jaydee87:

@funke stop acting all saint here, Abeg can u tell me categorically that u've not had sex? @op Dont mind ppl saying u did it severally to me doing it is not a problem and at 19 u old enuf to have sex cos the standard age is 18 cos @18 u an adult... but to the issue on ground, think u shud give him some time to decide again cos rushing in might lead to rushing out and Dont make a silly mistake by getting pregnant for him cos I know that will be the only way u both can get married at that age..... and most marriages built on that are short lived. whicheva way be wise cos only u can decide ur fate, we can only advice u...

You are a Mor0n. So sex outside of marriage is alright as long as the person is up to 18?
I can't blame u. U were not trained well by ur parents.

Tswaggs1:
hello everyone on here...
Please I needyour candid advice.
I and my bf have been together for a year+ and he is so convinced I'm gonna be the mother of his kids, he tells me that all the time.
Recently he bought an engagement.. He wants to take me to his parent, he wants us engaged!
I really I'm confused. I can't even tell my parent. I love him but I don't. Know if I want this.... I'm just 19 and he's 22.. I don't know what to do....

una don Bleep before?

Y'all calling me names cos I said we'v done it severally thanks a lot I really appreciate it.... Btw he his the only one I'm seeing, what's the big deal. Trying my best here not pretend.
Even if one has made a mistake with something calling her names is not the best way to correct her..... But I don't care... Whatever name u choose to call me cos i've had sex severally with my bf doesn't change a thing abt me.. Gracias

Tswaggs1:
Y'all calling me names cos I said we'v done it severally thanks a lot I really appreciate it.... Btw he his the only one I'm seeing, what's the big deal. Trying my best here not pretend.
Even if one has made a mistake with something calling her names is not the best way to correct her..... But I don't care... Whatever name u choose to call me cos i've had sex severally with my bf doesn't change a thing abt me.. Gracias

if you let what is being said on NL get to you,your love life will slide down drastically.

Funke4Jesuss:

You are a disappointment to your parents. They are striving hard to train u up to become a responsible person, while u are busy having s.ex about.
U ARE A LOST CAUSE

Sister funke e calm dwn na...u dnt need to.act all holy in here!

Tswaggs1:
Y'all calling me names cos I said we'v done it severally thanks a lot I really appreciate it.... Btw he his the only one I'm seeing, what's the big deal. Trying my best here not pretend.
Even if one has made a mistake with something calling her names is not the best way to correct her..... But I don't care... Whatever name u choose to call me cos i've had sex severally with my bf doesn't change a thing abt me.. Gracias

We are only advising you to stop having s.ex. And infact, you are too young to be considering marriage at this age. Are u not supposed to be in school? Which kind of stupid love is that? It could have even been understandable if the guy is mature. But believe me, u are both kids. U think u are romeo and juliet now, but when ur eyes go clear, u will start looking 4 where to lay blames.
If u were my sister i would have beaten u to coma, that when u wake up ur face will be so deformed that ur romeo wannabe boyfriend will think twice, and would probably dump you 4 another slut.

Funke4Jesuss:

We are only advising you to stop having s.ex. And infact, you are too young to be considering marriage at this age. Are u not supposed to be in school? Which kind of stupid love is that? It could have even been understandable if the guy is mature. But believe me, u are both kids. U think u are romeo and juliet now, but when ur eyes go clear, u will start looking 4 where to lay blames.
If u were my sister i would have beaten u to coma, that when u wake up ur face will be so deformed that ur romeo wannabe boyfriend will think twice, and would probably dump you 4 another slut.

another slut?...this is not ok.

Tswaggs1:

My parent would totally disagree no point telling them.. And we done it severally@ur no2

u've done wah severally?premarital sex?*faints*@19 u're already having sex?smh

Pervert1:
another slut?...this is not ok.

It seems u are the boy she's talking about abi...
AMEBO

boombay:
op,so the boy don enter your well... Seriously 19yrs and you've Done it severally and m sure he is not the first.... op in one word...









































you are a wh0re

God bless u for dis comment imagine!

Sister Funke4Jesuss you are making real sense but your msgs would have been better if it was in a friendly tone.. That aside, all I knw is that anything happening so fast don't seem to last.. The funniest thing is that, most men who go crazy like your bf are most times not reliable, did I say NOT RELIABLE ? Yes !!! Men can promise you the whole world when they are acquinted to you so don't think your bf is different from every other 9ja guys simply because he bought you an engagement rich and also wants to tie ur knot quickly .. I don't care if your so called bf is a graduate or he's rich. From your write-up I can deduce he's not mature yet and can zoom off in pursuit of another lady.. If your so bf could be that desperate to tie ur knot, then it means he doesn't trust you a bit, only if you lack foresight, you should av known he wants to quickly take possesion of you so that you will get into his cage

Tswaggs1 does the guy have a job?

