Peterjosh:

Medicine after death..So so too late..You know,when u try to make shit a beauty,thats the case here..What is wrong can never be right unless if corrected. Sec and relationship are too far apart things..

folameme:
Exactly,imagine she's jst 19 and she's that bold to say she's already had sex with her bf severally,i mean how do they gather that courage from?doesn't she feel guilty?wow!jst stop opening ur leg for a man that is not ur husband,have u no dignity or pride?hmmmmmm*sighs*

You know normally, when I see people being bashed here, I'm always quick to come to the rescue or offer a word of encouragement.

For the first time on NL, I decided not to say anything.

I am indifferent.
Sometimes, people need to go the hard way to learn.

Unfortunately, I'm loosing my hard talking skills.

Ride on guys.

I'll come around later to do my part





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Funke4Jesuss:

It seems u are the boy she's talking about abi...
AMEBO

Pervert1:
...and where in her comment did she say S.EX was a priority?

3DCYCLOPS:



Like seriously...you think we believe you....msthw





"in charles inojie's voice" impossible

Pervert1:
If you have a crush on me why not say it in private!

Crocz:
In this kind of situation, in where I come from, we usually ask Ifa...that dude is like the Know-All!...he's incredibly accurate and sh*t, he doesn't collect goats and palm oil...only a cowry, poor dude ...it's not even in use as a means of exchange no more


And hey, I mean those sh*t up there

Funke4Jesuss:

it is funny how everybody now think i have a crush on them. It is well o www.nairaland.com/1936441/she-always-reminds-me-she#26925103

folameme:
sorry bro,so u can advice ur lil sis to go and have premarital sex?#smh#

Meggy007:



ROTF.....hehehehehehehe.

MizMyColi:


You know normally, when I see people being bashed here, I'm always quick to come to the rescue or offer a word of encouragement.

For the first time on NL, I decided not to say anything.

I am indifferent.
Sometimes, people need to go the hard way to learn.

Unfortunately, I'm loosing my hard talking skills.

Ride on guys.

I'll come around later to do my part





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RiffRaff:
Dont Let anybody tell you that you are a child. Most people still get feed & sleep on their parent's chair @ age 30 in Naija. They term themselves "YOUNG boy/girl"
Let the hypocrites keep ranting about sex, most of them are not virgin either. They wil mouth off all form of crap online to look holy. Pay them no mind.
@ 22 most of d losers are probably still writting jamb. They cant wrap their brains around it that a man can be emotionally, physically and financially matured @ that age. Its the bane of a retrogressive society.
To the main issue @ hand:
Gettin engaged @ 19 is no big deal. It simply means ur Boyfriend knows wat he wants in life. Its a step in the right direction. U guys are both adults.
Are u certain he is the 1 u want to spend the rest of ur life with?
Is he the man you want to be the father of ur children?
Are u willin to walk the mile with him com rain, com sunshine or wateva life throws @ u? If all ur answer to the above question is YES! Then give it ur best shot.
An official engagement involving family members might be out of the question for now cuz of the kind of country (Nigeria) u live in.
Ur parents will probably not recieve the news too kindly. So u guys av to take things slow.
For now, a promise ring will do.
When u are on holiday, try inviting him over for family function or visit.
Drop subtle hint that he is the guy u are seeing, let him get familiar wit ur family. Get familiar wit his too. The more they see him around the better.
After a while u guys can take d bold step of a real engagement involving family members.
That being said dont lose sight of other priorities in ur life.
Education: Make sure u get good grades & chase ur dreams.
As for ur BF, let him take the time to build his career, Be supportive.
For d sex, u guys should keep usin protection and dont take things for granted.
When that time comes after ur family must have been aware of ur relationship. U guys can get engaged officially.
Age doesnt determine whether a Marriage will be successful or not. i know a lot of people who got married early and have a wonderful married life. Same as a lot of people who married late & their marriage hit the rock. There is no blueprint, every1 should get married when they deem it right as long as they have attained adult age of consent.
I wish you guys goodluck & all the joy and blessings that coms wit love.
Most people can only dream of the kind of love you have for Each other.

folameme:
lolz,how are doing sugar?

Hardheolar:
d only reasonable contribution. . 1000likes

MizMyColi:


Because he supports her having sex or because he actually made some sense bar the sex part.

Pervert1:
nope. the deed is done,and It's not like premarital-sex education even helps anymore! some Teenagers feel fulfilled this way.


Inasmuch as I don't think it's right,I'm not against it. shaking your head doesn't change the fact that in all part of the world,premarital sex happens,and neither you nor I can stop it.don't crucify the young lady if you have not crucified the thousands in this country in the same act.

There is a spirit in man, the inspiration of the almighty (The Creator) gives him understanding, of what is right, of what is wrong.

I hate to sound "holier than thou" but then, I'll say it as it is.

SEX before marriage is wrong, very wrong and I don't wanna date a guy who doesn't share this belief, no, not again.

It is one thing to do a wrong thing and admit you've done wrong

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imo, in that regard, it shows a person's conscience has been seared in hot iron.

