whatever90:

I'm inlove wt my self respect,I'm inlove wt my pride,I'm  inlove wt my man,but i am not stupidly and blindly inlove wt a loser

_{apologies hotness}

hehehehe

no mata w0t. . . both of 'em shuld take thinz eazy!!!

chika98:

Last time i checked they aint married yet.

So what?? This is Europe. . . . . .Forget all those conventional rules of dating.

whatever90:

I'm inlove wt my self respect,I'm inlove wt my pride,I'm  inlove wt my man,but i am not stupidly and blindly inlove wt a loser


_{apologies hotness}

A lot of people ended up marrying by moving together at first. . . . . .
The only snag is. . . . . .They must endeavour to get married as soon as possible.
Long courtship is a bitch.

chika98:

Not always true.

but its almost always true.

Sisi Jinx:

@ Topic
Seems to mr the guy wants a flatmate to share the bills. Tell her to tell him to put out an ad in the papers. . . I hear it's not expensive.

Gosh I heard that things werent easy in the UK but I didnt know it has gotten THIS bad. Rofl  

@chika98. You should have hope of the fellow settling down with you but you musn't disclose it to him until you know if he truly want's to settle with you. If you have no hope of settling down with a guy like you said, why would you date him?

I see both parties breezing in a fast lane, balling out of proportion!

In most cases, it always end up in a crash and it could be a very nasty one!

KarmaMod:

Gosh I heard that things werent easy in the UK but I didnt know it has gotten THIS bad. Rofl  

Come what is your own with the UK sef naw?!

Karma sho ara eee oo

KarmaMod:

Gosh I heard that things werent easy in the UK but I didnt know it has gotten THIS bad. Rofl  

Hahahaha! Do you think this is why Hanni is defending this move soooo. . . . gbim gbimly

DavidDylan:

but its almost always true.

Only for a while. U really think men go breaking a good womans heart go scott free? Please! Karma is a B.

~Sauron~:

So what?? This is Europe. . . . . .Forget all those conventional rules of dating.

So because we dey ala bekee we suppose lose our morals shey?

crazykid:

@chika98. You should have hope of the fellow settling down with you but you musn't disclose it to him until you know if he truly want's to settle with you. If you have no hope of settling down with a guy like you said, why would you date him?

Please sometimes you gotta set the ground rules as to what you expect or want. It is the other way around in the case. A man should be the one begging a woman to settle down with him not the woman.

~Sauron~:

A lot of people ended up marrying by moving together at first. . . . . .
The only snag is. . . . . .They must endeavour to get married as soon as possible.
Long courtship is a bitch.

moving togeda is not d right thing,neither does it guarantee marriage,common make d guy miss u and crave for u a little,that will even make him come  out quick for marriage,u don't expect a guy that stays in d same house wt a woman to be in a hurry 2 get married,it is very rare,infact no decent man will want his girfriend to move in wt him,when he has not even said "will u marry me" christ

staying apart does not mean they have to court for long,i don't even dig d long courtship thing,but most times this courtships r long and drags itself to 7 years wtout  a "will u marry me" popping out,all because d babe is a live in lover

my daughter dare not try that shit else i will circumcise her instanta

what part of the world is your friend from, there's new girls that guys like they are called miss independent how you fund your clothes and home remains mystery to them and it shows your future partner how responsible you can be plus if she move in she'll expose all her weakness in no time and he'll not tolerate her because if they are married he'll stay for better for worse but since they are single he'll not tolerate her, guys want you to move in with them because its free love making whenever they want, you dont know? or you think they are bored or scared of something and they cant live alone? he'll not miss you and when you get married nothing will change

whatever90:

moving togeda is not d right thing,neither does it guarantee marriage,common make d guy miss u and crave for u a little,that will even make him come  out quick for marriage,u don't expect a guy that stays in d same house wt a woman to be in a hurry 2 get married,it is very rare,infact no decent man will want his girfriend to move in wt him,when he has not even said "will u marry me" christ
staying apart does not mean they have to court for long,i don't even dig d long courtship thing,but most times this courtships r long and drags itself to 7 years wtout  a "will u marry me" popping out,all because d babe is a live in lover

my daughters dare not try that shit else i will circumcise her instanta

Very true that

Holy smokes! Whiteroses has come to derail me o . . .

Sometimes living together before marriage causes one or both partners
to question whether they want to go ahead with their wedding (i.e if der's a plan for it).
Incompatibilities may surface or worsen when encountered on a daily basis.
One disadvantage of cohabitation is waste of time.This is because
cohabitation is just a test. Since all partners suffer from some incompatibility,
when the other partner "fails" the test, the person moves on to the next partner.
Be wise . . . Lest you supply free milk to a smart guy!!

