marieolae:
r u back for good?

chibwike:
Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...
*modified*

Pals i need ur votes in the ongoing Mr NL 2014. God bless you as you do so.

www.nairaland.com/chibwike

temigracie:
...hanhan!!!....


What will now give the love fire, as in real FAYA??.....


..liking someone already, you start having some silly thoughts...Talkless of loving someone.....

cut007:
@ the bolded: this is my current predicament! There's this angel I luv to pieces (or so I think) but the problem is I'm not just attracted to her sexually and its killing her (and killing me too cos I hate to see her hurting). The underlying truth is that i'm sexually attracted to only girls with big boo..bs (i dont know how i found myself in that condition) and i cant just bring myself to open up to her about it cos i know it will shatter her emotionally and maybe plant a complex problem in her which is the last thing i want. I mean this girl has got it all: smashing beauty, manners, brains, an engineering degree on the way (500 level) and boo...bs many guys will consider hot (cos honestly she is not flat chested). The thing there is (for me): No matter how beautiful a girl is, as long as she hasnt got mean mamaries, i can never be SEXUALLY attracted to her. Peeps pls i need your (mature) inputs as she is beginning to think I'm taking her for granted because she initiated the relationship. Something I'll NEVER do! I luv this girl scatter mehn! & I respect her a lot! (I mean how can I forget so soon the number of better-looking, richer and better-swagged guys falling over themselves just to be seen with her!) She probably knows it, but she can't just phatom why I'm not feeling her. And lastly guys, just out of curiosity, is my condition a medical one?? Is there a sort of theory somewhere (medical or psychological) that can be used to explain it?? Are there other people suffering from the same condition? Or am I alone on this one? Inputs pls!!!!!

Sarimah:
which one be bby banana?

im fine tho...u?

adisasegun:
Honestly, I'm in such a relationship because the lady is a virgin, but sometimes I used to think may be I'm a fool, there is nothing I can do because I love the girl and she loves me as well.

skyprofm:


Mehn dat guy is either gay or impotent

UjSizzle:

You are not a fool for choosing to love and wait for her.

Morality isn't dead after all Thank God.

pro01:
These funny threads on NL are unending. Sometimes I can't help but wonder whether these people are real Nigerian human beings who live in the real Nigerian world. . . . . . . . . or deluded, dreamy couch potatoes with zero experience of how things really go down out there in the real world.

So sex is now such a big deal (with someone you supposedly 'love' for that matter!)? Since when? All these super set girls wey full town wey know wetin dey, where dem dey comot from? Smh. Choir girl in the day, olosho in the night.. . . and 24/7 Virgin girl on Nairaland. Deceit Inc.

hizson:
That's what I call a definition of true love. He will never do what will make her look impure..i once heard of a story abt a guy who refused to ve sex with his gal n she was like bt am not a virgin n his reply was since I was not the one dat deflowered you I still see you like a virgin..my own opinion though... ...I believe love is patient enough to wait..meaning he would definately have the urge bt he should be able to hold on..

cooljoe:
shey u don cum again. Instead of u to b al nice nd mushy nd sweet, u don carry ur ph flair cum. I'm gud tou, I really missed u

Sarimah:
missed u too

cc150615:

in ur wildest dreams, ur spew no reach to get me pregnant, it's too watery, I see it from ur retarded speech

Sarimah:

adisasegun:
Thanks bro

chibwike:
Lol....bro please i need ur votes in the ongoing Mr NL contest..thanks alot

cooljoe:
stop dat lie

decode55:


you stay in ph?

Sarimah:
yhh

Sarimah:
im not lieing..

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

jearile:

Now, it's a natural phenomenon to have urge for intimacy with your complementary sex let alone with somebody you feel something 'special' for.
Celibacy, whether ordained or imposed didn't stop the hormones in your body from functioning and for goodness' sake it is not a sin - so all the holier than thou sycophant with their "phariseeism" mentality can now drop all the pretence.
Refusing to dishonour your temple is a journey that begins from your mind and your ability to put it under control through the help of God irrespective of your feelings is what true love preaches. Instead of satisfying your immediate gratification, you choose to knock it off.
So in nutshell, having sexual urge is only natural - you can't stop, you can't kill it but you can suppress it until it's the right time to express it.

AgapeCharis:
Cummon man! Just his preference. Everyone has something that turns him on. He didn't say he doesn't love her cos of her small bo*ba buh rather it doesn't move him. Nothing is wrong with him.