Bennymontana:
Lolz...I know exactly how u feel...why?cos I"m @ least 3yrs older an you...haven't u heard that 30's the new 20's?and if so,it must mean dt 40's the new 30's....its all psychological and partly geographical...when it comes to ageing...the male folks are actually kinda lucky...bro;hit the gym;excercise;eat healthy so you"ll look very cute(just so you know;when u excercise;lyk lifting weights for instance;jogging and all,u"ll look younger dan ur age,cos ur body releases hormones dt will make u look younger and stronger)as 4 d food and drinking(take what will help your weight and all;if u don't work out and eat junk,u"ll look older,sloppy weak and older...if u hit d gym,u"ll be surprised ow young u"lll feel)......u"ll look lyk a mahn...maybe not a pretty boy lyk u used to be...buh lyk a man...wit ur self development and experience...u now know ow to enjoy life...(As for achievement;ow r u gonna achieve if u feel depressed?) Tins play out when u live ur life mahn;be open to opportunities,u can neva tell;if its the marriage tin dt is bothering you...well,u can still av a child outta wedlock sha...start building ur dreams...if you can afford it;travel to other climes and see how people your age enjoy life...take lots of pix,get a tattoo.av threesomes;av crazy friends ur age;try new and different tins and u"ll be surprised ow life will try catchn up wit you;and just along the line,don't be surprised you"ll find ur dream girl dt"ll love ur free spirit...I av relations dt are lyk 10yrs older dan I am...mehn,u nid to see dem avn fun and partyn...u"ll laff @ ur depressed stage...u"ll be lyk these men,are lyk 10yrs older dan you"re and they sure know ow to party and take care of their family...bro;ur life just started...live it up and take lots of pix for memory sake and u won't regret it wen u"re burnt out...na u go use ur hand tell ur sef wen u don old,and u"ll do dt wit a big mischievous smile on ur face and allow the younger ones to live their lives too...life's stages mahn...

Vikky014:
ur sisters are his neighbours,street babes,church girls any babe @all.good advice .

Vikky014:
ur sisters are his neighbours,street babes,church girls any babe @all.good advice .

MrRhymes101:
I dint say he shud rape dem na! So if he is a gud toaster n my sista falls, fyn I dint say he shud rape dem na! So if he is a gud toaster n my sista falls, fyn

dancok:
Op I don't know ur worry,I will be that 30 next year without any achievements,u better thank God for ur life,not clubbing again is what bothering,well diff type of people sha.

bigt2:
Why depressed Go and marry bro. Leave the streets for d boys . you cant have your cake and eat it.

keppyy:
I'm 22years but I feel the same way bro...It's eating me up badly...

bjims:



fall in love with your best friend....you will find a reason to live

fireforfire:


bro , na d oda way round. "you cant eat ur cake n hv it"

BankoleNco:
Hey guys,
I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I'd go ahead and post here as it is related to health (depression).
Well, I don't want to bore you with long sermon-esque writings, so I'd skip the fancy stuff and go straight
to the point. I'd be turning 30 mid next year and its really eating me up! I feel depressed and old! Its been
giving me sleepless nights and middle of the night insomnia I wake up 4.00 am for no reason nowadays
and just stare at the ceiling lost in thought and scared as hell with thoughts of being in the twilight of my youth,
knowing I'd have to get married pretty soon, just 10 years away from 40, no more clubbing, no more spontaneous
Saturday drives. The worst part is I spent MOST of my teenage and youth life in self development and didn't have
time to indulge in some most of the activities attached to youthful exuberance.Its paid off, yes! But, I AM DEPRESSED right now!
Did any of you guys currently 30 and above experience same? Would really help if someone said something. *sigh*

lestat:
I know a cure, its called weed bro.. say bye bye to sad days

keppyy:
I'm 22years but I feel the same way bro...It's eating me up badly...

HASSANAASIA:
I made 30 looks good bruv

ReLaTE:
op,some of ur mate hvn't achieved anything yet never killed themselves. At 30 from ur post u are comfortable materially just dat u missed the other side.
I tell you,at 30 I didn't hv 500k in my account and never married,not that I didn't hustle bt due to circumstances. I hv virtually done all types of occupation.
I left secondary school at the age of 17 bt no money to further my education and as the first son I hv to hustle and start helping my parents.I did apprenticeship,i trade,i learn work,later went back to school to do OND.,went back to bizness b4 getting married. You can guess what age I got married bt now am happy and never regret anything even though many of my mates hv stopped child bearing and am still starting.BT I thank God bcus some are dead, some lost their wife and some are living from hand to mouth nw.
Pls thank God for ur life and remain grateful to him, forget abt all those things u said u missed during ur youth age,they dnt last.I didn't enjoyed them bt am enjoying both world nw.
You will enjoy this world most if you get married to a good wife and comfortable financially, good health and seeing ur kids will gv u the greatest happiness.Starting everything early is good bt it's nt the sure road to happiness, some succeeded while others were regreting. Even,divorce and infidelity is more common on men that married too early than those that were older.Also,getting married from 28-32 is the best age bracket for a man irrespective of some tribes that abhors it.,its still d right age.
Just relax and look for a good wife you will enjoy the rest of ur life.Shalom
N.B sorry for some of my grammatical errors.

