na wife Material...
Even her popsi don yab her tire, xay dis is Naija and not Yankee. No Naija man wants to marry a wife who kant cook.

Now na she dey yab herself this days abt how poor her cooking skills dey

D first day she cooked Ogbono soup laff being want kill me dat day.. D soup was looking xo black lyk Blacky and it was watery like normal pure water... Wetin she just dey tell me 4 chat be say her hair is now smelling red oil smh 4 xum galz. And d shameful thing was that she couldnt ask her female friends kuz she knows they will mock her

Ilovenigeria thank U 4 loving and caring 4 ur neighbour o chukwu gozie gi o

clemz88: but you are already exchanging ,that shows you are the kid . And that makes you more senseless. And now I know that you are an illiterate.I actually taught I was talking to someone who attended a university.but unfortunately not.

OK.

Hey! What will we not hear from women? So cooking is no longer their responsibility abi?
And they'll be forming gender equality.
Very soon, they'll start attempting to impregnate their husbands.

Ilovenigeria: I have this family friend that doesn't like cooking, Almost everyday she and her hubby will come to our house to eat. Even most times she will beg me to cook enough so she will take some home. Now she is accusing me of sleeping with the hubby because the man stops by our house to eat when he closes from work.
I have to tell the hubby to stop coming please. She later apologised to me sha and confessed that she gets angry whenever the hubby talks about our delicious meal. She is a pro now in cooking.

You be correct Naija babe jare.Without much ado,the madam went to learn how to prepare orisirisi sokoyokoto for her oga...sensing the likelyhood of oga "wandering" off or her government be overthrown.

Woman without culinary skills is in an.incomplete wife material o...even if her oga is a chef.Y'all akada babes better get busy with delicacies else another woman warms her way straight to your men's heart through food.It is not always about bottom power hey.

carefreewannabe:

My mother made sure I know how to cook VERY VERY WELL.



And she was wise enough to teach my brother too.

Good to hear that. Some ediot ladies would actually follow the comment I quote earlier without knowing you're a shef when it comes to food cooking. Encourage people with your comments, always. Thanks

clemz88: Well in my own view women weren't created to cook,but to bare children and also to be a help mate to the man while he looks for money to take care of the family .

Secondly women cooking or learning how to cook isn't their total responsibily. A man should also know how to cook.

if guess you will leave your office before time so you can come and cook for the family. I guess you will wake up in the morning to prepare the food while your wife is sleeping because she can't cook... except you are jobless, that's when you will do such...
Woman are to bare children, the man take responsibility of their needs, so what will the woman do?
Cooking is the tradition of an African woman... it's an advantage if men decide to...

coolviv: @op you are very funny share. You have not seen a man who left his wonderful cook of a wife for a woman who doesn't cook or wash because she doesn't want to spoil her nails? And he hires a servant for her.

Guy a beg leave all these story ooo, before women will come now and say any man who has no job or no money is not a responsible man because he should have been watching and learning from his father for the last 10 to 15 years how to earn and provide for his home. After now, we will say a girl that can not stay with a man who has no job or money is a gold digger. But we no wan marry woman way no fit cook? Common men!!

Can you pls relate what you just wrote to the topic.
Can a boy see his father working in his office when he is in sch learning, kids can learn how to cook from their mother by watching her cook can I child learn how to do what his fathers does like say, flying a plane buy watching his dad!!!
Pls use proper synonyms

greatwaters: Hey! What will we not hear from women? So cooking is no longer their responsibility abi?
And they'll be forming gender equality.
Very soon, they'll start attempting to impregnate their husbands.

am telling you bro... they don't accept responsibility, that's the reason while some don't last in their husband house...

adrainuche: Rubbish Absolute Rubbish i dint need to read anything written in the post Rubbish, A pathetic excuse of an article and the worst part its on front page, Conclusively since the OP can give us a reasonable post he is irresponsible ... Hw cool is dat

Yet another ret.ard

slimmy05: Absolutely irrelevant and a myopic response. You'll definitely know her cooking skills before you wife her. If she cannot cook then she is not responsible. If she doesn't deem it fit to learn how to cook after several years. She is not only irresponsible, she is a failure.

Stop this annoying kind of response.

