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Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 3:07pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

This is one of the best comment I have ever read on nairaland.. Coming from a beautiful girl, it's amazing...

why won't it be the best comment
because its in your favour cheesy
she's right tho..
but im all for 'balance'
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
Well talk the reality my female girl friend calls me,guess wot? Here in ****** where i live guys don't call ladies,ladies do the calling.
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 3:12pm On Dec 29, 2014
Whosoever want to do the calling, no big deal
Guy, just chillax, if you don't like her doing the calling, tell her but really there is no big deal in her doing the calling since she actually prefers it.. She loves you.. 7 missed calls.. Waow, can you tell us what she said when she called back cheesy tongue
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 3:15pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:


why won't it be the best comment
because its in your favour cheesy
she's right tho..
but im all for 'balance'
How is it in my favour
Girl post ya pic.. I feel ya beauty.. Post it even if it is for a second wink cheesy
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Creamish(f): 3:28pm On Dec 29, 2014
MizMyColi:
Awwwwwmn
This is love and it's beautiful.
Most Nigerian Ladies I know flash or call as a means of placating the guy for his "numerous efforts"
This speaks about her nature, she's kind and mature.

If you're not cool with it --- which is perfectly understandable, you should call her attention to it.
Please be assertive, yet loving, very loving. This is important.

Balance is key, healthy balance.
All the best Alex.

My tots exactly. U prolly had financial issues b4 and she stepped in. Just explain to her that u can handle it now & how much it hurts ur pride as a guy and im pretty sure she'll cut back on the calls.

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Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Justbeingreal(m): 3:45pm On Dec 29, 2014
agrovick:
Op! I swear you are a comedian; while I'm in a running battle with a friend who will never call, you are busy killing yourself over someone who takes delight in calling u. Bros u are hungry, go and eat that should clear your head
na better hungry o, see wetin men de wish for
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 3:47pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

How is it in my favour
Girl post ya pic.. I feel ya beauty.. Post it even if it is for a second wink cheesy
but ayam not fine... sad
people will complain

starlingleanets:
Well talk the reality my female girl friend calls me,guess wot? Here in ****** where i live guys don't call ladies, ladies do the calling.
your female girl friend
do you have a male girlfriend beforetongue?
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

your female girl friend
do you have a male girlfriend beforetongue?
No.....
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 3:56pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

but ayam not fine... sad
people will complain

If they complain, how does that stop you from being great..
I see you as a strong girl so I don't believe that shitt you wrote up there..
Post ya pic or should I put darling undecided
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 4:05pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

If they complain, how does that stop you from being great..
I see you as a strong girl so I don't believe that shitt you wrote up there..
Post ya pic or should I put darling undecided
you sha wan change my mindsmileygrinundecided

okkk reload my profile page..
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 4:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

you sha wan change my mindsmileygrinundecided

okkk reload my profile page..
You are kidding me right..
Am on my knees, just post it
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 4:14pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

You are kidding me right..
Am on my knees, just post it
lol oyah reload
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 4:22pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

lol oyah reload
Waow... Waow.. Waow.. shocked shocked
You must be kidding when you said you ugly cos what i saw there says otherwise..

You are an epitome of beauty.. Thanks kiss wink

Dont remove it..
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 4:27pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

Waow... Waow.. Waow.. shocked shocked
You must be kidding when you said you ugly cos what i saw there says otherwise..

You are an epitome of beauty.. Thanks kiss wink

Dont remove it..
what if she's my sistertongue


thankssmiley
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 4:35pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

what if she's my sistertongue


thankssmiley
That is you!! Am very sure...
So stop lying tongue wink
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by DonaldGenes(m): 4:53pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

what exactly is this natural born right as men?
to stop calling after receiving the cookie


joke!!
For sheezy, but you gotta deal with that..It is how the world works...
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 5:07pm On Dec 29, 2014
DonaldGenes:

For sheezy, but you gotta deal with that..It is how the world works...
what exactly are you talking about

that men's natural born right is to stop calling after receiving the cookie what right n this one

I wanna know, maybe it will be another reason for me to hold the cookie smileygrin
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 5:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

That is you!! Am very sure...
So stop lying tongue wink
yeah.. that's me
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 5:16pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

yeah.. that's me
Let me guess, you have two brothers and a sister..
Well always be yourself and love me.. Oopss i mean love yourself.. wink cool
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 5:24pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

