seriousbabe:
@Op, I think you didn't name this thread right
It should have been. " I am so dumb that my boyfriend got married behind my back"

Because seriously, was it love or just your silliness that made you blind to the signs. I am sure there must have been signs.

At least this is a good lesson for you. Next time you would use not just your heart in a relationship, you would also use your head.

About the suicide, you are free to make your decision

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

tania28:
kia that's wickedness n witchchraft. Missed Mixed together,what a waste of her time.

ogele:
u wan die because of man abi? u dey mad. Oya die now. Landlord go rent ur house give another person, ur junior ones go rock ur clothes. Mumu girl. U dey for river soap enter ur eye. Move on with ur life joor. God go surprise u with ur own man. If u never break man heart b4 make God judge d man, but if don scatter men dem heart or f*ck another woman husban make u no just try swear for d man. Na d one wey married women swear 4 u na dey work soooooohhhh

seriousbabe:
@Op, I think you didn't name this thread right
It should have been. " I am so dumb that my boyfriend got married behind my back"

Because seriously, was it love or just your silliness that made you blind to the signs. I am sure there must have been signs.

At least this is a good lesson for you. Next time you would use not just your heart in a relationship, you would also use your head.

About the suicide, you are free to make your decision

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

smileysmiles:
My boy friend told me last month that it's over
between us, I thought about it and I found out
that life without him is meaningless. So, I decided to kill myself. I jumped from my reading table to my moukafoam, I didn't die, I went to an
express road & looked carefully before crossing
the road, nothing happened to me. I drank 4 bottles of lacasera with too much suya but nothing happened, I took a lot of mangoes
without swallowing the seeds, yet I didn't see
hell! I proceeded to another level of concortion....
So, I prepared gizzard and kidney sauce with
strawberry juice and lots of fresh tomatoes, yet
nothing happened. I ate cake, chocolate mixed
with ice cream, still I didn't die. I'm so worried
now cause I Just finished eating fried rice with
chilled maltina and freshfruit salad but nothing still happened to me. I'm really upset right now.
My pals, pls what do I do? Should I try plantain
and chicken with fresh milk. Will it work? Advice
me please. I'm waiting for your advice...

Blackett:
Aww. So sorry to hear that. I'm a guy, and I'm telling you now that no guy who left you in that manner deserves your tears. Just count it that it wasn't meant to be.

wolverineNI:
did she tell you the story about what happened? Did u know if she's has been messing up ever since...so free the guy abeg until she opens up and tell us what really happened.

Blackbeauty:
Please lets all act mature on nairaland..most people come here to seek solace..the world is already a hard place to live in..pls dont make it harder for the op.her predicament is not unheard of.The guys and ladies saying "how will u not know he was planning that","he was never your boyfriend" i really pity u all.it goes to show that most of you are so inexperienced when it comes to relationships..a man will only let u know what he wants you to know.i had a friend who dated a married guy for 4 years.there were no clues at all despite d fact that she was always spending time with him.A client i had last week was crying that her husband went abroad without telling her.As we speak she was abandoned with 3kids and no viable means of livelihood.i withessed a case last year where d lady found pre wedding photoshoots dvd of her husband and another lady.so please op,disregard d thoughtless people coming here to comment ,acting like u had the power to forsee that he was up to no good.you are a strong,educated,black woman..pls there's still a lot to achieve on earth,wonderful guys u hv not met.just find a hobby and invest ur time in it.if you work it would help you heal faster since it keeps u busy.it was never your fault.a judge once said;"dont vouch for any man,u can never know what they are capable of doing till its done".a word to nairalanders,pls its not fun to insult or make caustic comments when issues like this arise.if u have nothing intelligent or thoughtful to say,Shut the hell up!

Blackbeauty:
Please lets all act mature on nairaland..most people come here to seek solace..the world is already a hard place to live in..pls dont make it harder for the op.her predicament is not unheard of.The guys and ladies saying "how will u not know he was planning that","he was never your boyfriend" i really pity u all.it goes to show that most of you are so inexperienced when it comes to relationships..a man will only let u know what he wants you to know.i had a friend who dated a married guy for 4 years.there were no clues at all despite d fact that she was always spending time with him.A client i had last week was crying that her husband went abroad without telling her.As we speak she was abandoned with 3kids and no viable means of livelihood.i withessed a case last year where d lady found pre wedding photoshoots dvd of her husband and another lady.so please op,disregard d thoughtless people coming here to comment ,acting like u had the power to forsee that he was up to no good.you are a strong,educated,black woman..pls there's still a lot to achieve on earth,wonderful guys u hv not met.just find a hobby and invest ur time in it.if you work it would help you heal faster since it keeps u busy.it was never your fault.a judge once said;"dont vouch for any man,u can never know what they are capable of doing till its done".a word to nairalanders,pls its not fun to insult or make caustic comments when issues like this arise.if u have nothing intelligent or thoughtful to say,Shut the hell up!

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

abejide1000:
He must have seen something better in his new wife, that's why we always tell you to be good girls, respect your in-laws and friends, don't double date. Now that he's gone with another lady, your problem now becomes something to be discussed on NL, I shake my head.

@Op, I think you didn't name this thread right
It should have been. " I am so dumb that my boyfriend got married behind my back"

Because seriously, was it love or just your silliness that made you blind to the signs. I am sure there must have been signs.

At least this is a good lesson for you. Next time you would use not just your heart in a relationship, you would also use your head.

About the suicide, you are free to make your decision

gsalvatore:
And you wrote all these without a fvcking paragraph?

Priceless!

favoryte33:
And u quoted him wifout a fu*king paragraph?

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

spicelady:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14months now, and we have even made plans for our wedding.

This afternoon my friend called me and told me that my boyfriend just did his traditional marriage yesterday. I didn't believe until she showed me pictures.
He initially told me that he was going to the village to see his uncle.

I am typing this in tears. How can someone be this wicked
I am actually contemplating suicide right now.

gsalvatore:
Do you know what a paragraph looks like when its staring at your face?

Now, go play with sand kid. I have no Fvck to give.

favoryte33:
u dey craze,u dey mad,u foolish had,,,oya wat again? Stupid boy,,,

gsalvatore:
What are you trying to write? Is that a Coding language? Because you really struggle at stringing a sentence.

Are you really human or some villain character in a Disney Novel?