Ewuro4:


hehehe



but pick' jokes apart, couples are meant to argue. Even the śhittiest argument. In fact any marriage devoid of it is scary and must be paid attention to. My grouse is not even with his way of life after all she was aware of this prior tying the knot. When couples fight, they should sit and thrash it out , he has no right throwing her out like he did, it's disrespectful and belittling way of treating one's partner and future mother of his children. He's very rude and be reprimanded for that.

His behaviour is way more crude that her runny mouth sef. Or is that how women are being treated in your neck of the woods now??

Obviously he is tired of her acidic mouth and decided to call her bluff

If she begs....he will now be in charge fully (not that he should not be but there should be mutual respect though he is d head)

Let her go and get the elders involved

She has to curb her mouth

No man will just want to deport his wife ordinarily especially as she is preggers

pickabeau1:



Not so

If you read the op

She agreed she has some faults which she agreed to work on

What ticked her off was the fact her did not accept some of her feedback

Then the verbal fisticuffs

She threw down the D word


Everyone condemned her

Then now she brings up a story of condoms

If it is true he is cheating.. Its best she moves out for her sanity.

But if she just said it to troll....

I was being sarcastic.

You have summarized the story well but how is your opinion at the end, that she should leave if he is cheating, different from what others have told her?

cococandy:
it depends on their agreement and arrangement.

While I always encourage everywoman to be independent, if the agreement was that she quit her job to mind the home and kids while he makes the money, then their contributions to the home is considered equal as both are important aspects of family needs.

The home and all in it are equally owned by her in the same percentage as the husband.

Your point would count if they never had the agreement that he would make all the money yet she's not doing anything to help in the home support.

I agree with you. Thats the ideal situation.

But I would advice any woman never to sit at home and leave financial responsibility to one party. Because of situations like this

Just the way the man couldnt have told her to leave his house and drop the keys assuming she was a contributor to it

I can assure you if the house was owned or rented by a woman, We would have heard "My house" more often

Nonso23:


In other words unsubstantiated assumptions.

... the kind of evidence a government tries to get at Edward Snowden and Julian Assange for.

pickabeau1:


Obviously he is tired of her acidic mouth and decided to call her bluff

If she begs....he will now be in charge fully (not hat he should not be but there should be mutual respect though he is d head)

Let her go and get the elders involved

She has to curb her mouth

No man will just want to deport his wife ordinarily especially as she is preggers

Well that was my initial solution- Get his family involved.. And not move an inch from that place.

Well there are other mature and sensible ways to express ones grouse to your partner in a marriage besides Deportation out of where is meant to be her home too.

What is she to him ; his kid thrown into a naughty corner.

Pele pele oh baba olowo.. Ejo oh

5minsmadness:

And so you decided to bring those issues to Nairaland and accuse of cheating? Where? When? Because you cannot apologise for your foul language yesterday now am d culprit?

Are you the cheating husband? ?


Op, you haven't come out to deny this guy's post.. or should we take it that you're simply ignoring the posts because they're false?

Whichever, I really wish you the best. ..

carefreewannabe:


The husband is here.

Now we can look at the issue from different angles.

Lols

Nonso23:

No government will allow people spread treasonable messages freely save for nigeria.

Things will get done with or without permission.

You ladies on this forum are something else. You don't even read between the lines before making your well laid down default assumptions.

Well, Me I don reach my house. My advice is that ladies should be careful with their words. I have opened a thread about it before. Don't use your words to push a guy to the wall then when the guy comes out for battle you start crying blue murder.

Also LYING IS A SIN!

Good night.

carefreewannabe:


I was being sarcastic.

You have summarized the story well but how is your opinion at the end, that she should leave if he is cheating, different from what others have told her?

Its her choice
Others will see if there is a chance to work things out

Wat I found amusing was the staccato posts on the same issue coupled with the assumptions being made

People were projecting

Ewuro4:


Well that was my initial solution- Get his family involved.. And not move an inch from that place.

Well there are other mature and sensible ways to express ones grouse to your partner in a marriage besides Deportation out of where is meant to be her home too.

What is she to him ; his kid thrown into a naughty corner.

Pele pele oh baba olowo.. Ejo oh

Do you prefer he leaves instead

This op is mouthed.... There's a limit anyone can take

pickabeau1:


Its her choice
Others will see if there is a chance to work things out

We don't know what choices she has.

Wat I found amusing was the staccato posts on the same issue coupled with the assumptions being made

People were projecting

Don't know what you are talking about.

Nonso23:


And repercussions will follow with or without my permission

Who asked for your permission?

Nonso23:

Time is 9:57

[size=3pt]9:58[/size]

carefreewannabe:


We don't know what choices she has.



Don't know what you are talking about.

OK

pickabeau1:


Do you prefer he leaves instead

This op is mouthed.... There's a limit anyone can take

Leave to cool off?? Now that sounds mature to me.
He needs to be coached how to treat a woman.

Ewuro4:


Leave to cool off?? Now that sounds mature to me.
He needs to be coached how to treat a woman.

No

Leaves the house for her and rents another accomodation

pickabeau1:


No

Leaves the house for her and rents another accomodation

I give up. No more gentleman left in Nigeria. #Red eyes

Nonso23:


typing takes a few seconds obviously .
Finite element analysis.

You could have predicted it. Time management.

5minsmadness:
You ladies on this forum are something else. You don't even read between the lines before making your well laid down default assumptions.

Well, Me I don reach my house. My advice is that ladies should be careful with their words. I have opened a thread about it before. Don't use your words to push a guy to the wall then when the guy comes out for battle you start crying blue murder.

Also LYING IS A SIN!

Good night.

The prostitute you were chatting with nko?

Ewuro4:


I give up. No more gentleman left in Nigeria. #Red eyes

I don't get you at all

A man is obviously cracking under the strain of a self professed harridan that harries him up an down

So he should stay and suck it up like a gentleman?


Why don't u guys talk to the younger women about the power of the tongue and its potential to destroy a man's psyche.

Nonso23:


I don't deal with predictions.
Real time suits me better. What if time froze and 9:58 never happened

So you couldn't predict that it would be 9:58 when you click submit?

You are not good at making plans.

Nonso23:


No it shows i practice what i read.

But you can't read the clock.

Ewuro4:


Leave to cool off?? Now that sounds mature to me.
He needs to be coached how to treat a woman.

Does the woman need to be coached on how to treat a man? You cant insult a person anyhow you want and insist he sucks it up

ileobatojo:


The prostitute you were chatting with nko?

What are you talking about?

I deny everything