If sex is what I need to keep my man in a relationship or part of what I need, then it is better I tell myself the truth, relationships aren't meant for me.
What am I saying sef.....the relationship is doomed already once sex is involved (please this is a personal opinion).

Look, I'm not condemning sex before marriage because my bible says so (I haven't opened the bible in close to a year).
You might say that I'm still being influenced by my former religion (to some extent, maybe)

But Y'see, there is this knowing, this knowing, its just there, I can't explain how it got there, but I believe that it's innate in all of us, whose consciences are still alive - Discerning right from wrong.


Like I've always posited:
Sex Is Worth Waiting For. There's a right time for everything under the sun.
Emotions are powerful, yes. But they are not more powerful than those who wield them.
All we need is a change of heart and the right mindset.
This is my conviction and I'm not saying it's absolute.

Though, I'm not perfect, Though I stand alone, I'll keep standing, standing for what I know to be right.
It is NEVER TOO LATE to do the right thing, virgin or not.
Thank You.

Signed: Mizmycoli(f)

Funke4Jesuss:

You are a Mor0n. So sex outside of marriage is alright as long as the person is up to 18?
I can't blame u. U were not trained well by ur parents.

Funke4Jesuss:

We are only advising you to stop having s.ex. And infact, you are too young to be considering marriage at this age. Are u not supposed to be in school? Which kind of stupid love is that? It could have even been understandable if the guy is mature. But believe me, u are both kids. U think u are romeo and juliet now, but when ur eyes go clear, u will start looking 4 where to lay blames.
If u were my sister i would have beaten u to coma, that when u wake up ur face will be so deformed that ur romeo wannabe boyfriend will think twice, and would probably dump you 4 another slut.

Funke4Jesuss:

We are only advising you to stop having s.ex. And infact, you are too young to be considering marriage at this age. Are u not supposed to be in school? Which kind of stupid love is that? It could have even been understandable if the guy is mature. But believe me, u are both kids. U think u are romeo and juliet now, but when ur eyes go clear, u will start looking 4 where to lay blames.
If u were my sister i would have beaten u to coma, that when u wake up ur face will be so deformed that ur romeo wannabe boyfriend will think twice, and would probably dump you 4 another slut.

MizMyColi:


I quite agree with you.
I think what irked Folameme and most of the people throwing jabs at her is that, she sees nothing wrong in/with doing so. Not really the fact that She's doing it.
You get? I quite agree that they were extremely harsh, but then, different strokes, different folks.

Besides, I think it's in order to make her see reasons, if I have the capacity to do good to One Single Person (Tautology), do I hold back simply because there are a million more who are in the exact same (Tautology again) position? And for obvious reasons, I couldn't possibly reach out to them?

These are my thoughts on the matter.

Funke4Jesuss:

We are only advising you to stop having s.ex. And infact, you are too young to be considering marriage at this age. Are u not supposed to be in school? Which kind of stupid love is that? It could have even been understandable if the guy is mature. But believe me, u are both kids. U think u are romeo and juliet now, but when ur eyes go clear, u will start looking 4 where to lay blames.
If u were my sister i would have beaten u to coma, that when u wake up ur face will be so deformed that ur romeo wannabe boyfriend will think twice, and would probably dump you 4 another slut.

OH shut the Fùck up

I hate it when people try to form holier than thou

You think because you attached 'Jesus' to your rusty name means you can come to preach rubbish to us

Just stop being a hypocrite

folameme:

I'm good deariee. Very good o.
Thanks for your input.

I'm happy at reading your post.

You certainly don't reason like your age mates.
It's okay Dear, I've been accused of that too.

You might wanna be spacing your texts more.
I understand that when writing from the heart, there's really no time to be adding some effizy, but I think it's a lot better and better helps to drive home your message, you get?

Please forgive me if I sound offensive dear, just something I thought you might wanna look into

MizMyColi:


I'm good deariee. Very good o.
Thanks for your input.

I'm happy at reading your post.

You certainly don't reason like your age mates.
It's okay Dear, I've been accused of that too.

You might wanna be spacing your texts more.
I understand that when writing from the heart, there's really no time to be adding some effizy, but I think it's a lot better and better helps to drive home your message, you get?

Please forgive me if I sound offensive dear, just something I thought you might wanna look into

folameme:
thnx dearie,na vex make me write am like tha jare,i didn't even prove read i hope i didn't gbagaun sha
Will try to space it. Are u also 19?

Uhn Uhn

Two Decades and A half

MizMyColi:


Uhn Uhn

Two Decades and A half

kmoneyman:
wow! When I looked up ur profile pic,I was able to guess ur age

Owh really?!


COool

MizMyColi:


Uhn Uhn

Two Decades and A half

MizMyColi:



Owh really?!


COool

kmoneyman:
Yeah. Pls keep up with d good writing style. I used to write back in d days for Hints and Hearts magazines.I can see ‎u going places.

Waow!
Thanks

I have a project I'm working on, more like "should be working on".
Thing is my head's so blank on what to write about.
Like I've hit a writers' block

It gets better though.