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Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ehisdan(m): 10:33am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:what exactly do u want that u re not getting that is making u depressed @22 |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by makazona(m): 10:37am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy: hy baby k, i guess u v seen d mail he sent u? pls check it out |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 10:39am On Oct 07, 2014 |
When you are 40 you will realise how childish you were at 29. Until you start living responsibly like a matured adult, you haven't lived life yet |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 10:40am On Oct 07, 2014 |
ehisdan: I really don't know. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Vikky014(f): 10:41am On Oct 07, 2014 |
MrRhymes101:ur sisters are his neighbours,street babes,church girls any babe @all.good advice . |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 10:41am On Oct 07, 2014 |
makazona: Please don't call me baby and who sent? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 10:44am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Richardjemedafe: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by cybug: 10:44am On Oct 07, 2014 |
HASSANAASIA:comot abeg... see as you fine |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by phreakabit(m): 10:44am On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco: Give yourself a break. Too much going on in your head bro. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by pweetixandy: 10:46am On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco:yeah...financially u might b better off..but u still feel useless at 30. U came here and blabbered about ur miserable life and I gave my candid opinion only for turn d table around. Bro,money isn't everythn. I don't wake up at 4am to stare at d cieling,I wake up,get about my business and u wanna know my business? Looking for ways to make my self happoy,make my God happy and make people around me happy even if it means going out on d streets to share puff puff to beggars. Correction of point,I am not judging u,I just stated d obvious,things u have been too weak to admit to urslf. Stay blessed ;-D 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ehisdan(m): 10:46am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:what are the things u think or remembered that makes u to be afraid of the future? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by BankoleNco: 10:53am On Oct 07, 2014 |
NaLaugh:Don't know how I missed your post initially . . . But I liked it. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Jimbadly: 10:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
You'll have to get over your depression man, cos there ain't nothing you can do bout it. That's how life is: you're born, you grow up, if you're lucky you grow old and you die. The worst is yet to come dude, wait till gray hairs starts sprouting on your damn head and your pubic region, and your d i c k refuses to respond to some female stimuli! And you wake up one day with a stiff back and painful joints... yea rheumatism and arthritis is coming, and you got no where to hide! Best kill yourself now if you ain't ready for that shii! I've been through all that and I ain't complaining, cos I know I ain't gonn cheat nature, what's gotta be is gotta be. Just live your life one day at a time, be happy and age gracefully. I'm a happy old man cos I decided to cast all such unnecessary worries aside and let mother nature run its course. You too can. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by MovingMax: 10:55am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I'm just thinking on what I will tell the op to avoid reaching 30. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by supaflygirl(f): 10:58am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I totally understand the feeling..will be 27 in some weeks and whenever i think about it, it eats me up..not married yet, not even in a serious relationship and somehow feel like 27 is the cut off point..lol..just reflect on the positives, create happiness for yourself and trust in God..you'll be fine!!! Cheers! 5 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 10:59am On Oct 07, 2014 |
ehisdan: I'm a News addict...The world is filled with too many sad news..It disturbs me a lot... The future scares me, everything about the future.. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by makazona(m): 11:03am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy: haba,if dy call u ma'am,u go protest i call u baby,u go vex.oooh...apologies then how do u want be addressed ? i sent that. 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Yello1(m): 11:06am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:u feel wat?at 20 wat,make man no hear dt one.advice:go pick ur book and read.dis is wat i tag depression abuse. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Richardjemedafe(m): 11:08am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Mondisweets: Some of una no sabi help matter at all |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by BankoleNco: 11:09am On Oct 07, 2014 |
clefstone:You think? |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by darlingnuel(m): 11:10am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Life without Christ is meaningless. On a lighter note, If a dude would feel terrible just because he's turning 30, wtf is a lady supposed to do? Hang? Jeez! 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by slydog(m): 11:11am On Oct 07, 2014 |
