Jessyj616:
Part 2- when you want to approach her increase your steps so you are in step with her (not too obviously of course) then say hi. Simple! And for heavens sake dont follow up with ' i am gbenga (or wateva) wats yours' it works sometimes and other times it doesnt. to avoid clipped responses from her dont ask. You can say. guy- i see you around but i wasnt sure you lived around here but today i couldnt stop myself. Girl-( slows down her walking) y? Guy- you were looking exceptionally...um(brush your eyes down her dress but dont linger) looking good no good looking no beautiful girl-smiles(tanks) guy- my name is gbenga so until i get your name i will call you grace girl- why grace? Guy-because you are graceful in your walk you have got a natural leap in them girl- (giggles) wow well i am not grace my name is (inserts name) ......(Bingo!) guy- compliment name if you can( dont over do it) the weather is hot where could a pretty lady like you be going in this sun girl-oh just to greet my friend today is actually her birthday guy-wow she has got a good friend in you to want to greet her personally rather than over the phone which is rare and good. girl- yeah she is my best friend (blah blah blah you know how it rolls)

itoghor0007:
pls there's this gal I have beening toastn, each time I do go to her she ll pretends to me, each time I always talks about love she all tell me I should stop tell her dat , BT she never stop disturnbing me on phone , how do.j know if she loves me,. pls..

jetworldpee:
looking more like teddyxxx thread and I am sure you know wha I mean, you could at least give credit to him on the Good job....
my question is I collected this girl number from a friend and I never call up the girl as am clueless on how to go about it..
N/B: am not a fan of getting chick number from friends but this particular girl caught my attention and no time to talk with her and neither did she see me that day also but my friend do talk to her and I got her number from him..
thanks

ThePrekky:

nah. I don't involve myself in such talk. Wetin concern me concern a girl's backside. I just need d person to be awesome facially. However I'll start talking with ppl I may not ve interest in , ike you said, cos I don't do that a lot.
Thanks for d help, I appreciate, but I've kinda read some of d oda things you said in my course of online surfing. I'd very much love a step by step guide to tackling d situation from a Nigerian's first hand perspective who knows how situations are over here, not all these general stuff I read that may apply over there but not here. Something like the type you gave these guys before me

itoghor0007:
pls I need an Advice, can u stay with a lady dat broke up wit Ur elder brother? this is d real story, this lady brokeup wit my bro, an she naw pack out of d House, b4 both of us don't normally agree, BT immidetelly she left both of us now bcame friend, and she ask me to look for house for her, and now we ve finally rents d house, she said I ll be staying wit her so she gave me d spare key, BT suddenly she started going out wit a guy dat she drop b4 meeting my bro, wat should I do nw

runnazz:
lolz...very funny girl reminds me of them days we dey rehearse pick up lines for girls hehehehe... and some girls will throw u off balance with their doings and then story go get k-leg cos u don rehearse the lines one after the other...abeg all my upcoming brodas no listen to her oo. na her own she sabi...una go just dey receive more slaps from left and right anyhow.. no be all girls way be that..just be confident and nice..plus look smart and blv ur self after all na woman no big deal just be u



@Jessyj616's am not hating ur thread just doing my part for the menfolk

Mcsammy4u:
this slap una dey talk sef me no understand what will prompt a girl to slap you wen during your discussion you didn't touch her and you didn't insult her? is there any thing bad in admiring her or approaching her, abeg na if you no package well approach a girl wey all those trash fit happen...

runnazz:



Of course not literally just an expression for ego bashing,snubbing,hammering anyone u like u should understand

Jessyj616:
For an online chat
my suggestion? Be friendly, ask questions that their reply just cant be 'ok' or ' no' or 'yes' or 'kk'.. Read between the lines of things she seems more willing to talk about and topics she avoids.
Pls dont use interrogation style it results to her asking why do want to know?
'sorry i cant do that i barely know you' etc

if she is someone you had met before chatting online like the previous ones on novels, music, and school things or whatever it is you talked about when you first met. Well good for you at least you have got a safe ground to land on

Jessyj616:


you are to just be a friend at first without divulging any romantic interest.

Dont ask if she has a bf, when you do, she guesses your intention and will most likely tell you 'yes she does' or no then closes up on you as she begins to suspect you will ask her out next.

Focus on your own game, dont bring up the image of another guy in her mind by asking.

many say that to discourage the guy. Just smile and say you are not the jealous type or something and continue whilst giving her personal space.