KarmaMod:

Gosh I heard that things werent easy in the UK but I didnt know it has gotten THIS bad. Rofl  

It's bad for some people oh, I remember one gay guy's flat I wanted to rent, the guy is now offering meals as part of the deal to rent out the room at all costs  

The girl should be straight up - why can't people be direct and not play games? Unnecessary confusion introduced into otherwise simple relationships.  

whiteroses:

what part of the world is your friend from, there's new girls that guys like they are called miss independent how you fund your clothes and home remains mystery to them and it shows your future partner how responsible you can be plus if she move in she'll expose all her weakness in no time and he'll not tolerate her because if they are married he'll stay for better for worse but since they are single he'll not tolerate her, guys want you to move in with them because its free love making whenever they want, you don't know? or you think they are bored or scared of something and they can't live alone? he'll not miss you and when you get married nothing will change

Are you Tope's twin sister?!

MrCrackles:

Are you Tope's twin sister?!

I see that

MrCrackles:

Are you Tope's twin sister?!

Excuse me, vamoose from this thread. This chic is mine. 

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comes. . .i must admit i dont do d whole hopin for marriage thing as i dont think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kinda think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

smurf:

I see that

_{me and u are hanging in the balance naw oo but let us not derail this thread!}

living in sin

DavidDylan:

Excuse me, vamoose from this thread. This one is mine.  

Oga relax now, u no see say smurf sef no wan leave me for a second

Shez hot on my heels, trying to keep me in check!!

HR.hotness:

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comesi must admit i don't do d whole hopin for marriage thing as i don't think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kind of think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

Same here for me ooo

Sisi Jinx:

Hahahaha! Do you think this is why Hanni is defending this move soooo. . . . gbim gbimly

It comes with a huge disadvantage. . . . . .Only commited guys actually give babes such opportunities.

whatever90:

moving togeda is not d right thing,neither does it guarantee marriage,common make d guy miss u and crave for u a little,that will even make him come  out quick for marriage,u don't expect a guy that stays in d same house wt a woman to be in a hurry 2 get married,it is very rare,infact no decent man will want his girfriend to move in wt him,when he has not even said "will u marry me" christ

It is necessary in the current economic recession.
2 bills coming together as ONE. . . . . People should get SMART.

staying apart does not mean they have to court for long,i don't even dig d long courtship thing,but most times this courtships r long and drags itself to 7 years wtout  a "will u marry me" popping out,all because d babe is a live in lover

What difference does it make? Live-in lovers or when she comes to hang out during the weekend.
It is still the same thang to me.

my daughter dare not try that shit else [b]i will circumcise her instant[/b]a

No comment.

HR.hotness:

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comesi must admit i don't do d whole hopin for marriage thing as i don't think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kind of think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

i think u're not being 100% honest with urself when i hear ladies make statements such as this. Really? What does it mean to not be the marrying kind?
What do marrying kinds look like?

JJYOU:

living in sin

Are you a reverend father?!

debosky:

It's bad for some people oh, I remember one gay guy's flat I wanted to rent, the guy is now offering meals as part of the deal to rent out the room at all costs  

The girl should be straight up - why can't people be direct and not play games? Unnecessary confusion introduced into otherwise simple relationships.  

No Debo the meals will be in return for something else LOL

@Topic how superficial can you get moving in together because theres a credit crunch!

Everyone needs to calm down its not that bad yet!
The people feeling the squeeze now are those who have lost jobs shares and homes!
The rest of us can only complain about the rising food and bill costs!
Everyones going overboard!

We still need to spend to keep people in jobs and to keep the system going!

Its a very bad idea to live with someone you have no plan of marrying!

@Topic  interestinq

CrazyKID?  Emeka Longest Time  

HR.hotness:

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comesi must admit i don't do d whole hopin for marriage thing as i don't think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kind of think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

Sorry those don't mean jack until they say I do infront of friends and family.

HR.hotness:

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

[b]personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comesi must admit i don't do d whole hopin for marriage thing [/b]as i don't think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kind of think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

Thats excatly how it should be
No expectation or anything

~Sauron~:


It is necessary in the current economic recession.
2 bills coming together as ONE. . . . . People should get SMART.

ok is it so bad for u too?no money abi?this one u r supporting this,ok,well real men i mean real men don't go about depending on women to pay their house rents.they should try cover their heads in shame

~Sauron~:


What difference does it make? Live-in lovers or when she comes to hang out during the weekend.
It is still the same thang to me.

weekend stuff is manageable,and it shouldnt even be done all d time,it should be once in a while,its far better than living togeda,every single day,that man has no shame

@ Whiterose,

she is british born nigerian. . . with very nigerian parents!

b.t.w why r u distracting NL boys with cleavage?  



@ David

this isnt about me

HR.hotness:

u guys r on fire tonight oh!

i think i'd just send her d link so she can read for herself.

personaly tho when i go into a relationship, i am takin everyday as it comesi must admit i don't do d whole hopin for marriage thing as i don't think i am d marrying kind. if it comes then good, if not even better. . .

true, if she is hoping for marriage then mayb moving with him isnt such a good idea, but i kind of think the guy is making a real committment by askin this. . .  he has introduced her to his folks and everything plus he is also discussing long term plans with her, which is a good sign innit?  

They say'' Talk is Cheap''!!!
How much will it cost to push his interests further??
Can't he start wedding plans?? Or Isn't he the marrying kind??