Tswaggs1:
Y'all calling me names cos I said we'v done it severally thanks a lot I really appreciate it.... Btw he his the only one I'm seeing, what's the big deal. Trying my best here not pretend.
Even if one has made a mistake with something calling her names is not the best way to correct her..... But I don't care... Whatever name u choose to call me cos i've had sex severally with my bf doesn't change a thing abt me.. Gracias

shut ur trap babe,I'm also a young girl like u,d guy didn't force u,u had d right to NO so why are trying to justify ur actions?babe sex is not love ok?its not a priority for a guy who really loves,he's always gonna wait if he knows ur worth,I'm saying all dis becos I'm also a young gal like u babe be smart and keep urself for husband!

jaydee87:
@ Bombay wen was ur first time that um calling someone a LovePeddler, cos she said she had sex are u Jesus to judge her or the attorney general of Nigeria, she is being sincere. am sure u did worse than her at that age... u no holy pass

m not even up to 19...m stil a virgin

folameme:
shut ur trap babe,I'm also a young girl like u,d guy didn't force u,u had d right to NO so why are trying to justify ur actions?babe sex is not love ok?its not a priority for a guy who really loves,he's always gonna wait if he knows ur worth,I'm saying all dis becos I'm also a young gal like u babe be smart and keep urself for husband!

Medicine after death..So so too late..You know,when u try to make shit a beauty,thats the case here..What is wrong can never be right unless if corrected. Sec and relationship are too far apart things..

Tswaggs1:
hello everyone on here...
Please I needyour candid advice.
I and my bf have been together for a year+ and he is so convinced I'm gonna be the mother of his kids, he tells me that all the time.
Recently he bought an engagement.. He wants to take me to his parent, he wants us engaged!
I really I'm confused. I can't even tell my parent. I love him but I don't. Know if I want this.... I'm just 19 and he's 22.. I don't know what to do....

seriously? ?? This can only end in one way.....ur loverboy will outgrow dis sudden rush of emotions for u... he will use u and derive his utility. once u reach ur diminshing returns, u will fade away from his heart and mr loverboy will find a fresh blood better dan u. He will dump ur sorry ass and u my little girl shall weep out ur innocent heart. I wish to be dere to watch u cry. Then u shall join d team "all men are goats". Anyway little girl, enjoy ur pre marital sex and delusional love as long as it last

dazzlingd:

seriously? ?? This can only end in one way.....ur loverboy will outgrow dis sudden rush of emotions for u... he will use u and derive his utility. once u reach ur diminshing returns, u will fade away from his heart and mr loverboy will find a fresh blood better dan u. He will dump ur sorry ass and u my little girl shall weep out ur innocent heart. I wish to be dere to watch u cry. Then u shall join d team "all men are goats". Anyway little girl, enjoy ur pre marital sex and delusional love as long as it last

broda may God bless you... When the law of diminishing set in, the guy go swerve her enta BRT Lane

y'all should "die on top my matter"....
I'm having premarital sex... Oya Kill urself.
Hypocrites!!!

folameme:
shut ur trap babe,I'm also a young girl like u,d guy didn't force u,u had d right to NO so why are trying to justify ur actions?babe sex is not love ok?its not a priority for a guy who really loves,he's always gonna wait if he knows ur worth,I'm saying all dis becos I'm also a young gal like u babe be smart and keep urself for husband!

...and where in her comment did she say S.EX was a priority?

Tswaggs1:
y'all should "die on top my matter"....
I'm having premarital sex... Oya Kill urself.
Hypocrites!!!

young lady calm down and take correction..atleast that's why you opened up this thread. stop acting like you expect everybody to be on yourside...that's why they are calling you a child.

folameme:
shut ur trap babe,I'm also a young girl like u,d guy didn't force u,u had d right to NO so why are trying to justify ur actions?babe sex is not love ok?its not a priority for a guy who really loves,he's always gonna wait if he knows ur worth,I'm saying all dis becos I'm also a young gal like u babe be smart and keep urself for husband!

Like seriously...you think we believe you....msthw





"in charles inojie's voice" impossible

Tswaggs1:
y'all should "die on top my matter"....
I'm having premarital sex... Oya Kill urself.
Hypocrites!!!

no one really cares about ur feelings, or do u think anyone rly cares? and actually everyone loves a shareful giver

Pervert1:
...and where in her comment did she say S.EX was a priority?

Really I just can't help but wonder

boombay:

m not even up to 19...m stil a virgin

Small pikin...wait till you enter school



na nite class go be your hobby

Pervert1:
young lady calm down and take correction..atleast that's why you opened up this thread. stop acting like you expect everybody to be on yourside...that's why they are calling you a child.

Do dey really need to be that blunt!!?

Babes! No need to be mean jor... even 15yr olds r having sex! it's not right but this is not the way to correct them.

Tswaggs you're too young, don't rush into what u can't handle. guess that's all I can say 4 now, sieve the insults from previous posts n heed the advice.

Tswaggs1:
y'all should "die on top my matter"....
I'm having premarital sex... Oya Kill urself.
Hypocrites!!!

Sorry 4 how we have been criticising u.
But please never marry a guy without your parents blessing. Love always cools believe me.

3DCYCLOPS:




Small pikin...wait till you enter school



na nite class go be your hobby

dude m already schooling in france... so f**k off

Tswaggs1:

Really I just can't help but wonder

...well....same here now.

Tswaggs1:

Do dey really need to be that blunt!!?

they don't...in person they won't,but here..they'll.




just go through the comments,u will probably see some good advise or at least reasonable comments(even though some are blunt)

OP just know that most advice coupled with insults are those things that would help you in making your decisions

boombay:

dude m already schooling in france... so f**k off

LOL...