With the increasing rate of divorce nowadays, it will soon become a norm for women to keep their surname. One less hassle after the divorce

Anyway depends on the couple......to each their own, don't judge others by your standards especially when u are not feeding them

What's all this fuse about a name? If you don't want the dude's name, then leave him for someone that wants him and his name, some fights aren't worth it.

babestell:
With the increasing rate of divorce nowadays, it will soon become a norm for women to keep their surname. One less hassle after the divorce

Anyway depends on the couple......to each their own, don't judge others by your standards especially when u are not feeding them

With the increasing rate of divorce, a time will come When guys won't need to waste millions of naira on weddings. Afterall the marriage can end anytime.

@ Cococandy

I guess Chimamanda is your role model. When you Got married few months ago,Why did you adopt your husband's name? Why did you not follow your role model s way of keeping her name? Why do you girls come to nairaland to show so much of toothless aggression.

Practice What you preach. Any mumu girl that listens to you toothless aggressors will be misguided.

iykedare:



Firstly, beyounce is more of a role model than Chimamanda. So you think it is anyone s prerogative to follow the western custom and you lots are the same people that are against African men who according to African tradition chose to marry more than one wife. You want African men to follow western culture of one man,one wife.

You feminists are clowns.

you are the clown, d biggest I've seen so far "Beyonce is more of a role model than Chimamanda"? Role model in what exactly? Every educated n intelligent person chooses what is best for them. They re nt following in the footsteps of either Beyonce or Chimamanda. So deciding to take up ur husband's name or continue with ur own name or the both depends on the individual, don't come n talk trash like 'are u better than Beyonce' give ur points if u have any, I'm sure u don't anyway.

charles316:
@ Cococandy

I guess Chimamanda is your role model. When you Got married few months ago,Why did you adopt your husband's name? Why did you not follow your role model s way of keeping her name? Why do you girls come to nairaland to show so much of toothless aggression.

Practice What you preach. Any mumu girl that listens to you toothless aggressors will be misguided.

You're the mumu who doesn't read to comprehend. Where did I tell anyone what to do?

My post simply questions those who thing Beyoncé is a better role model compared to chinamnanda.

Dafties everywhere.

I'm not a celebrity and ain't planning to be....

If i get married, i'll keep answering my surname. So?

byvan:
What's all this fuse about a name? If you don't want the dude's name, then leave him for someone that wants him and his name, some fights aren't worth it.

Same way they should leave us for guys that know what we want and doesn't care about any name we answer.

cococandy:

You're the mumu who doesn't read to comprehend. Where did I tell anyone what to do?
My post simply questions those who thing Beyoncé is a better role model compared to chinamnanda.
Dafties everywhere.

cococandy:

You're the mumu who doesn't read to comprehend. Where did I tell anyone what to do?

My post simply questions those who thing Beyoncé is a better role model compared to chinamnanda.

Dafties everywhere.

Your husband is the biggest mumu there is. Is this the way you badmouth the silly guy?

Foools everywhere

Depends on religion, preference and agreement.

cococandy:

Foools everywhere

Your husband is the fool.

Chimamanda? A role model? Smh..... A role model said gals are not supposed to close their legs, and that's what I call stupidity

bukatyne:
Depends on religion, preference and agreement.

religion? How?

lilmax:
religion? How?

Muslim women don't change their surnames

Its fast how this thread derailed

its not compulsory. i didnt change mine

charles316:


With the increasing rate of divorce, a time will come When guys won't need to waste millions of naira on weddings. Afterall the marriage can end anytime.

Even thohgh you made this reply in antagonism, I have to agree with you

Society and its norms as we know it will change drastically in the next 50 years. Very soon name changing and divorce won't be issues.

cococandy:


Nicki Minaj and Amber Rose are also role models.
Haven't you heard?

exactly, one can choose anybody to be his or her role model.. Whats the big deal, its a choice

cococandy:

Foools everywhere

lol obviously

For a typical NL guy its compulsory because thats all he can offer to his wife

lilmax:
Chimamanda? A role model? Smh..... A role model said gals are not supposed to close their legs, and that's what I call stupidity

Why cant you focus on your own legs and let others focus on theirs. or did they send you to stop minding your own business and focus on theirs?

how does the matter concern me?

will it give me some of the national cake and oil money you people are sharing?

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Mondisweets:
Why cant you focus on your own legs and let others focus on theirs. or did they send you to stop minding your own business and focus on theirs

i know you endorsed it,at least I'm saying the truth .....if you like give your daughter that kind of advice all in the name of equality

lilmax:
i know you endorsed it,at least I'm saying the truth .....if you like give your daughter that kind of advice all in the name of equality

Chimamanda got herself an American Doctor with that her "wide mouth" what do u have to offer?

Mondisweets:
Chimamanda got herself an American Doctor with that her "wide mouth" what do u have to offer?

what you and the stupid Chimamanda aka "wide mouth " don't have and wetin concern me with her husband? aka the "weakling "

lilmax:
what you and the stupid Chimamanda aka "wide mouth " don't have and wetin concern me with her husband? aka the "weakling "

You cant mention anything sensible... Exactly what i expected until you have something better to offer the world, why don't you sit down and close your wide mouth

Mondisweets:
You cant mention anything sensible... Exactly what i expected until you have something better to offer the world, why don't you sit down and close your wide mouth

and the one thing you have to offer is opening your legs, sit like boys because your god aka wide mouth told you to do so......or am I wrong?

If u can't bear a man's name then stay single. Its as simple as that. No be force but if hubby isn't bothered, fine and good. If he is no point causing wahala where des none.

so na men vs women 4 this thread
*watching in 5D*