Let me guess, you have two brothers and a sister..
Well always be yourself and love me.. Oopss i mean love yourself.. wink cool
you guessed very right.. aside the sister part grin

lol yeah I will tongue

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Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 5:31pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

you guessed very right.. aside the sister part grin

lol yeah I will tongue
So u got no sister Nah, u got two sisters.. I don't see you as the only girl in the family type..
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by DonaldGenes(m): 5:46pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

what exactly are you talking about

that men's natural born right is to stop calling after receiving the cookie what right n this one

I wanna know, maybe it will be another reason for me to hold the cookie smileygrin

Look speaking of which, You don't need to hold on to your whatever cookies 'cos it's already being eaten and meant to be eaten whether you like it or not.

Now, Coming down to make you understand what I in fact mean is ,you girls are fond of frontingz while we're pursuing you ladies with Love and when we finally get eaten your cookie, it is natural for the love to simmer down and for men to change afterwards.
That prolly is when you girls will have to pursue us.It is Just the way it is quiver.
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:04pm On Dec 29, 2014
loswhite:
caring is not gender specific. Isn't it selfish for you to think that your man should care more?

No
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 6:08pm On Dec 29, 2014
DonaldGenes:


[s]Look speaking of which, You don't need to hold on to your whatever cookies 'cos it's already being eaten and meant to be eaten whether you like it or not.[/s]

Now, Coming down to make you understand what I in fact mean is ,you girls are fond of frontingz while we're pursuing you ladies with Love and when we finally get eaten your cookie, it is natural for the love to simmer down and for men to change afterwards.
That prolly is when you girls will have to pursue us.It is Just the way it is quiver.
@slashed, labbish my guy..!
this one na labbish!! except if the guy is in for sex only..

aside that, there's nothing natural about the love dying out...or the man changes.

but good for yougrin
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:15pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:


@op any one that is chanced at the particular time should call.. calling is not just one party duty.

This is where the problem lies. She does not allow me to call her, yesterday when i called her , she deliberately rejected the call, i didn't know it was on answering machine áΩ̶̣̣̥̇̊∂ my airtime was deducted, tho she called back immediately but i just want to be the one doing more of the calling.
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:18pm On Dec 29, 2014
Justbeingreal:
na better hungry o, see wetin men de wish for

Like seriously?
Ever heard of the word 'EGO' ?
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by youngds: 6:37pm On Dec 29, 2014
angry op@ marry dat girl
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by youngds: 6:39pm On Dec 29, 2014
agrovick:
Op! I swear you are a comedian; while I'm in a running battle with a friend who will never call, you are busy killing yourself over someone who takes delight in calling u. Bros u are hungry, go and eat that should clear your head

this guy got me laughing!! I've been dere to bro, it only gets beta
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by agrovick(m): 6:52pm On Dec 29, 2014
youngds:


this guy got me laughing!! I've been dere to bro, it only gets beta
I hope it does cos little things like this puts me off. I haven't chatted nor called her since then and she xef no send me. We are both forming baddo
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 7:10pm On Dec 29, 2014
alexdellafonte:


This is where the problem lies. She does not allow me to call her, yesterday when i called her , she deliberately rejected the call, i didn't know it was on answering machine áΩ̶̣̣̥̇̊∂ my airtime was deducted, tho she called back immediately but i just want to be the one doing more of the calling.
when she calls too. reject it! not once o.. atleast do it for a day.. if she asks why? ask her how she felt about it.. whatever her reply is(which probably will be, she felt bad) tell her that's exactly how you feel too whenever she does that .. let her know you won't pick her calls if she won't allow you to call her..

no matter how kind she might be, she should leave room for reciprocation.
ahh ahh
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by quivah(f): 7:12pm On Dec 29, 2014
Newkidoo:

So u got no sister Nah, u got two sisters.. I don't see you as the only girl in the family type..

I am tongue grin
Re: Who Should Do More Of The Calling In A Relationship by Newkidoo(m): 7:26pm On Dec 29, 2014
quivah:

I am tongue grin
Now, this is true..
I don't see well probably.. undecided

Let me take d bold step!! You must probably think am flirting chating with you.. Well I am..

Cheers!!!

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