foxxynik:


At ur very best! U've spoken like u've been trained properly!....

Mind telling me what dis ur yoruba ppl have been saying...in english? They seems to be saying many tinz.... Especially the "oro lan sofun omoluabi"

Divsy:
Same way sum bf"s wld want u 2 handwash loads of clothes wen u pay dm a visit...wen its nt lyk ure a wyf already..nansinse

rightwoman:

Thanx foxxynix... in english it means it's half word we tell to a child, when d word gets into him, it becomes whole. In order words, a word is enough for d wise

yhermmie:
It's just like when a guy is cooking and d lady is relaxing on his bed then d guy's mum visits.
GF: Good afternoon ma
MUM: Good afternoon my daughter. Pls,where is Kunle?
GF: He's in the kitchen cooking ma,let me go get him for you.
KUNLE: Mum,good afternoon,u didnt tell me u were coming.
MUM: Yes jare, just came to give u a suprise visit and by d way,what were u doing? Look at d way u re sweating.
KUNLE: I was cooking in d kitchen
MUM: Really? Who is she to u? (points to gf)
KUNLE: Ha, mum, she's my gf
MUM: Ur gf?!
KUNLE: Yes mum
MUM: U must be joking! Ur gf and u were busy cooking for her while she was relaxing on ur bed! Kunle, u've not seen a wife, she's a real ashawo who wants just ur money. Ha! Mo gbe, my son has been charmed....

yhermmie:

MUM: [s] U must be joking! Ur gf and u were busy cooking for her while she was relaxing on ur bed! Kunle, u've not seen a wife, she's a real ashawo who wants just ur money. Ha! Mo gbe, my son has been charmed.... [/s]

foxxynik:


We're almost not saying the same thing sweethrt....

I respect ur ideas and ur reasoning as well...

It's totally a nice idea to cook for him! Am nt saying he won't do the needful if u dnt cook for him...
But he'll respect and place u above every other thing in his life...

My gf cooks two different soups every weekends and whenever mum comes visiting she keeps telling me to do and marry her before I lose her... Mum enjoys her cooking as well... The day I took her to meet Dad and mum was plating her hair...she help mum to plate the hair properly and dad said somfin dat made me very happy..dat most girls dnt even knw hw to braid hairs and here she is...d

lt same night she cooked for the house...Dad had no other way of getting convinced than to enquire abt her and they r best of pals today!

My point is....if u're a girl then u have a power to make a man decide to marry u or not...acting like u are a woman even when courtesy demands! Doing those little girly tins could drive a man as far as to get obsess for you!

Rilwayne001:


Who knows wether the guy you are cooking for will later dump you like a rag. (no offence)

Please present another point, this one is vague

TahariX:


Lmao. Eyah I guess your tiny brain cannot process the fact that a girlfriend isn't the same as a housemaid.

miztola:

If cooking for a man is a sure way of getting married,there won't have been single ladies.

zoe123:


that's cute sha ,real African woman.but what happens years from now wen she stops doing that? but I still like that in her its cool been trying to learn how to braid. marry her but pls not becos she sabi braid n cooks for ur family.that's y most people are like "but she wasn't this way when we were dating"

foxxynik:


That dumping proceeds the moment she refuses to show off her womanly idiosyncrasy as a girl...

Rilwayne001:


You can't just cook for man you are not engaged to or married to. am not talking about our modern BF/GF ish.

For the fact his mother did'nt know who you are to him shows that you are neither engaged nor married to him, then i wonder why the mum should conclude that you are not a wife material.

Who knows wether the guy you are cooking for will later dump you like a rag. (no offence)

Please present another point, this one is vague

damilola231:

Really! Cooking for your bf has turned you to a housemaid?
I don't cook in my bf's house evrytime but I don't mind doing it. Afterall, we'll eat it together and he's a good cook also, So we mostly end up cooking together but I don't see anything wrong in cooking for your bf. U re not living together afterall, so it's a once in a while thing

Rilwayne001:


You can't just cook for man you are not engaged to or married to. am not talking about our modern BF/GF ish.

For the fact his mother did'nt know who you are to him shows that you are neither engaged nor married to him, then i wonder why the mum should conclude that you are not a wife material.

Who knows wether the guy you are cooking for will later dump you like a rag. (no offence)

Please present another point, this one is vague

Sanguine:
Y'all seem to be making a whole big deal outta what's supposed to be no issue at all... If you cook, nor be two of una go chop the food Abi? Na wa!
And who says you two cannot do the cooking together? Well, as far as I am concerned, understanding is the keyword here.
#PEACE!!

Kassidy90:

Don't get me wrong sweet@
Y cant u cook for ur BF?
Well sha i dnt knw kind relationship many pple are into.
The problem with most nigerian ladies is hypcrisy u wont be suprise when u see most of the ladies forming i cant cook i cant sweep on NL doing dry cleaning/cook combined with nanny whenever they visit der BF or his family....

Rilwayne001:


Yeah!

But guys don't dump there GF for that alone, do you agreee?

Meanwhile, my comment was directed at her post, especially the BF's mom ahe portrayed...that assertion is bogus.

damilola231:

Really! Cooking for your bf has turned you to a housemaid?
I don't cook in my bf's house evrytime but I don't mind doing it. Afterall, we'll eat it together and he's a good cook also, So we mostly end up cooking together but I don't see anything wrong in cooking for your bf. U re not living together afterall, so it's a once in a while thing

miztola:

Lol,true about that.
Btw,I didn't say I can't cook




Why's everyone getting me wrong on this thread?

yhermmie:

But guy, y are u always after me?

3cycle:
Cooking for Boyfriend isn't big deal as long as he reciprocates.

foxxynik:


Ofcoz...its now down on me that I MUST marry her!
She isn't the type that changes attitudes...
Unlike most girls...
She's just natural in her doings!
She doesn't front herself...
She's the quiet type!

It isn't a criteria sweethrt..
I'll marry her for a lot of reasons.
Including the cooking.

So u get the vibes ?

slimmy05:
because you lack basic home training and needs to be schooled right here

zoe123:


good luck to u darling hope to. hear d wedding bell soon, at leat am pleased her culinary expertize isn't ur sole reason for choosing her.my opinion is actually for those guys who believe no cooking no marriage or because she ain't cooking she's not a "responsible" girl

Princecalm:
Look at what girls of this days are turning into.Imaging you went to your BF house and you met him cooking and instead of taking over the cooking from him you sit and watch him do the cooking and still serve you.Even the whites which you guys are emulating have not started doing this.

yhermmie:

But guy, y are u always after me?

yhermmie:

This is what a typical nigerian mum will say/do. U get it?

MUM: U must be joking! Ur gf and u were busy
cooking for her while she was relaxing on ur bed!

Kunle, u've not seen a wife,

she's a real ashawo

who wants just ur money.