thew lady says to herself, ooo thank God I have gotten some1 who will make me hapi nd I give birth to kids, oboy d man will b like wat d hell have I put myself to anyways therez god ooo

FrancisTony:
Hmm! That's a lie. Don't generalise.

We are not marriage freak.

But, I'm lesbian sha.

I thought as much wen u were in support of wat those anambra lesbians did in your other post. When u av plenty guys around u that can satisfy u #14 years plenty o

@op

I cannot categorically tell u one now

Courtesy
My Oga@ the top

princdebola201:
To me Ladies with future Ambitions will rather pursue their success before thinking about Marriage...While some Ladies see it as an Avenue to Cut Short their suffering so that the Husband take over she and her Family Burden..

Gbam. You said it all.

Bunsky:
When did you turn female?

I was genderless before, biko.

bkos i cant marry a lady above 25years of age

ammyluv2002:
Every lady want to get married and settle down . Ladies see marriage as a place of rest, a place where you don't get to worry about your house rent. They see marriage as the right thing to do especially when she's of age.

Guys, on the other hand are scared of commitment. They feel caged and some run away from spending. I'm sure if not because of parents most guys won't get married, they would prefer having kids from different women in that way they feel free and not caged.

ya, well said

Yoruba people say, "ale obirin ko ki n pe su."

ammyluv2002:
Every lady want to get married and settle down . Ladies see marriage as a place of rest, a place where you don't get to worry about your house rent. They see marriage as the right thing to do especially when she's of age.

Guys, on the other hand are scared of commitment. They feel caged and some run away from spending. I'm sure if not because of parents most guys won't get married, they would prefer having kids from different women in that way they feel free and not caged.

The feelings of being caged will happen when one is with the wrong partner. There's always someone out there who will bring out the best in you and you won't be scared to let the child in you roam freely in her presence while the world looks to you as if your heart is made of stone. I'm more scared of ending up with the wrong woman and will chose a solitary life with books, good music,community service and visiting the motherless homes. Things have come to place premium on are peace and serenity of mind dotted with privacy and freedom to always give the best of me to existence. It is crazy when a woman loves you dangerously and makes it expressly clear to you that she wants all of you. You practically have to live a lie to accommodate such selfish interest. Have tasted what it means to be owned and then live freely and can write a book on both. I'm imperfect and understands it takes sacrifice,compromise and patience to make a union of two different beings to be magical. I only wish to do that with maimi water.

I guess it's because ladies want to settle down with a man that can love and take care of them, especially as their Biological clocks tick fast.

ammyluv2002:
Every lady want to get married and settle down . Ladies see marriage as a place of rest, a place where you don't get to worry about your house rent. They see marriage as the right thing to do especially when she's of age.

Guys, on the other hand are scared of commitment. They feel caged and some run away from spending. I'm sure if not because of parents most guys won't get married, they would prefer having kids from different women in that way they feel free and not caged.

really



why the generalization?


SPEAK FOR YOURSELF PLEASE!

ammyluv2002:
Every lady want to get married and
settle down . Ladies see marriage as a place of rest, a place where you
don't get to worry about your house rent. They see marriage as the right
thing to do especially when she's of age.

Guys, on the other hand are scared of commitment. They feel caged and
some run away from spending. I'm sure if not because of parents most
guys won't get married, they would prefer having kids from different
women in that way they feel free and not caged.

this gal don gather experience plenty. i c u r writing 4rm experience.

joywendy:


really



why the generalization?


SPEAK FOR YOURSELF PLEASE!

Truth is bitter init?

duduhemit36:
bkos i cant marry a lady above 25years of age

You forgot that's very easy to get a police report and get an affidavit with reduced age.

Who foots the bills? that the reason why.

We got make enough to foot the bills

FrancisTony:
Hmm! That's a lie. Don't generalise.

We are not marriage freak.

But, I'm lesbian sha.

am also a lesbian,lets do it na add me on facebuk Caleb sylvanus or 2go @ calebosko

joywendy:


really



why the generalization?


