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Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:16pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
At the beginging I think it should be rationed from both sides especially from the guy. To give room for more focus to be on getting to know if you both are right for each other. Once it is ascertained that both of you are on the same emotional page, and really love not lust or infatuation is what you both share with each other then can it flow freely. There is nothing appualing than given freely your love to someone who is not on the same page with you ... Emotionally and otherwise. Its like pouring water on a rock. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by 100Cents: 11:17pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Matthewbriggs: Lol. His aspiring partner. Point of correction.. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Matthewbriggs(m): 11:20pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
100Cents: Oh I see ... No wonder the imbalance. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 11:24pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Urine: |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by 100Cents: 11:24pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
AreaFada2: I have experienced your assertion. One lady that has been crushing on me for 3 good years, I come open up this year tell am say I love am. After few months, her reaction come be like so this guy is even reachable come begin form nonsense for me. I have bone again. I know what she had been feeling is real but her fakeness won't allow her from deceiving herself. In such case, rationing is okay.. 1 Like |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by 100Cents: 11:28pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
ilori1930: Ask for her phone number... |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by bovamm(f): 11:34pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
While testing the waters, it is advisable to hold back. And when certain, go all in. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 11:35pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Urine:..let me let u know something that will efficiently help u...u guys dont really know what dat word LOVE truly means..when u claim to love a girl,u must care about her always,call her always,be a gud listener and hav a strong understanding owards her...look,hiding nd reserving your lov for a lady in d name of being excessive is worthless and futile u knw....frm wat av seen so far,dis reservasion of a stuff u guys do gets d relationship blind...do u really knw ow many loving relationships it has destroyed? See eh,trying to protect your ego is useless when it comes to true love,except u were toying wif de whole issue..however,true love doesnt deal wif egomaniacs...if not,u wouldnt have any to testify of dats if u had eva seen any strong one..also,dis ego u guys re protectin makes d gal to finally feel u dnt really care abou her,and she will take u as an unserious jerk...she will rather end up leaving you for another,den she inally gives her heart away to someone else who has been longing to express his love towards her..so,listen gud,neva try to be reserve wif d gal u love,it will lead to nofin but heart break to d both partners...all she needs is a convincing and understndin person who knws her flaws and is ready to tolerate it 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 11:40pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
AreaFada2:my dear,let me tell u somfn,if she takes ur love for granted,den she neva did love u...jux knw dat...d more care nd understanding u show,the more farther nd healthy the love grows..be noted! 1 Like |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by chronique(m): 11:50pm On Dec 14, 2014 |
Relationships are getting more difficult and confusing because everyone seems to be setting news rules which end up choking both partners and at the end,they both go their separate ways,tp avoid being choked to death. What happened to the idea of loving openly,freely and genuinely? I easily get tired of people once they start setting unnecessary boundaries. If you love someone,show it;it's not a sign of weakness. If I love someone,I show it completely;no time for unnecessary forming. It gives headache and extra work. MizMyColi: |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by ilori1930(m): 12:05am On Dec 15, 2014 |
EstarKeys strongly advocating for 100per cent expression of love... lol. But seriously, there has to be adequate rationing... speaking from experience ooo |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Truckpusher(m): 12:08am On Dec 15, 2014 |
MizMyColi:You don't need to over flog this issue.Once you're into someone ,no amount of pretence will hide your true feeling as they are usually exhibited unconsciously. The human nature is so dynamic that no matter how hard you try to rationalize your feelings for your partner body languages are involuntary tell tale signs that will always expose your true feeling towards them.Though we have to be careful too because body languages can be faked by smart people especially players. And unfortunately girls are easily carried away by body languages unless the ones that learnt through the bitter way. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 12:15am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:..u speaking from an experience of untrue love and lack of trust nd undertanding ma dear...if u both are truly in love wif eachoda,u dont even think to reserve ur love for a while...not atall! Only If u really love her from d depth of your heart,such falacy wont get into ur mind..love is patient,never fails,...it sacrifices..except ur playin her..am tokin frm experience too |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by ilori1930(m): 12:17am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Urine:thanks sire! |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by ilori1930(m): 12:27am On Dec 15, 2014 |
