pweetixandy:
sharap!

soleexx:



Picture of the Banker eyeing you or idntbeliveIT

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

She said, despite most of them being beautiful, their male customers always prefer and go after their cleaners, messengers and security personnel instead of the polished bankers.

She said that she has witnessed about 6 weddings of their cleaners who got married to their customers.

She was asking if men think they will be very expensive to maintain due to the way they dress.

After so much talk I didn't just know what to tell her.

Guys, Any opinion why this happens ?

deletrue:
You are my biggest brother for this truth. These bankers and similar other ladies are the ones will the concept of what a man can do, a woman can also do, even 100% better than man. Few day a go, someone posted a thread, advancing highly accurate and convincing reasons why men should not marry. I am a pensioner, with all my children grown up, but I completely agree with that man touching the truth. These ladies, especially today, are very desrespectful. Maybe, because they are opportuned to get job, they believe cleaners and thier likes are just empty humans. Who care? One can pick a clearner, polish her, even put her in part time schools, with time, such cleaners will become very nice looking but remain discipline and respectful.
These working class do not know the food prepared by your wife etc. is sweeter than the fast foods and well as the ones prepared by house girls. Tufiakwa with fast foods. Such foods are good for starters, and young men who lack the time because of their job nature and other reasons. Like your words, no apology. All you bankers and other working class ladies should learn to be loyal, humble and should not carry your shoulders above your heights. Nonsense etc.
Thanks.

DjAndroid:
We were chatting last night when My neighbour, a single female banker told me what they (single ladies ) are facing in her office.

kaima1984:
point of correction Mr,a woman must not look for who wil marry her rather a man must look for a woman t marry,get that into ur head

pweetixandy:
lol..I know. But I will still say,u copied me!!

humilitypays:
What majority of serious guys seek for in a lady they want to settle down with are: humility, availability and simplicity, not status or career, and unfortunately, many female bankers and some working class ladies lack those qualities cos ladies get easily carried away by little career achievement

Men who are ready to marry and have a stable source of income don't care what a lady does for a living...all they want is the things I mentioned above, ladies take note

kaima1984:
point of correction Mr,a woman must not look for who wil marry her rather a man must look for a woman t marry,get that into ur head

Kimmo:
Bloody unfair. But I don't suppose they'll be interested in the type of men who would go after a cleaner. I don't mean that as an insult, to either profession, but these are two different kinds of women.

tyconcepts:
Had 3years experience working with a bank and this story is so not the case....

Op I guess you work with Union bank, coz that's where you can find such occurrences

Odilafta:

Sorry,i'm a lady

Odilafta:

Sorry,i'm a lady

MadCow1:

Another arguement would be that some men just like 'esay-to-get' women than babes that would put them through loops and hurdles.

GodMode:


Women look for men to marry and vice versa..
Dey there dey wait 4 a man to locate. Better do what ladies do best == courtship behaviour.

chibwike:
Ok...ma'am...its gotten into my head...

Skii:
Dear all,

for a moment, let us put the attitudes of just a few female bankers aside.

what about the guys? shouldn't they take some responsibility for not raising their game enough?

rather than squirm at the sight (or actions) of some lady, i think guys should learn the art of taming, subtle taming of these seemingly untamed women. women are emotional, very, as i have come to understand and it may be that at the time whoever engaged them, they may have been under pressure hence their untoward "reaction".

I must confess, i am also in the process of learning how to deal with various types of women. the funny thing as i have found is that, once you are able to ride their initial forming or fronting attitude, they come running after you like bees chase honey!

you don't get out of life what you want, you get out of life who you are- Les Brown!

so the guy going after the cleaner in preference to the banker, that's fine, that's his choice, that's who he is.

if only the banker ladies will exercise some patience, their own guy will come and when he does, they should hope that he is man enough to teach them the manners they lack.

let's not even talk about money, again a man on top of his game will tame a lady he chooses whether or not she earns more than he does.

picture this scenario, an example someone gave in one of the replies

a lady banker snaps at the counter when you request to use her pen. rather than quiet down and retreat with tail in between legs, a gentle, friendly, subtle comment or compliment can do the trick "wow, you must be under pressure, take it easy", "even with that attitude, you are still gorgeous, what will you be like when you are smiling?"

tyor:


You're one of them....why discriminate? I know a number of cleaners at Zenith bank HQ that are quite OK. I remember an incidence where the cleaner gave loans (as much as N1m) to Staff member and it became an issue. The fact that u're wearing Balogun suit and driving a bank-auctioned honda civic doesnt make u better than the cleaner. Some of them are just not opportuned, they are smarter and richer.

You claim to be a banker and u're earning N120k monthly while the bank driver has a bus and earns N3,000 daily after work plus his bank salary of N45,000, who is better? u[/b]

pro01:

I find this to be true in many cases. Let's face it, many guys now realise that, at the end of the day, the trouble they go through to conquer one overpriced, 'hard-to-get' piece of meat is seldom worth it. It's not that the supposedly hard-to-get girls ultimately provide more sexual, emotional, romantic (and any other kind of) satisfaction than the 'easy' ones. In any case, 'hard-to-get' is often an act; a game of pretence and affectation. Sensible guys wouldn't waste time on such nonsense.

A girl of genuine virtue and substance is naturally hard-to-get, and that is the only sort that a serious man can attempt to pursue with vigour and persistence. Not one fake, phoney-accented thing with an exaggerated opinion of herself.

A girl of Genuine what is hard ta get?! FHUCK NO!!

Who wrote that darn rule?


A girls virtue is not in how difficult it is to get her.. I have met Ashawos wey dey form hard to get too..

Kimmo:
Bloody unfair. But I don't suppose they'll be interested in the type of men who would go after a cleaner. I don't mean that as an insult, to either profession, but these are two different kinds of women.

FLYGERIAN91:
I was there and caught her on camera for him..... Oya see....

ERCROSS:


Thankz bae...
U r such a darling...

UcLloyd:




U knew and still disturb him! U must be a SINGLE FEMALE BANKER, sorry to burst ur bubble nneh, nairaland gat CLEANERS too

kaima1984:
good,u are a fast learner,have urself a nice day dearie

Kimmo:


*sigh* Look, men and women have certain standards. The kind of man who would willingly choose a cleaner, thinks of himself as being happy with her choice of work/person. There are certain jobs people choose because of a lack of choice. The average university graduate in Nigeria would go for teaching rather than cleaning, for instance.
There's no way to equate a cleaner with a banker, unless the person cleans Jonathan's room in Aso rock or runs a professional cleaning outfit.

ibiso1986:
Female doctors are the worse, they are ego driven and hardly date outside their profession