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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 1:50pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
ok oooo but u know in our culture cheating men are a bit tolerated unlike their female counterparts,what do u think would hv happened be the op caught his SIL kissing another man even 10 years after 10 years of marriage to his brother? we aint oyinbo nah precisionindepth: |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 1:59pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
justmenoni:have u forgotten the "rule of thumb"? what is good for the goose,.....? 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by ogbonnayaoo: 2:20pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
i don't think there is anything wrong in what he did. its a normal thing with we men. so bros, free the man. allow him to do his thing 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by mekybabe1: 2:32pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Temptee101:. Don't tell your sister! Instead, call your inlaw and talk to him. Let him know how unhappy you are with his attitude. Do not tell any member of your family yet. Watch him for any changes first before you take the next step. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by tunde705(m): 2:46pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
radicalove:Na so chairman. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by GemB: 2:47pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Almost every man's got tendencies of cheating "even you." While some men are naturally dogs , others do for different reasons. You don't want to be the one coming between your sister and her husband. It might turn against you in the future if she truly loves him. I am not saying it's right but I am being realistic in advising you to suck it up(Swallow it) and act like it never happened. You mentioned your sister is pregnant. Apart from pregnant women being all grumpy most times, not every man enjoys making love to their pregnant wife every time plus not every man can stay so long without sex. You are probably not married so you might not understand my point of view very clearly. You might find yourself in the same situation in the future and just because you are lucky enough no one catches you wouldn't make you any better.. He respected you enough by leaving the club so be matured enough by not reporting to mummy and daddy hehehe or even your sister.. Let her catch him and decide and not you... 3 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by justmenoni: 2:53pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
so true bro,exactly my point... GemB: |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by humilitypays(m): 3:03pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
precisionindepth:lol, nobody is stopping women from sampling men and cheating like men na....its women that are stopping themselves because of their natural making. I am sure if I tell u to come so we can just be sex mates, nothing attached, u will scream, curse me and call me names, and this your reaction may be because u are dating or married to one guy somewhere sampling other prettier/hotter women. so its just nature not your fault. Women need to understand this and deal with it. if nature or biology wanted women to be sex freaks and explorers like men, it would have also made it possible for men to get pregnant. If a woman chooses to be sleeping around, na her body go tell her...lol |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by precisionindepth: 3:24pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
humilitypays:I like your point, let everybody continue whatever he/ she deem fit. at least nobody is gonna question anybody. like I said earlier I just hope we all stop putting extra burden on ourselves both male and female all just cos of sex. cheers. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by memechy(f): 3:43pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
tink u shld approach man nd let him knw wot he s doin s wrong rather dan goin to ur sister |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by memechy(f): 3:44pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
precisionindepth:tink u ar right my dear |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by cbrass(m): 3:54pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
humilitypays: So bottom line is. You cheat on your wife abi 2 Likes |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by cbrass(m): 4:02pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
keppyy: Don't let humilitypays becloud your good sense of reasoning with his unpopular hypothesis Yes I call it a guess cos it's unconfirmed that 95% of men are cheats .this is what most cheats say, my boss is one of them too. But we all know this is a lie, it just show high level of indiscipline and cowardice with this men that talk like this. Many do not understand the meaning of love cos if they do they won't even stare at another woman let alone cheat with her. Many confuse lust with love 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Ugom87(f): 4:56pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Tell ur sister she will not die,the earlier the better to avoid stories that touch. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by SenatorJames(m): 5:23pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Inform an elderly person that can handle the situation better, preferably not from either of the families to handle the situation without any hidden agenda. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by infonwose(m): 5:45pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Temptee101: i dont think u love ur sister.....d earlier u let dis issue out, d better for ur sisters life if u realy care |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
cbrass: HmmmmMmm...Are you married Because most married men on this thread seem to agree with him... In abuja, I've seen worse...Sometimes, it scares me... Goshhhhhhh... |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by loveulord321(f): 6:45pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Tell ur mum first!But tell her to be calm about it first!At least u wont be d only one in the 'know'.The keep close watch for d guy's next move!remember to hold your camera fone for clean evidence. u don't have to tell ur sis, she might abort n walk away from her home! Its well with your sis,her baby n her marriage. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by cbrass(m): 6:52pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
keppyy: No I am not married but that won't make me cheat on my future wife never!!. How many married men is on his side Some may not be married here so you can't just conclude like that |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Karleb(m): 7:03pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
cbrass: 1 Like
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Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
cbrass: Why are you so sure Have you ever been in a long term relationship |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by cbrass(m): 8:23pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
keppyy: Yes very sure. It's just simple and by this code I live: DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO TO YOU |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Toneyo(m): 8:43pm On Jan 25, 2015 |
Keep asking for an advice until he infects her with STDs and HIV, then you will have yourself to blame for not telling. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by tonquendo4u(m): 2:54am On Jan 26, 2015 |
E concern u?better leave dem before dem go carry u settle.they know demselves o.otherwise they won't b married |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Nobody: 3:08am On Jan 26, 2015 |
cbrass: Wow!!! That's really nice... Thank you... |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by temidunmomi(m): 5:21am On Jan 26, 2015 |
Omo relax ur self no go scatter ur sis house wit wetin ur eyes see @ d club. Just invite d guy to open place f2f u n him and ask him does he love ur sis If he said yes, advice him to be wit ur sis for the sack of d love he has for her. Preg or ur mum or fresh intro does not matter at all. Ur sis happiness is important in dat home, it must not spoil from ur hand. "Not all eye see, mouth must say". Wat if you tell ur sis or ur mum and d guy lied against u nko!!!!!!!!!. Omo u no see anything o o o gbagbe e e e |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Sharksblow(m): 7:01am On Jan 26, 2015 |
and u brought such a matter here? Tell your sister, high blood pressure is good for easy delivery of the baby. |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by cbrass(m): 12:58pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
keppyy: You welcome |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by DonTonero: 2:03pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
a candid advice to you.....please do not scatter that home just man up...do not tell your sis. if you can confront the man do and talk with him if you cannot just swallow it....atimes what we see as help or trying to be good may backfire...imagine your sis coming back to stay with you after this.one day they will make up and you will be the enemy.if the man is a chronic cheater he will be caught by your sis one day by herself...the will deny that if you tell your sis and they use you to settle just confront the man sha. 1 Like |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by GoodFaith: 6:28pm On Jan 26, 2015 |
GemB:To add to the above comments Dude need to talk to his sister husband Let him know that seeing him the way you saw him in public with other woman was a disrespectful Other people like your sister friends will see him and word will get back to your sister If he is old than you start by said bro |
Re: I Caught My Sister's Husband In A Club With Another Ladyy by Chinum: 8:06pm On Jun 19, 2015 |
Although this thread has gone cold, I couldn't help but say my opinion. I can't imagine my own brother seeing me walk inside fire unknowingly but keep shut. Let me say for e.g. I'm ur sister, & years down the line hubby starts to show his true colour only for me to hear that my brother knew all along, but didn't want to break "my marriage". Mehn, it would only take the Grace of God to forgive you. I just hope u did d ryt thing. |
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