Your response is actually a myopic one for the simple fact that you've based a human being's success on cooking alone, not by their work or what they do or even the kind of person they are, but by cooking (of all things). A woman who doesn't know how to cook is only a failure at cooking, not at life.

You speak such crisp English, I half-expected you to have something reasonable to say. I'm disappointed.

A good cook doesn't make a good wife, because marriage itself is not about food. Food will fill your belly, but a good woman with a wonderful character would make a great wife to keep coming home to. Food will not glue your union with your wife, her support and mildness and kindness would.

Now don't get me wrong, having cooking skills is a good thing. But a smart man would judge people, irrespective of their gender, by their character. When you find someone good, you keep them and help them grow to be better people. You don't dispose of them because of a simple flaw such as not knowing how to cook.

I ain't a feminist but the OP is exhibiting an early 20th century mindset.
Cooking is an activity for both sexes. A man should so know how to cook. Even if na only okro soup, that's a stepping stone.

Women hate to be told the truth.

male cook, female cook. Cook na cook no matter who cooked!!!
On a more serious note, this cooking issue is stale na

So true..

butanep: Any woman that can't cook is highly irresponsible and not also fit to be called a woman. It is part of the responsibility of a woman to learn how to cook as she is growing up either from her mother or foster-mother.

So when a woman fail to acquire the cooking skills as she is growing up, she has failed in her responsibility and therefore not responsible because she might end up producing children that are also irresponsible.

I get angry when with the statement " Men should teach their wife that don't know how to cook". That is ridiculous. If a woman don't know how to prepare a particular food the man like very much, that's a different case but to say she don't know how to cook... she is worth nothing,because she has wasted over 10 to 15 years to lean part of her responsibility...

A woman that can't cook clearly shows, she never assisted her mother in the kitchen or her mother don't know how to cook. That woman shouldn't be taken seriously because she will bring up children that are irresponsible as well.

Source pleaseeeeee

i can cook indomie with Egg, how about that

KelvinGraphics:
No mind this gals wey dey defend gals wey no sabi cook 4 here...
Most of them that are defending them actually knows how to cook... Just tryna bring in Feminism into d picture.
I stopped worrying or telling naija gals to learn how to cook after i discovered that no matter how them do shakara reach, one day na them go use their hand go learn how to cook.

While i was staying in Abuja, i lived with my Boss and her daugher in same flat, d daughter na all dis Ajebutta wey go dey form, d dad was telling her that she should learn how to cook she go dey do yanga, me and one guy do all d cooking in d house while she does the eating and handlicking
Lil did she know that we wont be staying with her 4 too long, i left 4 Lagos, d other guy left 4 xkul. She was left with her dad... D popsi has dis kinda IDK attitude.. He makes sure all different kinda foodstuffs are at home, xo if U dnt knw how to cook na fasting go sure 4 u be dat
Everyday now na d gal dey worry me 4 phone make i teach her how to cook soup even eba self dis gal kant make, she kant slice a yam and person go come tell me xay dat kind gal na wife Material...
Even her popsi don yab her tire, xay dis is Naija and not Yankee. No Naija man wants to marry a wife who kant cook.

Now na she dey yab herself this days abt how poor her cooking skills dey

D first day she cooked Ogbono soup laff being want kill me dat day.. D soup was looking xo black lyk Blacky and it was watery like normal pure water... Wetin she just dey tell me 4 chat be say her hair is now smelling red oil smh 4 xum galz. And d shameful thing was that she couldnt ask her female friends kuz she knows they will mock her

Ilovenigeria thank U 4 loving and caring 4 ur neighbour o chukwu gozie gi o

Boss you are a man. That is what I am telling ladies now but some re defending themselves... On the last day... they will see the reality...

If she's beautiful, good in bed, can give bl0w j0B, and is a degree holding smart educated lady. . . . she's okay

Rocktation:

Ohhhkey...that is where you had it wrong. Owu, as I've always known IS hunger. Then again, it seemed as though you realised that owu isn't what you've always thought it to mean, but still wanted to explain your way out anyway but ended up confusing us (including the poster you quoted) by saying poverty should fit the context more...which it doesn't.
And now you're beginning to try at confusing me again by saying you really don't know how poverty comes into the matter after you have said this;


but ill rather use poverty in this context. I ask because you made it sound like the availability of money or lack of it is the reason why the op is complaining, or why women shouldnt know how to cook which is totally off the mark, i stand to be corrected

See? I eventually understood you, even though you didn't do a good job of explaining.

