yuncka:


Exactly, if it was a car would he mind where its coming from?

You could try to find out.

He doesn't like u

thorpido:
Even if it was a handkerchief,he should have kept it and even if he wouldn't use it,he could give it out later.
You dldn't tell him you bought it,you told him it was a gift from a marriage ceremony.
I hope it was a one-off thing,if not,I would have told you to keep him out forever just as he walked out on you.

You are dealing with a guy who has an attitude.

Dude you aint serious,she gave him a mere shirt from a ceremony,and she mumuly called that crap a gift,abeg the mumu girl should at least spend money her so called love

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

Haba that's harsh! I see nothing wrong with it. Who told you the shirt is cheap, not all ceremony gives out cheap things you know. For her to give it to him means a lot. Its a. Gift!!. She should have either rejected the shirt or given it out to someone, but she thought of her boyfriend and that's something.

Lmao!!! Dont mind me o. Its just kinda funny....and rude. There's nuthn there o. Afterall he doesnt expect u to wear the shirt. But chill, was it his birthday? It if was, then its wrong. If it wasnt, there's nuthn there. Its his pride or sumthn. Pele

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

ritababe:



i buy gift for him all the time


if i dont give him the shirt who should i give?

Wear it @Hme.....

Babe you be mumu,stingy idiot,pls spend money on the special guy u call your lover

Babe you be mumu,stingy idiot,pls spend money on the special guy u call your lover,you will nt die

ritababe:
He asked me if i bought the shirt for him and i told him no, that its a gift from marriage ceremony.

The next thing, he took them and walked to waste basket and dispose them there.

I asked him why he did that, but without saying anything, he quietly walked out on me and closed the door.

I don't understand. Is it a sin to give your boyfriend something they gave you in a ceremony?

go to 3rd mainland bridge, den jump into d water or go get Potassium Cyanide and consume it orally.

The OP is not serious

If she were, the first thing she would have done would be to persistently ask her BF why he threw the shirt away and then plan a course of action depending on his answer.

Communication is key. Nobody commenting here knows what happens in your house. First step should always be to try to communicate before coming to Nairaland to sound the opinions of the mob

MAYB HE NEEDS THE ONE U BOUGHT WITH UR MONEY

Nonsense...... le him go jare

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

Na wa! He must be too egocentric for my liking.

Except there is another prior reasons for his actions i think he went too far.

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yuncka:


Exactly, if it was a car would he mind where its coming from?

This analogy is soo wrong and unfair.

Your boyfriend is egotistical. Which can be bad! I'll advice you take a decision.

The dude is a proud oaf

ChubbyT:

N u're happy Remember say u go born pikin.

He would deliver boys only n pass on d mantle

Hmmmm

No matter what mood he was in, he had no right to do that! And she was there sef. He could hav smiled and said thanks. And after leavin, he coulda given sumone else. And if the poor girl has no one else to tell nko? Nairaland is obvioysly the best place to get different opinions. I dont see anything wrong in what she did o. The guy is just an a*s.

oracle009:
na wa o chai, OP don suffer I see some DISNEY world advises here nd I wonder aw old d posters are. @OP, i'm sure u r nt tellin d real story... Ladies cn b so insensitive at times to guy's mood or wateva he's goin tru... For ur guy to bhave like dat, i tink der r underlying issues nd nairaland shldnt b ur first point of call (it shows d kinda lady u are). Av u cald d guy nd rily demand (respectingly) to knw y he did dat? He might b 'touching' at d moment... Well, na ur issue. U see those guys here telin u to dump his ass, dey will b d one to boo u wen u r stranded (my 1 Cent)

D economic situation here does not warrant any lovey dovey. U no deh read news sai igboro us not smiling?

Rent don almost due u deh talk t shirt?gift?id I wooze u ehn

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

Guy u tekidem na haba?..judge her motives..som cld mean well bt jst tht they ar naive.i take it there must be somtin alredy dt made tht guy pissed. For me, it wasnt the shirt at most.if the relation was solid on its own, little tin as a mere shirt from a ceremony cld easy rest on a joke and its settled. Like "na me u de give shirt from party abi?..c ur face like cheap stuff" lol.

When a relationship has gone sour, even "gifts" can mk it worse. Seek pro help_ or better yet end it while u still got ur respect intact.

See as gals they rant they try claim levels here....Most of them here are like lambs were their guys are....mTchwwww!!!!Obviously,they all want to sound mature and ish....When in actual sense most of them here would just sit home and sulk........How can you give a guy BURIAL abi Wedding T'shirt...Haba!!!....If I buy Opener give you nko??.....Haba!!Be considerate...#Peace

u need to respect man ego my sister.

I did the same to my wife also.....'there was an anniversary in our church,my house is close to the church and they came to arrange their food in our house.my wife and other women decided to take one place each home for their husbands. during the anniversary in the church I did not each cos I dnt like eating outside,so when I got home,I met the rice at home,i knew its part of the anniversary food,so I called my wife that im hungry and I have to eat, she told me to eat the rice at home. I was furious and went to buy food at eatery.

That's man

Why you no pack rice for nylon come give am since you wanna treat him like he's not deserving of some respect. You should have just SHOWN him the souvenir and not GIVE it to him as a gift.
Let him be the one to decide if he's gonna take it or not.
Some of us are superstitious of gifts from ceremonies, maybe he's one of these said people.
That said he shouldn't have acted the way he did by binning the package and then walking out on you. That's just disrespectful.
At least he should have explained the reasons behind his actions to you so that you'd have a better understanding of how next to deal with him.
Lastly for you to have posted this and looking for some 'help' shows you love him, so don't let this mess up your relationship. These and many are the kind of things you must overcome and overlook to have a successsful relationsship.

He doesn't love you baby come to me I will take care of you

ritababe:



i buy gift for him all the time


if i dont give him the shirt who should i give?

you cheap sha, why did u not give your broda, or throw it away, your guy obviously has class and you should be glad

#mycharitycomment.

Allureoftheseas:
you have no respect for a man's ego. so downgrading. giving your man a cheap shirt from a mere ceremony. you coudlnt even say it was a gift instead you just went agead to break it down to him that it was from a mere ceremony. if you wanted to give him something why didnt you go to a boutique and buy a nice shirt and give that to him? Girls so annoying. that is why i play them like football and score as many goals that i am able to.

you av a point..that was classless of her but that is no excuse for d guy behaving like a woman I mean that behaviour is so effeminate. the guy has attitude and is immatured. Pls call a spade a spade. there are better ways to show your displeasure to someone.

missberrypop5:
well, maybe he thinks you gave him something you "rejected". He can't see why you wouldn't keep the gift for yourself or something.

Exactly what happened. Why would you give him something you rejected and expect him to sweep you off your feet with pecks? I would do the same if any gal tries to turn me to their waste bin. Lobish

hey rita. Here you bring our private issue to The public.

Hi everyone i am her boy friend. I walk out on her because she think i am that cheap.

And for you rita. now i finally dumped you.

Vex