Yes, it is very possible. I do not have the desire to sleep with the girl I am falling for, but I can hug and kiss her, sha.

It s possible bt nt easy tho (1 outoff 1000 or more) depending on so many factors surrounding ur nearness 2d pson.

1: if de lov is de firefox type en de sparkling tings r dere -sex possible
2: if de sparkling tings r left half naked -sex possible
3: sleep 2gather most times -sex possible

bt seriously if sex is still nt a demonstration of lov why woud cheating always be a problm because i blive one mek sex 2d pson he/she lovs

faithugo64:
so why then do people think that sex has nothing to do with love?

Because it doesn't. That is why a guy can whisper sweet things to you one minute, have sex with you the next and call you tomorrow telling you that what happened the night before was nothing serious. Men don't need to love you to have sex with you. Many see women's vargina as a sperm* receptacle that's all. No emotions and feelings involved whatsoever. They are just satisfying nature's urge. A person who truly loves you does not need to have sex with you to prove their love for you. There are many ways of showing a person you love them without asking for their private part. In fact, a person who truly loves you will not ask to defile your body. They will rather do the honorable thing and ask for your hand in marriage first and once you both are married, then sex with follow. Its how God intended it.

dasparrow:


Because it doesn't. That is why a guy can whisper sweet things to you one minute, have sex with you the next and call you tomorrow telling you that what happened the night before was nothing serious. Men don't need to love you to have sex with you. Many see women's vargina as a sperm* receptacle that's all. No emotions and feelings involved whatsoever. They are just satisfying nature's urge. A person who truly loves you does not need to have sex with you to prove their love for you. There are many ways of showing a person you love them without asking for their private part. In fact, a person who truly loves you will not ask to defile your body. They will rather do the honorable thing and ask for your hand in marriage first and once you both are married, then sex with follow. Its how God intended it.

good one sir,but you did not get the question,the question is can you love someone(not agape love o)and not have the DESIRE(urge)to kiss,hug or have sex with the person? I am talking of urges here and not doing the real thing.

Double post

Let's stop deceiving ourSelveS there is no way u can truely love someone without u being sexually attracted to the person..I am talking from a male point of view...if a guy Says he loves u and is not sexually attracted to U then may b ur his sister.

That Sexual attraction iS there when u love someone that is why our parents gave birth to each and every one of us because daddy's love had a blend of sexual attraction .

You can only control the urge and thought of not having sex with the person till after marriage...Love makes u respect the other party wish of waiting till marriage, love fears God and decides to obey his commandment of not commiting fornication, Love seeks to know more about the person, look Seeks to grow old with the person BUT love doesn't kill d sexual attraction or d urge for sex rather U make the decision to control and abstain.

chibwike:
yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...

ahn ahn meaning that sex is a disease or what?

How can you love someone romantically and not have the "desire" to sleep with them if you are honest? The discipline starts from where you decide not to act on your desires. So its impossible not to have a desire, but it is possible not to actually get down with them.

marieolae:
ahn ahn meaning that sex is a disease or what?

sex is not a disease....buh i feel...you tend to have sex with someone whom you dont respect..since we all know that premarital sex is not gud....so i love her, i respect her..i wont have sex with her

destante:
How can you love someone romantically and not have the "desire" to sleep with them if you are honest? The discipline starts from where you decide not to act on your desires. So its impossible not to have a desire, but it is possible not to actually get down with them.

Thank u jare..
Good point..
Sum people be forming holy holy hia..
#hypocrites..

chibwike:
sex is not a disease....buh i feel...you tend to have sex with someone whom you dont respect..since we all know that premarital sex is not gud....so i love her, i respect her..i wont have sex with her

yes! You won't have sex with her but dt doesn't mean u wouldn't have the urge.



No matter how disciplined or 'spiritual' anyone is, you can't just stop the desire from coming. If u have dx 'love-flu for someone, I bet u! The urge will come. It'll come so hard like a tsunami.

This is where ur decision now comes in. You can decide not to yield or not

PS: You can't stop a bird from flying over your head but you can stop it from building a nest on your head

Its all about the individuals involved.
its the most possible scenario, sex is not love and love is not sex.
marriage is more than just the physical attractions , it means much more than sex or romance. the whole idea of marriage is companionship and should be treated as such. when you marry forsex and romance you end up getting tired of the whole sex thing cos that was the reason your mind was programmed to go into the relationship for.

@op when ah love a girl..... and when I truly do......

That "thing" never comes to my mind

IMO, if you love someone there are a lot of things you can do to prove your love and a lot more that can be done to keep the desire beaming and s.ex is not one of them. unfortunately, our mentality is slowly drifting towards evil/ungodly pattern of thinking due to the sad experiences we or our close friends had about break up, guys this days think se.x is a kind of reward you earn from investing in a r/ship and some of our beloved ladies put a price on their bodies...hugs & pecks are normal stuffs we share with people we care about, so that's no biggie.

chibwike:
sex is not a disease....buh i feel...you tend to have sex with someone whom you dont respect..since we all know that premarital sex is not gud....so i love her, i respect her..i wont have sex with her

so a guy that has sex with his girlfriend,does not respect her right?

MuhdG:
@op when ah love a girl..... and when I truly do......

That "thing" never comes to my mind

so you dont get the urge?

marieolae:
so a guy that has sex with his girlfriend,does not respect her right?

yes...if she dosen't want it

chibwike:
yes...if she dosen't want it

I see

marieolae:
I see

Lol..you are always seeing...aren't you tired

Avoiding not to sleep with some one loves is trying to stick to biblical instructions..'being religious n faithful to God' Outside that sex could be seen as one of the bond between lovers... Cos it came up through emotional arousal... .base on personality of the partners involved, sex is their love expression, while abstainance of sex is expression of love to others

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

yes its possible. That's why we have friend zones.

faithugo64:
most ladies believe that a guy who loves you would never want to sleep with you untill he marries you.so here is my question

is it possible to love someone and not have the DESIRE to kiss,hug or have sex with him/her?

Please i don't mean having sex with the person,i mean is it possible not to have the DESIRE(wanting) to be intimate with that person.

NOTE: HERE AM NOT TALKING ABOUT AGAPE LOVE O!!!

yes its possible. That's why we have friend zones.you love them but can't do them.

faithugo64:
so you dont get the urge?

Forget urge..

I just can't picture us getting physical

Homguy:
yes its possible. That's why we have friend zones.you love them but can't do them.

I concur.

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how can you cook a soup without tasting?

Sex is integral part of the word 'love'.
Science tells that a male's job is to
spread his genes through reproduction. Human beings are emotional and can express emotions.
So of course when you fall in love with
a girl, you want to have sex with her.
AND not with any other girl.

Oh yes

very possible..

faithugo64:
so why then do people think that sex has nothing to do with love?

answer it by ur self joor

chibwike:
Yeah, i can't sleep with a girl i truely love...

Do you have dysfuntional issues or u only sleep with ashewos? Just asking. No offence intended.