Rockbaby, you and Phema will not kee me thank God you eventually understand me and i understand where your confusion stem from too. Not like i really wanted to wriggle my way through, i knew i wasn't a genius and that was why i said to her:

which is ........, i stand to be corrected

ok i accept my mistake and error of judgement, just asked a brother now and he told me 'hunger' is more appropriate, thanks

justi4jesu:

Source pleaseeeeee

i can cook indomie with Egg, how about that

if that's all you know... you fall in the same category...

butanep: if that's all you know... you fall in the same category...

I disagree to agree, how you know the skills involved to cook indomie and Egg, please dont underestimate me

It baffles me when people post crab ...how can some body marry a woman that cant cook ...here in Africa ...that's is misnomer an aberrations in short its preposterously bad

Then what are you marrying her or him for?

Maybe just to Bleep her which any prostitutess can deliver such services perfectly

What am I doing here anyway

alutacontinua:

I think I need to log out
what's with all these stvpid topics today?
Jeez!

it seem d op hit u where it hot most lol

slimmy05: Absolutely irrelevant and a myopic response. You'll definitely know her cooking skills before you wife her. If she cannot cook then she is not responsible. If she doesn't deem it fit to learn how to cook after several years. She is not only irresponsible, she is a failure.

Stop this annoying kind of response.

This is why I try as much as possible to circumvent people who are deluded in lunacy. Cooking has nothing to do with responsibility, I doubt you can even tell me the meaning of the word without looking at your archaic English lexicon. Don't just mention anybody randomly to spew codswallop. #shift

carefreewannabe: Any man who doesn't know how to cook is dvmb because cooking is easy.

And how can you NOT know how to nurture YOURSELF and depend on others for this to happen?

What's this one saying?

CFCfan: I ain't a feminist but the OP is exhibiting an early 20th century mindset.
Cooking is an activity for both sexes. A man should so know how to cook. Even if na only okro soup, that's a stepping stone.

when you marry a woman that can't cook, you will know there is different between tradition and technology or civilization. Belly don't know century oooo.

shizzle11: Rockbaby, you and Phema will not kee me thank God you eventually understand me and i understand where your confusion stem from too, i knew i wasn't a genius and that was why i said to her that

ok i accept my error of judgement, just asked a brother now and he told me 'hunger' was more appropriate

Hmmnn...don't even know why I bother you. Perhaps it's cos it's been a while since i bothered anyone. Have a good day.

oppss

butanep: when you marry a woman that can't cook, you will know there is different a difference between tradition and technology or civilization. Belly don't know century oooo.

What if you marry a man that cannot speak English

Food: that's one thing I miss about my ex. Infact, the thought of living with a bad cook scares me considering my past relationship with this girl - a one time caterer at Mr Biggs time-out.
Damn, this girl is always ready to cook, she bakes even when we have nothing to celebrate. With N1k, she can make a pot of fried rice that will make people ask for more. She hates the idea of eating out.

I noticed each time she asks for money to get food stuffs; I was always ready to give. Infact, I remember I sold my nokia C5 in 2010 just to meet up with the cooking needs Few months after we met, my skin and everything about me changed. Oh good old days on campus!!

Whoever underrates the power of a good cook must be ignored. The kitchen is made for the woman. Of what use is a well furnished kitchen without a personnel? Aside the living room, the kitchen is one place rich men spend good money on furniture & interior decor. It is a woman's laboratory!

toshmann: If she's beautiful, good in bed, can give bl0w j0B, and is a degree holding smart educated lady. . . . she's okay

Is this the total sum of ur esteem?
So ur s*xual fantasies overrides the need for values let's see if that and her degree will translate to u having a fulfilled life

butanep: am telling you bro... they don't accept responsibility, that's the reason while some don't last in their husband house...

Bro, God knows I wont even marry a woman who cant cook. The way to my heart is through my stomach, Lol.