Lala247:


Teach u wt

mirexxx:
The truth behind why nice guys sometimes finish
last!
It almost seems like most men fall into either the bad
boy or the nice guy category. In my opinion, the ideal
man is neither, but walks that fine line between the
two. While some women say they want a nice guy,
they usually end up dating bad boys. Here's why!




1. Their Personalities Don't Seem Genuine

Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that
nice unless they're a saint. They are busy being nice
instead of being real and women instinctually(if d word exists) don't
trust that. Bad boys "keep it real." Nice guys don't
want to upset the apple cart.


2. They Don't Have Self-Respect!

No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don't set
boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy
doesn't let a woman walk all over him or control him.
Women can't respect a man they can control. No
respect equals no attraction.


3. They're SO Predictable—Which Is Just Boring!

Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they're
attracted to people who are exciting and a bit
unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge.
Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable plus no
excitement plus no challenge equals I prefer a bad
boy.


4. Loving A Bad Boy Is In Our Genes[b]

lolz (not every girl tho)
Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of
doing this with children, they often end up doing it
with bad boys. They think their love will save them.
Nice guys rarely need to be saved.


5. [b]Women Like To Feel Needed

Nice guys don't usually need "to be fixed". Bad boys
usually do, so they become a project. Some women
think if they can "create" the perfect man, he will
never leave them. Also, if they're busy fixing
someone else, they don't have to look at what needs
to be fixed in their own lives.


6. Their Sperm Is Weak

Women are designed to procreate with the strongest
possible genes. Bad boys are sending an
unconscious message that they have great genes,
so they're not afraid of losing the woman by
misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that
they don't think their genes are good enough, so
they won't misbehave.


7. They Have A Fear Of intimacy
If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously
knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she
can never get close enough to him to have to go
there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment,
and that's scary.


8. They Sometimes Have Low Self-Esteem
We don't feel comfortable with people who treat us
better than we treat ourselves. If you don't think
much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing
your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a
way you're not familiar with.


9. The Sex Isn't As Mind-Blowing
Women feel a nice guy won't be good in bed. They
sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice
guy won't be able to take control and get the job
done. A bad boy comes across as being able to
deliver, even though that may not always be the
case.


10. Bad Boys Are Totally Sexy

Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn't hot? I'm
sure there are a few, but they wouldn't be able to get
away with half the stuff they did if they didn't look so
good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes
someone as a nice guy, she means, "He's not hot."


11. They Aren't As Charming

Nice guys don't always know what to say and are
sometimes at a loss for words. Bad boys can be very
charming and know exactly what women want to
hear. However, they eventually switch over to being
selfish. By the time they reveal their true colors, the
woman has fallen for them and has a hard time
letting go.


12. They're Not As Strong Physically

Historically, men have protected women — physically
and otherwise. Bad boys give the illusion of being
able to protect women, while with nice guys, women
aren't so sure. Life is all about balance. Until men
learn how to do that, more often than not, women
will choose the bad boy, until they realize that his
bad qualities outweigh his good ones.



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bad guy to me is a flirt/ player! he put's his arm
around you and act's like he owns you!! he calls
you his girlfriend even when you turn him
down! no matter how many times you turn him
down he NEVER gives up! he is over protective
with you! people are scared of him! he's been in
fights and takes nothing from any one!!

senorova:


My definition of a bad boy was in the context of mirexx's list. And I'm saying those traits do not make an ideal husband...
It's my opinion though...and I understand your point of view.
Goodluck in your relationship

Enegod:
I thought they got put in the friend zone..

mirexxx:
wat do we do now? u should have asked me ystdy

Enegod:
I am asking you today

mirexxx:
limme na am tired

Enegod:
person yansh you?

mirexxx:
goodnight

Lala247:
Nothing wrong with a good guy , aslong as he knows when to b bad

But i get wt u mean about predictable

Lala247:


Yh goodluck with urs too mate
Learn to mind ur biz , u think its only husband ppl r thinking about
Itk

senorova:


Woa...did I step on a nerve?
In all sincerity, I didn't try to pick on you. I was sharing my thoughts that's all. I'm sorry if my posts were contemptible.
Ma binu

agoadiv:
lala always nailing it!!

Lala247:


I dey try

agoadiv:
i sent u a mail n u replied WHO IS DIS ONE AGAIN

Lala247:


Cant remember jare lol too many pms

Dnt knw whose who
Dont want to add des yahoo yahoo boyz .... U feel me

agoadiv:
I de feel u,keep tab jareee [size=8pt][/size]

mirexxx:
nawa oooo
its shocking that some of you don't understand what i mean by bad boy! i'l explain better

terzurum5:
And some guys will be ready to turn bad just to attrack girls.
Life is a choice. You choose what you want. On a personal note i can't just choose a particular pattern of life just to please girls.
One thing i also know is that most of these girls that choose the bad guys end up regreting why they did so. Some may even attemp to lure back the person that was right for them.

lefulefu:

of course i know wetin u mean
most girls love to hang out with cultist coz cultists are bad boys and dem sabi spend on their women but they can be violent on their women.but the problem is dat when their is a cult war most cultist use their girlfriends as shields.cultists are just like the creeps and the blood for yankee.

MzNelly:
I don't want a bad boy.

I want a good boy who'd be naughty just for me.