torpedodaezy:

u be mumu ooooo.
giving birth to a child or aborting it, which one do u prefer.

Jaynaira:
She seems to be dictating ur future wit her!

betrani:
"By Mistake" Hmmm! Not knowing who the father is means she sleeps around!

betrani:

And that's very dangerous! I know these girls that have babies out of wedlock! One of the characteristic things about them is their fear of never finding a guy who will marry them in their current status!

betrani:

So whichever one shows interest in them! All they think about is marriage!

betrani:

Worse of all she was the lady I first had s3x with! After 27 years of my existence on planet earth!

Young03:

prostitutes like u will get pregnant 4 a man and will try to pack all ur problems to a different man..is dt how to get a husband.
Fool, idiot..infact ur d greatest fool i av ever seen...beta anu beta anu, obukwa na aru nama.

NemzySeries:
A gud woman is a gud woman.....if u no wan marry den leave her alone.......

BuddhaPalm:


Olodo.

bid4rich:
She is 29years old, she has a 3 year old daughter by mistake but madly in love with me and she want us to get married this year. Though she is a good and loving person and I dnt see her giving me problem but im afraid of going into this affair with her.

Please, advise accordingly from the abundant of talent and experience God has given to you cos I dont want problem I cannot see.

Thanks

Saintoski:
#WOMEN palaver.....got a similar experience, we both started like two hotcakes, abt 6 months later, she started feelin feverish, she went for test, we discover it was pregnancy n i ask who is responsible cox i know she has a boyfriend bt d guy does nt stay in d state cox she visited d guy recently n dey av bn datin for lik 2 yrs n i met her 6 months ago, but d question is how did u know am responsible for d preg. Dat prompted serious friction, she felt i was questionin her integrity yes i had to, cox for evry action there must b an interior motive,
We battle normally we argue often, we both have ego, pride cox mayb she is endow, n cox mayb am ok, most time we dnt c or talk cox we both av attitude, i only wtd to knw why she said am d father of d unborn child if u cld visit dis guy recently there is possibility u guys had sex, months later she move to d guys family house,...she claim since she didnt c us havin peace or me comin bak to her, bcox i told earlier i needed to knw wat am draggin myself into, and preg reaction drag her to move to d guy family house, i witness it couple of time, i dint knw d guys family house n she left her own schl house bcox she is in her final year , she refuse to pik my calls, i even tot she is out of town cox they were on strike at schl, after lik 2 months she eventually pik my call, we got talkn at 8th month n she told me she gave birth a week ago at d guys family house meanin d guy came into d pic, n from d day we discover she was preg. I already indicated for DNA test, which was nt possible durin d time of pregnancy until after delivery bt facts is 2 men r involve somehow, durin part of d pregnancy i supported her money, food, medication but she is jst a stubborn lady then d battle began,...she gave birth to 2 girls bt 1 died, she sent me som pixes of d baby n we met eventually days later i ask her when can we go for d DNA testin then she became incommunicado, she stop pikn my calls n sms no reply so eventually d guy call me 1day dat he is bm hearin my harrassment n systematically threathn me, so decided well am nt a tout so i called my lawyer to sue her for denyin me of DNA test, everytin exploded in tneir house all wat 2 of them av coverin up unwrap, jst wtd d result to help me make a decision wether to stay or move on, along d line we started comin bak together, she started plannin to leav d guy, then she move in wit me, my neighbor started seein me as daddy over night, month later we eventually went for d test n result said am NOT d father,...but till tomorow she still insisting n by her calcilation dat am d father but she actin as if she wont force it on me bt now we talk n see n visit oursef bt nt under my roof again, some say i shld n others say i shld nt cox am highly confused #pls advice

sagaciousblog:
Nairaland frustrating pple's life since 1800BC.. the op asked a simple question and u r here given 12 reasons he shudnt marry d girl...na ur papa go cum marry am all ur senseless 12 facts are based on wat u think and not personal xperience..
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To d Op, if u love her, marry her jor!

bid4rich:
She is 29years old, she has a 3 year old daughter by mistake but madly in love with me and she want us to get married this year. Though she is a good and loving person and I dnt see her giving me problem but im afraid of going into this affair with her.

Please, advise accordingly from the abundant of talent and experience God has given to you cos I dont want problem I cannot see.

Thanks

harrison12:
tons of advice has been giving already.

You have to consider some things first.

1. Do you too really love her?

2. Are you 100% sure that you will love her daughter later on in the marriage?

3. Know how she got the daughter. Who the father is or just get to know the detailed information as to how she got the child.


Now if you really love her and know very well that you will always love the daughter as if it were yours, then go ahead and marry her.

You know, every woman in her case desires to be with a man cuz they fill a sense of security when they are with a man.

olac21:
Bid4rich..did you later marry her??

bid4rich:



Yes......blessed by God with a baby boy.
I came to realize that everybody make mistakes but the love of God in a mans heart override mistakes and converts it to love. We are doing beautifully well. She is simply the best.

Thanks for all your inspired contributions God bless you all