dancok:
bro I so much like ur post,I said it in my earlier post,op did ,nt no anytin,he should be thankful or rather he just wanted to make fp.
I will be that 30next year,noting to show, yet to have my uni degree soon,no work nor serious relationship,com may next year I will be 30.

phreakabit:
Relax mate shi happens. . . Same ship here. You can't fight age/aging. In due time you'd get used to it, just make some minor adjustments before 33 If anything its the gals who are turning 30 that should be this worried. I know its troubling still gives me a few concerns but like I said thats LIFE. . . . Funny how we are almost age-mates BTW. Take it easy. Its not the end of the world .

fireforfire:


at 22 ur already complaining

thando:
Im turnin 29 2moro n im beyond depressed, stil hv to get up 2moro for a rather dull job that i hv that i hv which pays peanuts, i basically spend all my salary on transport but cant quit cos i bn ther b4 n almost killed myself "SIGH" .........FUC THIS LIFE I DONT WANT TO B HERE ANYMOR, i dont think i ever did actually

Yello1:
u feel wat?at 20 wat,make man no hear dt one.advice:go pick ur book and read.dis is wat i tag depression abuse.

BankoleNco:


+ Lost interest in my friends football , work and most things I used to enjoy doing. . . Is that depressed enough?

keppyy:
I'm 22years but I feel the same way bro...It's eating me up badly...

dancok:
bro I so much like ur post,I said it in my earlier post,op did ,nt no anytin,he should be thankful or rather he just wanted to make fp.
I will be that 30next year,noting to show, yet to have my uni degree soon,no work nor serious relationship,com may next year I will be 30.

BankoleNco:
Hey guys,
I don't know if this is the right place to post this, but I'd go ahead and post here as it is related to health (depression).
Well, I don't want to bore you with long sermon-esque writings, so I'd skip the fancy stuff and go straight
to the point. I'd be turning 30 mid next year and its really eating me up! I feel depressed and old! Its been
giving me sleepless nights and middle of the night insomnia I wake up 4.00 am for no reason nowadays
and just stare at the ceiling lost in thought and scared as hell with thoughts of being in the twilight of my youth,
knowing I'd have to get married pretty soon, just 10 years away from 40, no more clubbing, no more spontaneous
Saturday drives. The worst part is I spent MOST of my teenage and youth life in self development and didn't have
time to indulge in some most of the activities attached to youthful exuberance.Its paid off, yes! But, I AM DEPRESSED right now!
Did any of you guys currently 30 and above experience same? Would really help if someone said something. *sigh*

HASSANAASIA:
I made 30 looks good bruv

ReLaTE:
op,some of ur mate hvn't achieved anything yet never killed themselves. At 30 from ur post u are comfortable materially just dat u missed the other side.
I tell you,at 30 I didn't hv 500k in my account and never married,not that I didn't hustle bt due to circumstances. I hv virtually done all types of occupation.
I left secondary school at the age of 17 bt no money to further my education and as the first son I hv to hustle and start helping my parents.I did apprenticeship,i trade,i learn work,later went back to school to do OND.,went back to bizness b4 getting married. You can guess what age I got married bt now am happy and never regret anything even though many of my mates hv stopped child bearing and am still starting.BT I thank God bcus some are dead, some lost their wife and some are living from hand to mouth nw.
Pls thank God for ur life and remain grateful to him, forget abt all those things u said u missed during ur youth age,they dnt last.I didn't enjoyed them bt am enjoying both world nw.
You will enjoy this world most if you get married to a good wife and comfortable financially, good health and seeing ur kids will gv u the greatest happiness.Starting everything early is good bt it's nt the sure road to happiness, some succeeded while others were regreting. Even,divorce and infidelity is more common on men that married too early than those that were older.Also,getting married from 28-32 is the best age bracket for a man irrespective of some tribes that abhors it.,its still d right age.
Just relax and look for a good wife you will enjoy the rest of ur life.Shalom
N.B sorry for some of my grammatical errors.

Daniel6:
. U neva get admission?