Adaobi12:
its takes different time frame for each individual to heal from a break up . but the paramount thing is setting things right before venturing into another. it doesn't matter how long it takes.

thanks zee, I learnt something vital from this thread

Classicalmusic:
Absolutely

So tell me, what do you love most about yourself? What's the weirdest thing you've ever done on a date?

2goodbobo:
In my single days, I was very lucky with ladies and relationships. I never had an off-peak or offline period.I always had the perfect option B ready to fill in the void of the main gurl.so once there is a disconnection,I reconnect with a new one sharply.

ipleddge:
There are so many reasons why it takes some people a while new partners,few list below
i.it takes some people a very long time to forget thier ex(no vacancy)
ii.some look for partners that are perfect,we all know perfection not possible but some are more perfect
ii.looking for the best,some people (like me) don't really want perfect partners but best partners

Will modify if I can still think of other reasons

Zeemoor:
That's a deep one

ipleddge:
Lol...how?

Zeemoor:
Women take too long to get over breakups because we don't jump into the arms of the next hottie that winks in our direction

Easy for you to say since you're a man
Men are naturally made of masculine energy
A man can get over an ex faster because it comes as second nature to him

Different strokes for different folks
Some serious guys I know don't see it this way
Having no time to waste on a lady doesn't make one serious
Knowing how messy some breakups can be, you'd have to wait for her to heal if you truly want her

Zeemoor:

By "Looking for the best, some people (like me) don't really want perfect partners but best partners", you mean you don't look out for a perfect specimen- a lady who has it all but someone who will be perfect for you, yes?

Tymax:

On the contrary, serious guys are logical. The last thing we need is someone who knows we are for real yet keeps us on hold because of some speculative practice- even though she knows that her "healing" will be swifter and and sweeter with us in her life. We don't have time to chase after a heart clinging on to self pity.

I am yet to meet a lady who has gotten over an ex (who dumped her) all by herself. There is always that desire to revenge tucked away in her mind. Don't you think you need a little help in the healing process? When an innocent, young and humble guy (like you know who ) comes along, you give him the cold shoulder. Why won't you let us help you forget the brute who shattered your heart?

Zeemoor:
Man, your kind is rare

Zeemoor:
My dear, I love everything (yes everything) about myself
Every bit of me is beautiful, inside out
~
I'm not conceited or something, I just love saying it as it is

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The weirdest thing I've done on a date?
I'm still thinking.....

Tymax:

So how we dey celebrate dis holiday? Shebi you're taking me out.

Classicalmusic:
That's really amazing.

Thinking about that is natural and okay.

Zeemoor:

Classicalmusic:
LOL, i guess here you're shy to talk about it, right? OK OK, Isn't it better if i PM you? Because i still got a few more questions to ask

You're a cool girl!!

Oahray:
^^ Lol! Some guys would never miss an opportunity to chyke babe. Na wa o

Zeemoor:
Smart guys don't run out of gas

Oahray:
that would be because they don't channel all their gas into chasing every skirt that floats across their path.

Zeemoor:
Chasing anything chaseable is allowed as long as they don't hit the brakes constantly or drive above speed limit
That way, they get to save on gas

Oahray:
can you imagine? So you don't want them hitting the brakes when they like, yet you want them to observe your speed limit. Lol.

Don't finish a guy's gas sha. Some are sincere.

Zeemoor:

You think I'm shy?
I'm too audacious to be shy
~
If you really want to PM for the 'few more questions', go ahead, it's a free world
You at least asked for permission before sending the PM, though indirectly

Zeemoor:
..

Zeemoor:
Bless you

Classicalmusic:
Gosh!! Hahahahahaha. Well, I've done that. Check if it went through, if not, you can PM me.

I'm feeling sleepy now. Stay cool and bye for now!

okparaugo:


Thanks love.

Zeemoor:
Sorry, I can't send PMs
Whatever question(s) you want to ask, you'll have to ask here

Classicalmusic:
It's okay. Never mind! I actually asked you to send me a PM if mine didn't go through. I don't think it's a big deal. I just did not want to make you feel a bit embarrassed with my questions.

Okay, you may go ahead and respond to my question and there would be no further questions anymore :-)

Though some guys feel somewhat awkward because I am talking with Miss World. I think it's totally bizarre. :-)

Neverthless, the key here is that we all should feel free and be open-minded always.

Did I ask for friendship? No. Did I ask if you're in a relationship or not? Certainly not. So I'm just being social and friendly with you. Nothing else.