supaflygirl: Babe, 27 is still young, you will get there, I've seen female bankers, 35, 40, chopping money but single |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by josh001(m): 11:11am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Most of the advices proferred here are irritating, annoying, of no use and no help. Op, forget the bleeping and gyrating nonsense advice, it would only lead to an insatiable desire for more, a vacuum, more vacuum, you need one who fills vacuums, you need to have a true and real experience of Jesus, with all sincerity, go on your knees, invite Jesus into your life with all sincerity, get a bible and read, devour, then, the one who fills, would have filled you, He will make all things come in stride, He will order your steps, we cannnot be too intelligent for God, we all need Him. 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by ehisdan(m): 11:14am On Oct 07, 2014 |
keppyy:Hmmmm! Now i knw what exactly ur problem is. U need someone that is more experience than u to be more close to u, whom u can share ur thought with and that person must be a good councellor. And above all u need the one who own the world, the future and the thing thereof. God. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by supaflygirl(f): 11:20am On Oct 07, 2014 |
slydog: Yh I know but I just get scared not to find myself in the kind of scenario you painted..with all the money and trying to pretend that they are "chopping life" some of them are very sad inside 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by LaRoyalHighness(f): 11:25am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Na wa for this thread....maybe when I am thirty I would understand how you feel.. But right now I don't see the relationship between clocking 30 and being depressed. Even my grand pa was so excited on his 90th birthday. |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Rooneyboy(m): 11:25am On Oct 07, 2014 |
BankoleNco: my brother, I tell u we are both sailing in same boat, as a matter of fact I'll be 30 in January, the reality of life just hits me each passing day but in my own case I'm not depressed . my greatest problem has to do with finding that FEMALE BEST FRIEND that will know me inside out . it's a BIG TASK for me . |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 11:30am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Lolz...I know exactly how u feel...whycos I"m @ least 3yrs older an you...haven't u heard that 30's the new 20's....its all psychological and partly geographical...when it comes to ageing...the male folks are actually kinda lucky...bro;hit the gym;excercise;eat healthy so you"ll look very cute(just so you know;when u excercise;lyk lifting weights for instance;jogging and all,u"ll look younger dan ur age,cos ur body releases hormones dt will make u look younger and stronger)as 4 d food and drinking(take what will help your weight and all;if u don't work out and eat junk,u"ll look older,sloppy weak and older...if u hit d gym,u"ll be surprised ow young u"lll feel)......u"ll look lyk a mahn...maybe not a pretty boy lyk u used to be...buh lyk a man...wit ur self development and experience...u now know ow to enjoy life...if its the marriage tin dt is bothering you...well,u can still av a child outta wedlock sha...start building ur dreams...if you can afford it;travel to other climes and see how people your age enjoy life...take lots of pix,get a tattoo.av threesomes;av crazy friends ur age;try new and different tins and u"ll be surprised ow life will try catchn up wit you;and just along the line,don't be surprised you"ll find ur dream girl dt"ll love ur free spirit...I av relations dt are lyk 10yrs older dan I am...mehn,u nid to see dem avn fun and partyn...u"ll laff @ ur depressed stage...u"ll be lyk these men,are lyk 10yrs older dan you"re and they sure know ow to party and take care of their family...bro;ur life just started...live it up and take lots of pix for memory sake and u won't regret it wen u"re burnt out...na u go use ur hand tell ur sef wen u don old,and u"ll do dt wit a big mischievous smile on ur face and allow the younger ones to live their lives too...life's stages mahn... 1 Like |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 11:34am On Oct 07, 2014 |
josh001:calm down! There is time for everytin. wen u get too spiritual wit issues u r likely to miss the point. This matter right here is nt a spiritual one abeg! I'm a christian so go get a chair n sit down n listen to intelligent people talk pls! I remember bak in uni, my pastor use to tell us to read for exams as if our prayers will nt work, and also pray to pass our exams as if readin will nt work. I tink there shud be a fair balance btwn reality n spirituality! No wonder we hav boko haram killin people up n down in nigeria today! We r too spiritual n we r nt even among d best 20 economy in the world! #nonsense. 4 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by nairaman66(m): 11:38am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I think the OP just described me. I will be turning 30 mid next year as well.. And pretty uncertain of the future. I am a nice guy who is comfortable with the good things in life.. But still feeling a bit depressed what the future holds. I can only believe God will lead the way... Amen! |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Nobody: 11:40am On Oct 07, 2014 |
Op I don't know ur worry,I will be that 30 next year without any achievements,u better thank God for ur life,not clubbing again is what bothering,well diff type of people sha. 2 Likes |
Re: Turning 30 And Feeling Depressed! by Raiders: 11:42am On Oct 07, 2014 |
I understand how the OP feels. I am 27 and I feel like I have not achieved much in life. I see some of my mates getting married and having kids. Its really depressing sometimes sha. I hope to get married and settle down by 30. we have to thank God in any situation we find ourselves 2 Likes |
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