wisdom, i dnt knw what opnion others have to share with you but i have this to say:
it could be that she said it as a result of what she hears from her friends who maybe 'runs' girls. however, watch her attitude closely so that you dnt marry a woman who would always create a scene in your house.
to your girl i have this to say; its better a man sleeps with you for free than pay you after sex. its an insult to your personality. it can be free but its not cheap.

unmask:
are you seriously trying to twist an obvious "gold digger" situation? Smh

Pray tell, how am I twisting it? I asked the OP to find out her true intentions. He needs to find out if she thinks her ass is all she will bring to the marriage.

Sure I did n my day has been splendid too.. Wat
Abt urz?

TrishaP:










Happy Sunday Sirs and Mas
I hope you all had a wonderful night

You prolly haven't been treating the girl right and she thinks she is used and as a result feels she mustn't lose anything so you got to pay her. Although the words was a reflex action, slip of tongue. Watch her closely, I bet she's not prostitute

Toktee:
Thank you sweetheart,you said it all,if the lady is nt afraid of you nw that you cn walk out of the relationship,what will happen when you finally say "i do"
WARNING....don't marry some1 out of pity.
A lady that will shout when you shout and even asked you to pay 4 sexx is a prostitute,run 4 ur life.

You said it all here.Never marry out of pity.

If she can do this now, Op is in danger if he finally settles with a lady like that. Is she is the marriageable type, no matter the state of the issue that made her mad, she should not have vomited such words. This goes to show who she is gonna be in the future.No marriage here. OP, take a walk because your future is not guaranteed.

Mtchewwww! I came here expecting to hear you say you saw your babe standing along allen avenue only for me to open the story and see that you and ur babe dey exchange words.

nil

andyanders:


You said it all here.Never marry out of pity.

If she can do this now, Op is in danger if he finally settles with a lady like that. Is she is the marriageable type, no matter the state of the issue that made her mad, she should not have vomited such words. This goes to show who she is gonna be in the future.No marriage here. OP, take a walk because your future is not guaranteed.

Hmm well I somewhat agree wit u o cos I can see u pecking truth

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Hmm op .... I think u need 2hv a round table convo with some peeps here
Cos me o.... "Smh" I cnt say much









.buh wait o. Hw com ya'll change my on This issue sef.. Infact I'm walking outta here
B4 som1'll make her lOok lyk a saint again

Do you know her family? Her Church? Her friends? If you do then no need to be afraid, if you don't know these after one year of dating, then you are on a long thing...lastly... Stop having sex until you marry...

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

wisdomguy4u:
I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute?

hmmmmm , this got me thinking, Have you been doing for free ? ? ? An un-freely-doingit-guy would fireback , You have to return the funds i used to buy you -------------------------- and the one i invested in your shop and the ones you've been giving your parents , then i'll pay you for all the sex

brito:




I'm a lady, she may be innocent.

]didn't say she is, "obviously this guys mind is no more in the relationship" love covers multitude of sins.. I don't see how I'll report what a girl I love did to me to hear advice from group of the crazies...(Nairaland) people.. No offence... But we are all crazy here...

The guy just dey find support to eem claim that she did wrong to justify himself..... Chikena

Make eem no go marry say na the girl kill am sef.. Mtchew.... So make eem no marry am.

tunspear:
]didn't say she is, "obviously this guys mind is no more in the relationship" love covers multitude of sins.. I don't see how I'll report what a girl I love did to me to hear advice from group of the crazies...(Nairaland) people.. No offence... But we are all crazy here...

The guy just dey find support to eem claim that she did wrong to justify himself..... Chikena

Make eem no go marry say na the girl kill am sef.. Mtchew.... So make eem no marry am.

He may be 18years old who's not ready for marriage

brito:







He may be 18years old who's not ready for marriage

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Lol... He could even be lower o..!!! See some underage for lag dey form "I'm dating... I wonder what this world is turning into"

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

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Bro dat relationship or marriage can never work to cut dey story short she is a prostitute it has happen to me...

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

All gfs are prostitutes cos you must surely pay them anyhow...so don't be surprised.

rosebase:
I wont advice u to marry her

so she should leave her and marry who?besides,who is not a pr0stitute nowadays?

abandon-ship and look for a humble girl

Bros run for ur life or Else !!!!!!!!! Bros run for ur life or Else !!!!!!!!!

wisdomguy4u:
I have been dating this girl for more than a year; and I intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in my house for a visit we had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at me, calling me name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise me. When things were stating to escalate, I angrily ask her the leave my house , because she was stating to create a scene in my neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled me and got me thinking. She said a lot of bad things to me , I never took any of them to heart because I knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got me thinking, have I been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of me wants to continue with the affair because I still love her and we have gone a long way, moreover, I have already introduce her to my family. But , another part of me don't want to continue because I feel like I don't know her and that she might have a dark secrets which might explode after marriage.
Guys what's your say in this scenario ?

I am asking you!








WHY DID YOU Bleep HER IN THE FIRST PLACE