SPEAK FOR YOURSELF PLEASE!

that's d prob with some girls, they will nvr ADMIT their feature and character. The same way a girl will debunk d fact that she is EMOTIONALLY FRAGILE. U ll c them xaying me ah'm emotionally strong o buh still, u can still c some traits of being emotionally fragile in dem.
@JOYWENDY y nt accept who u r.

Only last week here, I attended a close friend's wedding, I was discussing with the guys younger brother, and he was like "O' boy" it is not easy organising an event like wedding, that the brother is going true hell, @ as last week, he withdrawn almost all his last savings in his account, just because of the wedding. And on that faithful day i.e. Wedding, I discovered the bride was the happiest, the groom was just like sad kind of, I go to know frm the grooms younger brother that, the brother borrowed lots of money for the wedding to go as scheduled.

Similarly, some ladies I have interviewed some time back, we keep telling me, that " I sit down jeje Jeje, my own, na him come ask for my hand" in essence, the guy should bring the money.l..lol

Huffington:
Truth is bitter init?

but

she generalized!!

if she said some or most it would have made more sense. than saying all ladies hence making her statement very wrong

In my own opinion, ladies that are very ambitious fall victims of such because, if a lady is looking forward to making more money than a man, she would definitely look down on the man.. I can imagine myself marrying a woman that is richer than me and then she would disrespect me because of money

princdebola201:
..My observation shows that ladies show
more interest in getting to the altar than the
guys and some ladies literally drag their guys
through manipulation,seduction,appeal to his
ego etc
Have you ever wondered why the bride keeps
beeming throughout the wedding while the
groom keeps pondering on what brought him
there and what the heck he's doing?Let's hear
your views.

is because the happiest people on earth are married women and single men. Beep

kennygee:
Not these days o.

Nowadays, women want to do well for themselves.

After that, they can consider marriage.

There are even ladies out there who prefer to just have kids and remain single mums.

Lol @ lastparagraph, those Ladies have strong spirit husbands already.

DukeNija:


Lol @ lastparagraph, those Ladies have strong spirit husbands already.

ROTFL.

Cos unlyk men, women tend to have an "expiring date"

Blayze007:
Age, social status, "All my friends are married except me" syndrome, Parents nagging etc..



BTW..some guyz dance more dan d babes tho...almost as if they hit jackpot..

Yes o! Some dance and shine teeth more than the babes...

As per topic, well some men are after it too, me for example, he has been on me for donkey years now till I come gree

Emodeee:


that's d prob with some girls, they will nvr ADMIT their feature and character. The same way a girl will debunk d fact that she is EMOTIONALLY FRAGILE. U ll c them xaying me ah'm emotionally strong o buh still, u can still c some traits of being emotionally fragile in dem.
@JOYWENDY y nt accept who u r.

pls will you put a sock in it?

If that is how you are then you can accept it.

i never said that she was wrong what she did wrong was generalize!

how will you feel if i say all guys sleep around?

Won't you be one of the first to point fingers at me?

i have said this before and i will repeat myself
the fact that majority of those in a particular sex behave,think and act in a particular kinda way doesnt mean that every single person in that particular group will act in that manner.

we should stop all this useless sterotypes! people are different!

DukeNija:


Lol @ lastparagraph, those Ladies have strong spirit husbands already.

Falls off tree
O my,cant stop laughing

Ladies re more viable in some age &. once they begin to exceed that age, panic & desperation set in.
They also ve menopause ....

The biological clock is ticking, and when it comes to marriage, society isn't kind to women.

princdebola201:
..My observation shows that ladies show
more interest in getting to the altar than the
guys and some ladies literally drag their guys
through manipulation,seduction,appeal to his
ego etc
Have you ever wondered why the bride keeps
beeming throughout the wedding while the
groom keeps pondering on what brought him
there and what the heck he's doing?Let's hear
your views.

actually, some guys dey reason how to clear the remaining debt and keeping eyes on the spraying

cdamsel:
Falls off tree
O my,cant stop laughing

FrancisTony:
Hmm! That's a lie. Don't generalise.

We are not marriage freak.

But, I'm lesbian sha.

whatz dis 1 sayin