EstarKeys: that experience of untrue love is the more reason I have to ration my affection for any girl till I marry her. I can only be sure of the authenticity of my own feelings but she may be smartly playing with me. 1 Like |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 12:39am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:...hahahahaha..u see, no trust at all..hw do u now expect love to abidei? see uve been hiding behind ur fears of her playing you tooo....no wonder..lmao! Well,i grab..dats d point am hitting on,..ur scared she myt be playin u dats y ur trying to be reserve..dats NONSENSE! If u both re really sure u r truly in love,den no cause for alarm..its really insignificant tryin to ration ur waheva feelings..well,i nw undastnd wot u tyna say..ur really playin dis gurl..awwww! I pity her |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by ilori1930(m): 1:12am On Dec 15, 2014 |
EstarKeys:It is not hiding behind fears, its about using your head and not your heart. ur scared she myt be playin u dats y ur trying to be reserve..dats NONSENSE!Scared??... Hell no! It's mere application of wisdom. Only a fool will fall twice inside the same pit. If u both re really sure u r truly in love,den no cause for alarm..its really insignificant tryin to ration ur waheva feelings..What is the yardstick for being sure about how the other person feels? The only feeling you can be sure of is yours alone well,i nw undastnd wot u tyna say..ur really playin dis gurl..awwww! I pity herNo, you don't understand... and no need for the pity cos there isn't any girl at the moment. 2 Likes |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Truckpusher(m): 1:55am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie:How do you ration body languages that naturally betrays your feelings without you noticing? |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by segunotiti(m): 2:27am On Dec 15, 2014 |
two wrongs dont make a right. we try to hoard our feelings, they (females) should show Thiers to encourage us |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Nobody: 3:21am On Dec 15, 2014 |
This is where maturity sets in. A guy initiates a relationship and later "hoards" his feelings! I dont get that at all. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by REMMEI(m): 6:29am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Nairaland ladies are beautiful iswearigawd!... But why are loads of them preaching what they can't possibly practice?.. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Nobody: 6:30am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Okikiki:Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by Nobody: 6:34am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Pls if you love someone ,nothing should stop you from expressing it. I mean NOTHING! |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 7:28am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:...lmao! See u oo.."use ur head instead of heart?.lol..mayb fink love na JAMB...guy,chill,weda u get one or not,still stay pinned cos u neva knw ow ur tomao go be..stop declaring false notes here making pple get confused...lol..geee! Am nt a victim of dat...moreover,u mentioned wisdom,,,abi na wisdom u need...loll..u dont hve any atall..i doubt cos if u really do,we all will know...also,wisdom is gotten from up der not from dah ur head ok..woA! I now see y u dnt even knw ow to maintain ur stance..cos u no get one sef...well,as u said,its ur past experience dat av tot u all dis...lol...how ridiculous u can be...lollll |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 7:30am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:...lmao! See u oo.."use ur head instead of heart?.lol..mayb fink love na JAMB...guy,chill,weda u get one or not,still stay pinned cos u neva knw ow ur tomao go be..stop declaring false notes here making pple get confused...lol..geee! Am nt a victim of dat...moreover,u mentioned wisdom,,,abi na wisdom u need...loll..u dont hve any atall..i doubt cos if u really do,we all will know...also,wisdom is gotten from up der not from dah ur head ok..woA! I now see y u dnt even knw ow to maintain ur stance..cos u no get one sef...well,as u said,its ur past experience dat av tot u all dis...lol...how ridiculous u can be...loll |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 7:33am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:...lmao! See u oo.."use ur head instead of heart?.lol..mayb u fink love na JAMB...guy,chill,weda u get one or not,still stay pinned cos u neva knw ow ur tomao go be..stop declaring false notes here making pple get confused...lol..geee! Am nt a victim of dat...moreover,u mentioned wisdom,,,abi na wisdom u need...loll..u dont hve any atall..i doubt cos if u really do,we all will know...also,wisdom is gotten from up der not from dah ur head ok..woA! I now see y u dnt even knw ow to maintain ur stance..cos u no get one sef...well,as u said,its ur past experience dat av tot u all dis...lol...how ridiculous u can be...loll |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by ilori1930(m): 7:53am On Dec 15, 2014 |
EstarKeys: And you just have to be so vulgar with words... Since I don't have any wisdom at all, and you have plethora of it, will you teach me wisdom please? |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by STENON(f): 8:05am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Such Relationship will be boring. |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by iceberylin(m): 8:22am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Kachisbarbie: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner Cant you see Btw ask my mum i always come 1st 1 Like |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by iceberylin(m): 8:23am On Dec 15, 2014 |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by EstarKeys(f): 9:07am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:...lol..funy one! Wisdom is nt bein taught,its gotten frm above..mayb u can go up dr nd ask for one..lol....i can see ur really short of words....get bk to sleep |
Re: Should Ladies Also Ration Feelings Of Affection Towards Their Partner? by benebaby77: 9:41am On Dec 15, 2014 |
ilori1930:Is blowing a vocabulary makes one an intelligent person? English is just a language just like an Igbo, Hausa, Yoruba and other languages. So if I dey speak all those conky Yoruba, I don turn to intelligent one be that bah? Don't misconstrue vocabulary for intelligence........ Admit that you are crushing on her |
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